Below you will learn 162 dominant things to say to your sub that can make you feel more confident and dominant while making your partner feel more submissive and turned on. We cover what to say to your sub during all types of domination, from being sensually dominant to being rough with your sub. We even cover what to say if your sub is acting bratty. You can skip straight to the examples phrases … [Read more...]

This guide will teach you exactly what a switch is in BDSM. It will also explain the motivations along with the pros and cons of being a switch. Towards the end of this guide, you'll also learn how to be a switch along with some very fun ideas to try if you want to switch with your partner. What Is a Switch? In BDSM, the definition of a switch is someone who is willing to or enjoys playing … [Read more...]

A Pleasure Dom is a type of dominant that focuses on providing their submissive with intense pleasure. This guide will teach you more about what a Pleasure Dom is, the differences between them and other types of Doms. You'll also learn 11 Pleasure Dom ideas & techniques to try tonight along with tips for pleasing your Pleasure Dom as a submissive and the 5 common misconceptions about Pleasure … [Read more...]

Are you interested in bondage but have no one to play with? Then this guide to self bondage is for you! You'll learn what self bondage is, why it can be a lot of fun (and sometimes dangerous), and you'll also discover 15 intense ideas for self bondage that you can try as safely as possible. But before I give you the 15 self bondage ideas, we need to cover some groundwork first... What is … [Read more...]

These 17 bondage sex positions are going to restrict and control you in delicious agony, allowing you and your partner to have the most intense bondage sessions and tied up sex of your lives. If you want, you can skip straight to demonstrations of each bondage position, but I would advise you to read this page from start to finish without skipping. This is so that you understand the risks and … [Read more...]

Inside this bondage guide, you’ll learn all you need to know to start exploring it safely. We cover everything from safety concerns to the best bondage materials to safety before wrapping up with some inspiration for your very first bondage scene as a beginner. So strap on for a ride, whether you prefer tying your partner up or… want to be tied up by them. What Bondage Is–and Isn’t Bondage … [Read more...]

In this guide, you are going tol learn about the 18 different types of submissives. We’ve also included multiple examples of the typical behaviors for each of these submissive types. What Type of Sub Are You? Learning about the different types of submissives can help you find your ideal flavor of submission. It can also help you find your ideal partner as some types of dominants are better … [Read more...]

In the following article, you’ll learn what limits are in BDSM and why they’re important. By the time you finish reading, you’ll also understand how to communicate and respect limits–and what to do if yours aren’t respected. Plus, we’ve included a BDSM limits list to help you figure out your own! What Are BDSM Limits? In BDSM, a limit refers to an activity a person doesn’t want to do. For … [Read more...]