While the media might make it seem like it’s always the wife who takes a spanking, there are plenty of wives who enjoy spanking their husbands! Some of our male readers have even asked how to get their wives to spank them. If you’re ready to join the legion of wives who spank, read on to learn everything you need to know about how to spank your husband. Why Spank Your Man? There are … [Read more...]

When you think of female domination, you might envision scenarios that are quite hardcore. However, that doesn't have to be the case. Female domination comes in many flavors, including gentle femdom in which consenting partners engage in sexual power exchange without harsh punishments, mental or physical pain, or humiliation. It's the perfect domination style for people who are just starting out … [Read more...]

For many people, orgasm is an important part of sex and masturbation, while others enjoying mastering the art of ruined orgasm. But, what is a ruined orgasm? In short, it's the result of stopping or changing stimulation to prevent a full or satisfying orgasm. Ruined orgasms can play into a variety of sexual activities. There are two types of ruined orgasms - full and partial. Fully ruining an … [Read more...]

While you might think of submissive rules as things that a submissive must do, these rules help both partners. The submissive partner knows what is expected of them and what they must strive to do, while the dominant partner uses those rules to provide training, reward, and punishments. By using rules for your submissive and tools such as BDSM contracts, you can engage in safe, sane, and … [Read more...]

Some of the specific kinks within the BDSM community aren't for everyone. Pony play is one such kink. This style of role play can be elaborate, involved, and expensive, but it can also be rewarding and intimate in unexpected ways. What Is Pony Play? Pony play is a type of pet play like kitten play or dog play, among others. Dog and pony play are similar in that actual dog and horse training uses … [Read more...]

What does domination mean to you? If you're like many people, you might have some pretty extreme ideas. But domination doesn't need to be extreme at all. In fact, sensual domination can be enjoyed without pain at all, and it's practiced by all sorts of people. Although you might think of everything whips and chains and punishment when it comes to domination, that's not the only flavor of … [Read more...]

Stumble upon any community dedicated to BDSM or D/s relationships, and you're sure to find someone discussing topping from the bottom, usually in derision. It's apparently a bad thing that's also common. But what is topping from the bottom and how do you avoid it if it's going to be bad for your relationship? In a BDSM scene or D/s relationship, one person acts as the top (also dominant, … [Read more...]

An intense BDSM scene can leave you feeling a variety of things: giddy, orgasmic, capable, connected, exhausted, sore, cold, inspired, and even hungry. For a submissive who receives stimulation and pain, you can expect particular feelings. Those expectations extend after the scene, too, when you might experience sub drop. Subspace To understand sub drop, you have to understand what happens right … [Read more...]