Inside this bondage guide, you’ll learn all you need to know to start exploring it safely. We cover everything from safety concerns to the best bondage materials to safety before wrapping up with some inspiration for your very first bondage scene as a beginner. So strap on for a ride, whether you prefer tying your partner up or… want to be tied up by them. What Bondage Is–and Isn’t Bondage … [Read more...]

In this guide, you are going tol learn about the 18 different types of submissives. We’ve also included multiple examples of the typical behaviors for each of these submissive types. What Type of Sub Are You? Learning about the different types of submissives can help you find your ideal flavor of submission. It can also help you find your ideal partner as some types of dominants are better … [Read more...]

In the following article, you’ll learn what limits are in BDSM and why they’re important. By the time you finish reading, you’ll also understand how to communicate and respect limits–and what to do if yours aren’t respected. Plus, we’ve included a BDSM limits list to help you figure out your own! What Are BDSM Limits? In BDSM, a limit refers to an activity a person doesn’t want to do. For … [Read more...]

Negotiating in BDSM is vital. This complete guide will teach you why you should always negotiate before a BDSM scene and more importantly…how to do it! Why Negotiation in BDSM is Important Because BDSM often means greater physical or emotional risk than vanilla sex, kinksters have developed a few tools to promote safety and pleasure as much as possible. Negotiation is one of those tools. … [Read more...]

Safe words–you’ve heard of them, but are they really necessary? And does it make a difference which safe word(s) you use? By the time you finish this article, you’ll understand why we recommend safe words, how to pick a good one, and what to do when someone uses one to minimize any harm. If you'd prefer, you can skip straight to the end if you just want safe word examples. What Is a Safe … [Read more...]

It seems like BDSM is full of acronyms–including its own name! If you’ve ever heard of SSC, RACK, or PRICK, you might be confused about their meaning and use. Fortunately, we’re here to clear that up and introduce you to one more ethical framework for BDSM that you might find helpful…CCCC! What Are SSC, RACK, PRICK, and CCCC? These acronyms are all different BDSM philosophies that promote … [Read more...]

Below, you’ll read about the 19 most common types of dominants and their styles of domination…along with a lot of kinky examples of what they can do to dominate their submissive.  Whether you’re into BDSM for the kinky sex or the whole shebang, including the lifestyle and community, you’ll come across some common terms. Dominant and submissive as among the most common. What is a dominant? … [Read more...]

Below you will learn 162 dominant things to say to your sub that can make you feel more confident and dominant while making your partner feel more submissive and turned on. We cover what to say to your sub during all types of domination, from being sensually dominant to being rough with your sub. We even cover what to say if your sub is acting bratty. You can skip straight to the examples phrases … [Read more...]

While the media might make it seem like it’s always the wife who takes a spanking, there are plenty of wives who enjoy spanking their husbands! Some of our male readers have even asked how to get their wives to spank them. If you’re ready to join the legion of wives who spank, read on to learn everything you need to know about how to spank your husband. Why Spank Your Man? There are … [Read more...]