Domination is delicious...when done right. When done wrong, it's weak, weird, and dangerous. This domination guide will teach you how to dominate your partner in bed in a way that's intensely sexually satisfying, awkwardness-free, and is so enjoyable that it keeps them coming back for more. Here's how I structured this domination guide: 6 Domination Ground Rules Before you dive and learn … [Read more...]

A sub (aka submissive) is someone who gives up control to someone else in a BDSM dynamic or relationship. This guide on being a good submissive will teach you what a sub is (and isn't), the 8 dangerous red flags to look out for in doms, and, most importantly, 23 behaviors & tips on how to be a good sub. What is a Sub? From the outside, a sub is someone without power, who must take what … [Read more...]

A dominant, often shortened to "dom", is someone who has and uses power that is given to them by their partners (typically a submissive) in erotic and kinky situations. Inside, you'll learn... Before we start, I want to cover some of the important terms you should know: Dom - A dom is one half of the dominant/submissive relationship. Domme - You might have seen people use "domme" … [Read more...]

The sensory deprivation kink involves blocking out or obscuring one or more of your senses - sight, smell, sound, touch, or taste. Why do this? To increase the intensity of your BDSM scenes or sex life. In this guide, you'll first learn exactly what it is and how to explore it safely, but you can skip straight to the sensory deprivation kink ideas, examples and techniques if you like. What … [Read more...]

At its most basic, primal play is about giving in to your instincts and letting your sexual and kinky energy fly free, which can lead to intense physical sensations, emotions, connection, and wild sex with your partner. This primal play guide will teach you everything you need to know about primal play, why people find it appealing, what techniques make it more intense, and how to do it safely so … [Read more...]

You're going to learn 103 submissive things to say to your dom in bed, during a scene, or even while texting them. I've made separate lists of example submissive phrases for brats, masochists, slaves, pleasure subs, as well as a list of phrases that apply to most types of subs. You'll learn how to say the right things for every situation and relationship, so you'll feel more confident as a … [Read more...]

Below you will learn 162 dominant things to say to your sub that can make you feel more confident and dominant while making your partner feel more submissive and turned on. We cover what to say to your sub during all types of domination, from being sensually dominant to being rough with your sub. We even cover what to say if your sub is acting bratty. You can skip straight to the examples phrases … [Read more...]

This guide will teach you exactly what a switch is in BDSM. It will also explain the motivations along with the pros and cons of being a switch. Towards the end of this guide, you'll also learn how to be a switch along with some very fun ideas to try if you want to switch with your partner. What Is a Switch? In BDSM, the definition of a switch is someone who is willing to or enjoys playing … [Read more...]

A Pleasure Dom is a type of dominant that focuses on providing their submissive with intense pleasure. This guide will teach you more about what a Pleasure Dom is, the differences between them and other types of Doms. You'll also learn 11 Pleasure Dom ideas & techniques to try tonight along with tips for pleasing your Pleasure Dom as a submissive and the 5 common misconceptions about Pleasure … [Read more...]

Are you interested in bondage but have no one to play with? Then this guide to self bondage is for you! You'll learn what self bondage is, why it can be a lot of fun (and sometimes dangerous), and you'll also discover 15 intense ideas for self bondage that you can try as safely as possible. But before I give you the 15 self bondage ideas, we need to cover some groundwork first... What is … [Read more...]