Praise kink has gotten more attention in recent years, but it’s still not well understood by many, including some kinksters. If you don’t fully understand praise kink, fear not This guide will teach you everything you need to know including what it is,  how to “do” praise kink, what lines work best, and how to have a great time doing it. What Is A Praise Kink? Praise kink, which is sometimes … [Read more...]

In dominance and submission relationships, submissives often wear collars around their necks. If you’ve ever wondered about the significance of these collars or want to know how you can incorporate a collar into your own relationship, this guide will teach you everything you need to know. What Does a D/s Collar Symbolize? Being collared means being committed. It symbolizes a … [Read more...]

Dom drop, also known as top drop, is a change in mental state that some dominants or tops experience after a BDSM scene. In this guide, you’re going to learn more about it, what causes dom drop, the techniques to manage it and how to prevent dom drop from happening. What Is Dom Drop? Dom drop often involves low feelings such as depression or guilt. Those feelings can seem all the … [Read more...]

Humiliation kink play can be an incredible way to push sexual boundaries and bring you closer with your partner. But for some people, the idea of erotic humiliation is confusing or even a turnoff. I'm going to explain exactly what erotic humiliation is, what it's not and how to humiliate your partner erotically (or be humiliated by them) in a way that avoids negative consequences. What it … [Read more...]

While the media might make it seem like it’s always the wife who takes a spanking, there are plenty of wives who enjoy spanking their husbands! Some of our male readers have even asked how to get their wives to spank them. If you’re ready to join the legion of wives who spank, read on to learn everything you need to know about how to spank your husband. Why Spank Your Man? There are … [Read more...]

When you think of female domination, you might envision scenarios that are quite hardcore. However, that doesn't have to be the case. Female domination comes in many flavors, including gentle femdom in which consenting partners engage in sexual power exchange without harsh punishments, mental or physical pain, or humiliation. It's the perfect domination style for people who are just starting out … [Read more...]

For many people, orgasm is an important part of sex and masturbation, while others enjoying mastering the art of ruined orgasm. But, what is a ruined orgasm? In short, it's the result of stopping or changing stimulation to prevent a full or satisfying orgasm. Ruined orgasms can play into a variety of sexual activities. There are two types of ruined orgasms - full and partial. Fully ruining an … [Read more...]

While you might think of submissive rules as things that a submissive must do, these rules help both partners. The submissive partner knows what is expected of them and what they must strive to do, while the dominant partner uses those rules to provide training, reward, and punishments. By using rules for your submissive and tools such as BDSM contracts, you can engage in safe, sane, and … [Read more...]

Some of the specific kinks within the BDSM community aren't for everyone. Pony play is one such kink. This style of role play can be elaborate, involved, and expensive, but it can also be rewarding and intimate in unexpected ways. What Is Pony Play? Pony play is a type of pet play like kitten play or dog play, among others. Dog and pony play are similar in that actual dog and horse training uses … [Read more...]