This guide will teach you exactly what a switch is in BDSM. It will also explain the motivations along with the pros and cons of being a switch. Towards the end of this guide, you'll also learn how to be a switch along with some very fun ideas to try if you want to switch with your partner. What Is a Switch? In BDSM, the definition of a switch is someone who is willing to or enjoys playing … [Read more...]

Are you interested in bondage but have no one to play with? Then this guide to self bondage is for you! You'll learn what self bondage is, why it can be a lot of fun (and sometimes dangerous), and you'll also discover 15 intense ideas for self bondage that you can try as safely as possible. But before I give you the 15 self bondage ideas, we need to cover some groundwork first... What is … [Read more...]

Inside this bondage guide, you’ll learn all you need to know to start exploring it safely. We cover everything from safety concerns to the best bondage materials to safety before wrapping up with some inspiration for your very first bondage scene as a beginner. So strap on for a ride, whether you prefer tying your partner up or… want to be tied up by them. What Bondage Is–and Isn’t Bondage … [Read more...]

In this guide, you are going tol learn about the 18 different types of submissives. We’ve also included multiple examples of the typical behaviors for each of these submissive types. What Type of Sub Are You? Learning about the different types of submissives can help you find your ideal flavor of submission. It can also help you find your ideal partner as some types of dominants are better … [Read more...]

In the following article, you’ll learn what limits are in BDSM and why they’re important. By the time you finish reading, you’ll also understand how to communicate and respect limits–and what to do if yours aren’t respected. Plus, we’ve included a BDSM limits list to help you figure out your own! What Are BDSM Limits? In BDSM, a limit refers to an activity a person doesn’t want to do. For … [Read more...]

Negotiating in BDSM is vital. This complete guide will teach you why you should always negotiate before a BDSM scene and more importantly…how to do it! Why Negotiation in BDSM is Important Because BDSM often means greater physical or emotional risk than vanilla sex, kinksters have developed a few tools to promote safety and pleasure as much as possible. Negotiation is one of those tools. … [Read more...]

Safe words–you’ve heard of them, but are they really necessary? And does it make a difference which safe word(s) you use? By the time you finish this article, you’ll understand why we recommend safe words, how to pick a good one, and what to do when someone uses one to minimize any harm. If you'd prefer, you can skip straight to the end if you just want safe word examples. What Is a Safe … [Read more...]

It seems like BDSM is full of acronyms–including its own name! If you’ve ever heard of SSC, RACK, or PRICK, you might be confused about their meaning and use. Fortunately, we’re here to clear that up and introduce you to one more ethical framework for BDSM that you might find helpful…CCCC! What Are SSC, RACK, PRICK, and CCCC? These acronyms are all different BDSM philosophies that promote … [Read more...]