Is there anything hotter than a woman clad in PVC or a corset with a flogger or paddle in her hand as she stands over her bound submissive partner? Maybe there's fear or another gleam in his eye because he secretly relishes the pain or teasing that's to come. With the right partner, props and even costume, that image could be you!Before We Begin Let's address the elephant in the room, shall … [Read more...]
How To Be Dominant In The Bedroom Even If You’re Nervous/Unconfident
Many people believe that being dominant or submissive or switch is something that is ingrained from birth. They believe that they can't learn how to be dominant in the bedroom or become more submissive, but even if you're a born dominant, you still need to gain the knowledge and experience to be a good domme. And you can learn to dominate your man skillfully even if it's not a driving force of … [Read more...]
What Is BDSM: In-Depth Beginners Guide & Discover Why It’s So Dam Enjoyable!
With a major motion picture in the works and three books that have topped best-seller lists for weeks, 50 Shades of Grey has taken the world by storm. The book and its sequels by E.L. James have been credited for bringing BDSM into the mainstream, but what exactly is BDSM?You can certainly check out the long, dry version of the history of BDSM in the Wikipedia article, but on the Bad Girls … [Read more...]
Figging 101: From Ancient Punishment to Modern Pleasure
No one will blame you if you haven't heard of figging (or only discovered it through porn or E.L James' "50 Shades" series). It's not the most common BDSM activity; although, it is popular with certain kinksters. Figging combines anal play with punishment in a way that is certainly hard to forget, and you'll learn how to safely try it in this post!You're not alone if you've never heard of … [Read more...]
9 Orgasm Denial Games for Testing Your Limits and Driving Yourself Wild
The idea of denying an orgasm sounds like it doesn't mesh with sexual pleasure or fun, so why would someone be into orgasm denial? This kink is actually pretty common, however. Discover how denying or delaying an orgasm can lead to a bigger payoff in the end! Orgasm Denial? What the Heck Is That? Orgasm denial is a type of sex game that falls under the umbrella of orgasm control. In short, … [Read more...]
BDSM Subspace: The Good, The Dangers & Aftercare
BDSM promises to be a spanking good time, and we've recommended it as a way to keep your sex life interesting. But you should know what you're getting into before you dive in head first. Subspace is one of the things you might encounter but don't know anything about if you don't do your research first.What Is Subspace? You don't have to be in the BDSM scene long to hear the phrase … [Read more...]
In-Depth BDSM Checklist (Get Yours Here) & Why You Need One
A checklist for BDSM activities? That sounds more like coursework than fun intercourse. However, hear us out! A BDSM checklist can be a practical way to communicate your desires and experience levels to your partner -- and to learn theirs in turn. Of course, filling out a checklist for BDSM can also be fun and can introduce you to new activities to try!Why a BDSM Checklist? A BDSM checklist … [Read more...]
13 Deeply Intense Bondage Positions For Your Next BDSM Scene
Many people love tying up their partner or being tied up, and if you're one of them, you may find yourself looking for new styles and bondage positions. Whether you're a beginner or more experienced, want full-body bondage or something less intense, you'll find an option to explore in this list of thirteen bondage positions.1. Spread Eagle Spread Eagles is a great BDSM position because it's … [Read more...]
Sub Drop: Why It Happens, Considerations & The Cure to Sub Drop
An intense BDSM scene can leave you feeling a variety of things: giddy, orgasmic, capable, connected, exhausted, sore, cold, inspired, and even hungry. For a submissive who receives stimulation and pain, you can expect particular feelings. Those expectations extend after the scene, too, when you might experience sub drop.Subspace To understand sub drop, you have to understand what happens … [Read more...]
Total Power Exchange: The Ultimate D/s Relationship
Do you love your D/s relationship? Do you crave even more power (or to give up even more)? Total power exchange might be for you, but this kinky lifestyle isn't something that works without knowledge and preparation.What Is Total Power Exchange? Total power exchange (TPE) is a specific type of power exchange, or D/s, relationship, that some couples practice. While most D/s exchanges happen … [Read more...]
