What does domination mean to you? If you're like many people, you might have some pretty extreme ideas. But domination doesn't need to be extreme at all. In fact, sensual domination can be enjoyed without pain at all, and it's practiced by all sorts of people. Although you might think of everything whips and chains and punishment when it comes to domination, that's not the only flavor of … [Read more...]
The Complete BDSM Aftercare Guide: Learn How To Do It Right.
Before you run head-first into any BDSM scene, you need to know about aftercare. BDSM aftercare is an essential part of every scene that ensures no lasting harm; although it may be more minimal if a scene isn't intense. Learn how aftercare helps mitigate the profound effects an intense scene can have on your body and mind. Why BDSM Aftercare? A BDSM scene can be a powerful thing, even if … [Read more...]
Choking During Sex: There Are Real Risks But it’s Really Sexy!
A surprising number of women seem to like being choked during sex - and a few even like choking their partners. Many of their partners are happy to oblige in this activity. This is definitely one activity that presents risks, but that very fact makes it alluring enough for many people to try! Choking During Sex Is Dangerous - But Fun! The main reason why many people never try choking during sex … [Read more...]
BDSM for Beginners: What, Why and How
You've read about it or seen it on the big screen, but have you ever actually tried BDSM (short for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission and sadism and masochism)? This is one of those sexual activities that is so much fun, it'll leave you wondering why you never tried before! BDSM isn't for everyone, but it is something that many people are interested in. They're just not sure where … [Read more...]
7 Tricks to Get Your Boyfriend to Spank You in the Bedroom
So you want to be spanked. That's great! But you may be wondering to yourself, "How do I get my boyfriend to spank me?" You can always leave a copy of Fifty Shades of Grey on your nightstand, but there's no guarantee he'll read it. No, there are much better methods for getting your boyfriend to accommodate your spanking needs. How to get my boyfriend to spank me is a common question, and we will … [Read more...]
What Is S&M and How Can It Transform Your Sex Life?
Rihanna and Madonna have sung about it and there's a blockbuster Hollywood film about S&M based on a best-selling erotic trilogy, but exactly what is S&M? S&M, or sadomasochism, is simply part of the BDSM spectrum; although, many people use the words interchangeably. However, each element of BDSM - bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism - can be … [Read more...]
Consensual Bondage: The Ultimate Guide to BDSM Contracts
If you'd done some research into BDSM relationships, you may have heard of BDSM contracts. A contract is an easy and uniform way for a submissive and dominant, even people who have never met before, to establish protocol, boundaries and safety within a scene. Although it might seem silly or even like overkill to those who are new to BDSM and bondage, using a contract can make it easier for you to … [Read more...]
6 Wild BDSM Games For Keep Things Hot
Whether you've dabbled in BDSM before or you're new to it — check out this guide to BDSM if you want to learn more — BDSM games are a great way to turn the electricity up to "10" and create memories in the bedroom you won't soon forget! BDSM games serve a variety of goals. They might help you connect with your partner, blow off steam, try a new toy, train your submissive if you're into … [Read more...]
12 Ways To Use Nipple Play For More Intense Sex
Nipple play can be incredibly hot and satisfying for you and your man. Nipple play can be used to initiate sexual arousal and to add to sexual arousal during sex. When aroused, the nipple becomes erect. This is from the release of oxytocin, the feel-good hormone. As long as the nipple area is being stimulated, the oxytocin continues to release. And that can lead to more intense orgasms and a … [Read more...]
Light Bondage: Powerplay & Enhancing Your Sex Life
Not too long ago, when I would hear the word" bondage", I never would have immediately gotten excited or thought "how fun." For me, that changed the night my boyfriend and I went to a hotel room for a night of fun he had spent weeks planning! More great sex tips here. I was thinking romance and candle light. While there were candles and music, there was also a blindfold, hand and leg … [Read more...]
