Even if you love a good spanking, you might not have heard of impact play. Impact play is a common element of BDSM that can be a ton of fun and test your kinky limits. If you want to learn what impact play is, how to do it safely, or ways to spice it up, you're in the right place. What Is Impact Play? Impact play is any sort of play that involves hitting your partner. Spanking is a classic … [Read more...]

If you’ve got a feisty personality or like laying down the law, you might enjoy brat BDSM.This is a common form of BDSM and style of submission that you will better understand and even be able to try out for yourself after you’re done reading this guide! What Is a Brat? In BDSM, a brat is a specific style or personality of submissive. As the name suggests, the sub is rebellious and … [Read more...]

CNC stands for “consensual non-consent.” Of course, that might seem a bit oxymoronic if you’re not familiar with CNC kink. With CNC, you’ve previously consented to the idea of scenes that you don’t expressly consent to. In those scenes, your partner might take you by force. Because of this, some people associate CNC kink with rape kink. However, forced sex is only one type of CNC kink, as … [Read more...]

What do dom and sub mean? These words describe roles in D/s relationships that can combine kinky, sexual, and romantic elements. If you keep reading, you’ll get a better feel for what Dom and sub mean sexually. Plus, we’ve included some examples and ideas to inspire your own D/s relationship!If you’re pretty clear on the basic meaning of these ideas, you might want to skip to examples of … [Read more...]

BDSM role play lets you temporarily step into the shoes of another character and can spice up your sex life and enable you to throw off your inhibitions.By playing different roles, you can learn more about yourself and your partner. Whether you’re just getting started or are looking for ways to expand on your current activities, you’ll find plenty of BDSM role play ideas below. Safety … [Read more...]

Humiliation kink play can be an incredible way to push sexual boundaries and bring you closer with your partner. But for some people, the idea of erotic humiliation is confusing or even a turnoff. I'm going to explain exactly what erotic humiliation is, what it's not and how to humiliate your partner erotically (or be humiliated by them) in a way that avoids negative consequences. What it is - … [Read more...]

Are you a sub who has looked for ways to better serve and show your adoration to your dom? On the other hand, perhaps you’re in the dominant role and want to train your submissive partner and reinforce your power exchange relationship. Either way, submissive tasks are one way to achieve that, and if you keep reading, you’ll find out how sub tasks can help you in more ways than you imagined and get … [Read more...]

Dom drop, also known as top drop, is a change in mental state that some dominants or tops experience after a BDSM scene. In this guide, you’re going to... learn more about it, what causes dom drop, the techniques to manage it and how to prevent dom drop from happening. What Is Dom Drop? Dom drop often involves low feelings such as depression or guilt. Those feelings can seem all the more … [Read more...]

For some people, their kinky personas are such an important aspect of their lives that they want to live a BDSM lifestyle. While you might imagine this lifestyle to be all leather and pain, that’s not necessarily the case. Once you understand how a BDSM lifestyle is tailored to your interests and comforts, you can design the perfect one for you (and any partners)! BDSM and the BDSM … [Read more...]