Do you love your D/s relationship? Do you crave even more power (or to give up even more)? Total power exchange might be for you, but this kinky lifestyle isn't something that works without knowledge and preparation. What Is Total Power Exchange? Total power exchange (TPE) is a specific type of power exchange, or D/s, relationship, that some couples practice. While most D/s exchanges happen … [Read more...]

BDSM promises to be a spanking good time, and we've recommended it as a way to keep your sex life interesting. But you should know what you're getting into before you dive in head first. Subspace is one of the things you might encounter but don't know anything about if you don't do your research first. What Is Subspace? You don't have to be in the BDSM scene long to hear the phrase … [Read more...]

Many people believe that being dominant or submissive or switch is something that is ingrained from birth. They believe that they can't learn how to be dominant in the bedroom or become more submissive,  but even if you're a born dominant, you still need to gain the knowledge and experience to be a good domme. And you can learn to dominate your man skillfully even if it's not a … [Read more...]

No one will blame you if you haven't heard of figging (or only discovered it through porn or E.L James' "50 Shades" series). It's not the most common BDSM activity; although, it is popular with certain kinksters. Figging combines anal play with punishment in a way that is certainly hard to forget, and you'll learn how to safely try it in this post! You're not alone if you've never heard of … [Read more...]

When you learn how to be submissive during sex, you will experience a whole new world of kinky, incredible sex. First, keep in mind that being submissive and power exchange is a two-way street, which means... You'll have to talk to your man about it if you're interested. It's best to talk to him about it well before the fact and not during the heat of the moment. Switching from regular sex to … [Read more...]

Before you run head-first into any BDSM scene, you need to know about aftercare. BDSM aftercare is an essential part of every scene that ensures no lasting harm; although it may be more minimal if a scene isn't intense. Learn how aftercare helps mitigate the profound effects an intense scene can have on your body and mind. Why BDSM Aftercare? A BDSM scene can be a powerful thing, even if … [Read more...]

The more you learn about BDSM, the more you realize that it can be done safely. But if you lack knowledge, you could potentially hurt yourself or your partner. This is why you never want to rush into BDSM games without doing research and abiding by the following BDSM rules. Why Do We Need Rules In the First Place? BDSM isn't usually dangerous, but some activities can wreak havoc on your … [Read more...]