An intense BDSM scene can leave you feeling a variety of things: giddy, orgasmic, capable, connected, exhausted, sore, cold, inspired, and even hungry. For a submissive who receives stimulation and pain, you can expect particular feelings. Those expectations extend after the scene, too, when you might experience sub drop. Subspace To understand sub drop, you have to understand what happens … [Read more...]

Even if you consider yourself a little kinky, you might be surprised by one fetish: pet play. Pet play can range from playful to extreme BDSM. This fetish isn't for every kinkster, but if you want to set your humanity aside (or train an animal to be his best), keep reading to find out what animal roleplay is about. Pet play is a specific type of roleplay (get inspired to role play with your … [Read more...]

Do you love your D/s relationship? Do you crave even more power (or to give up even more)? Total power exchange might be for you, but this kinky lifestyle isn't something that works without knowledge and preparation. What Is Total Power Exchange? Total power exchange (TPE) is a specific type of power exchange, or D/s, relationship, that some couples practice. While most D/s exchanges happen … [Read more...]

BDSM promises to be a spanking good time, and we've recommended it as a way to keep your sex life interesting. But you should know what you're getting into before you dive in head first. Subspace is one of the things you might encounter but don't know anything about if you don't do your research first. What Is Subspace? You don't have to be in the BDSM scene long to hear the phrase … [Read more...]

Many people believe that being dominant or submissive or switch is something that is ingrained from birth. They believe that they can't learn how to be dominant in the bedroom or become more submissive, but even if you're a born dominant, you still need to gain the knowledge and experience to be a good domme. And you can learn to dominate your man skillfully even if it's not a driving force of … [Read more...]

No one will blame you if you haven't heard of figging (or only discovered it through porn or E.L James' "50 Shades" series). It's not the most common BDSM activity; although, it is popular with certain kinksters. Figging combines anal play with punishment in a way that is certainly hard to forget, and you'll learn how to safely try it in this post! You're not alone if you've never heard of … [Read more...]

When you learn how to be submissive during sex, you will experience a whole new world of kinky, incredible sex. First, keep in mind that being submissive and power exchange is a two-way street, which means... You'll have to talk to your man about it if you're interested. It's best to talk to him about it well before the fact and not during the heat of the moment. Switching from regular sex to … [Read more...]