No one will blame you if you haven't heard of figging (or only discovered it through porn or E.L James' "50 Shades" series). It's not the most common BDSM activity; although, it is popular with certain kinksters. Figging combines anal play with punishment in a way that is certainly hard to forget, and you'll learn how to safely try it in this post! You're not alone if you've never heard of … [Read more...]
Learn How To Be Submissive & Have Kinkier Sex
When you learn how to be submissive during sex, you will experience a whole new world of kinky, incredible sex. First, keep in mind that being submissive and power exchange is a two-way street, which means... You'll have to talk to your man about it if you're interested. It's best to talk to him about it well before the fact and not during the heat of the moment. Switching from regular sex to … [Read more...]
The Complete BDSM Aftercare Guide: Learn How To Do It Right.
Before you run head-first into any BDSM scene, you need to know about aftercare. BDSM aftercare is an essential part of every scene that ensures no lasting harm; although it may be more minimal if a scene isn't intense. Learn how aftercare helps mitigate the profound effects an intense scene can have on your body and mind. Why BDSM Aftercare? A BDSM scene can be a powerful thing, even if … [Read more...]
8 Vital BDSM Rules To Keep It Safe, Sane & Crazy-Kinky
The more you learn about BDSM, the more you realize that it can be done safely. But if you lack knowledge, you could potentially hurt yourself or your partner. This is why you never want to rush into BDSM games without doing research and abiding by the following BDSM rules. Why Do We Need Rules In the First Place? BDSM isn't usually dangerous, but some activities can wreak havoc on your … [Read more...]
6 Wild BDSM Games For Keeping Things Hot
Whether you've dabbled in BDSM before or you're new to it — check out this guide to BDSM if you want to learn more — BDSM games are a great way to turn the electricity up to "10" and create memories in the bedroom you won't soon forget! BDSM games serve a variety of goals. They might help you connect with your partner, blow off steam, try a new toy, train your submissive if you're into strict … [Read more...]
In-Depth BDSM Checklist (Get Yours Here) & Why You Need One
A checklist for BDSM activities? That sounds more like coursework than fun intercourse. However, hear us out! A BDSM checklist can be a practical way to communicate your desires and experience levels to your partner -- and to learn theirs in turn. Of course, filling out a checklist for BDSM can also be fun and can introduce you to new activities to try! Why a BDSM Checklist? A BDSM checklist … [Read more...]
12 Ways To Use Nipple Play For More Intense Sex
Nipple play can be incredibly hot and satisfying for you and your man. Nipple play can be used to initiate sexual arousal and to add to sexual arousal during sex. When aroused, the nipple becomes erect. This is from the release of oxytocin, the feel-good hormone. As long as the nipple area is being stimulated, the oxytocin continues to release. And that can lead to more intense orgasms and a … [Read more...]
Breast Bondage: Easy Harnesses Even If You’ve Never Used Rope Before
Breast bondage is a fairly common element in BDSM. It looks hot and sometimes painful and intricate, but it's often fun, more comfortable than you think and easier to bind a partner (or have one bind your breasts!) than you might think. Why Breast Bondage? It looks good, which is why so much bondage photography features this type of bondage. Rope bondage inspired by eastern countries such as … [Read more...]
33 Wild Femdom Ideas To Dominate Your Man Completely
Is there anything hotter than a woman clad in PVC or a corset with a flogger or paddle in her hand as she stands over her bound submissive partner? Maybe there's fear or another gleam in his eye because he secretly relishes the pain or teasing that's to come. With the right partner, props and even costume, that image could be you! Before We Begin Let's address the elephant in the room, … [Read more...]
16 BDSM Punishments for Effective Behavior Training
Training is an element that some couples incorporate into their BDSM relationships. Punishment is used to correct unwanted behavior, and some dominants strive to find the perfect punishment. The following BDSM punishment ideas and advice will help you find what works for you and your relationship. How Do BDSM Punishments Work? An important element of many D/s relationships is discipline … [Read more...]
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