Below, you’ll read about the 19 most common types of dominants and their styles of domination…along with a lot of kinky examples of what they can do to dominate their submissive.  Whether you’re into BDSM for the kinky sex or the whole shebang, including the lifestyle and community, you’ll come across some common terms. Dominant and submissive as among the most common. What is a … [Read more...]

Below you will learn 162 dominant things to say to your sub that can make you feel more confident and dominant while making your partner feel more submissive and turned on. We cover what to say to your sub during all types of domination, from being sensually dominant to being rough with your sub. We even cover what to say if your sub is acting bratty. You can skip straight to the examples phrases … [Read more...]

While the media might make it seem like it’s always the wife who takes a spanking, there are plenty of wives who enjoy spanking their husbands! Some of our male readers have even asked how to get their wives to spank them. If you’re ready to join the legion of wives who spank, read on to learn everything you need to know about how to spank your husband. Why Spank Your Man? There are … [Read more...]

You’ve probably heard of the idea of a submissive wife. The idea often goes with traditional and/or religious values, but that’s not always the case.This article will introduce you to multiple ways of being a submissive wife (there are probably more than you realize), the pros and cons, and give you some ideas to get started if you think it will benefit your marriage. What Is a Submissive … [Read more...]

In dominance and submission relationships, submissives often wear collars around their necks.If you’ve ever wondered about the significance of these collars or want to know how you can incorporate a collar into your own relationship, this guide will teach you everything you need to know. What Does a D/s Collar Symbolize? Being collared means being committed. It symbolizes a … [Read more...]

When you think of female domination, you might envision scenarios that are quite hardcore. However, that doesn't have to be the case. ..Female domination comes in many flavors, including gentle femdom in which consenting partners engage in sexual power exchange without harsh punishments, mental or physical pain, or humiliation. It's the perfect domination style for people who are just starting out … [Read more...]

For many people, orgasm is an important part of sex and masturbation, while others enjoying mastering the art of ruined orgasm. But, what is a ruined orgasm? In short, it's the result of stopping or changing stimulation to prevent a full or satisfying orgasm. Ruined orgasms can play into a variety of sexual activities. There are two types of ruined orgasms - full and partial. Fully ruining an … [Read more...]

Praise kink has gotten more attention in recent years, but it’s still not well understood by many, including some kinksters. If you don’t fully understand praise kink, fear not This guide will teach you everything you need to know including what it is,  how to “do” praise kink, what lines work best, and how to have a great time doing it. What Is A Praise Kink? Praise kink, which is sometimes … [Read more...]

Even if you love a good spanking, you might not have heard of impact play. Impact play is a common element of BDSM that can be a ton of fun and test your kinky limits. If you want to learn what impact play is, how to do it safely, or ways to spice it up, you're in the right place. What Is Impact Play? Impact play is any sort of play that involves hitting your partner. Spanking is a classic … [Read more...]

If you’ve got a feisty personality or like laying down the law, you might enjoy brat BDSM.This is a common form of BDSM and style of submission that you will better understand and even be able to try out for yourself after you’re done reading this guide! What Is a Brat? In BDSM, a brat is a specific style or personality of submissive. As the name suggests, the sub is rebellious and … [Read more...]