Many people love tying up their partner or being tied up, and if you're one of them, you may find yourself looking for new styles and bondage positions. Whether you're a beginner or more experienced, want full-body bondage or something less intense, you'll find an option to explore in this list of thirteen bondage positions. 1. Spread Eagle Spread Eagle is a great BDSM sex position because … [Read more...]

An intense BDSM scene can leave you feeling a variety of things: giddy, orgasmic, capable, connected, exhausted, sore, cold, inspired, and even hungry. For a submissive who receives stimulation and pain, you can expect particular feelings. Those expectations extend after the scene, too, when you might experience sub drop. Subspace To understand sub drop, you have to understand what happens … [Read more...]

Do you love your D/s relationship? Do you crave even more power (or to give up even more)? Total power exchange might be for you, but this kinky lifestyle isn't something that works without knowledge and preparation. What Is Total Power Exchange? Total power exchange (TPE) is a specific type of power exchange, or D/s, relationship, that some couples practice. While most D/s exchanges happen … [Read more...]

Breast bondage is a fairly common element in BDSM. It looks hot and sometimes painful and intricate, but it's often fun, more comfortable than you think and easier to bind a partner (or have one bind your breasts!) than you might think. Why Breast Bondage? It looks good, which is why so much bondage photography features this type of bondage. Rope bondage inspired by eastern countries such as … [Read more...]

Stumble upon any community dedicated to BDSM or D/s relationships, and you're sure to find someone discussing topping from the bottom, usually in derision. It's apparently a bad thing that's also common. But what is topping from the bottom and how do you avoid it if it's going to be bad for your relationship? In a BDSM scene or D/s relationship, one person acts as the top (also dominant, … [Read more...]

Some of the specific kinks within the BDSM community aren't for everyone. Pony play is one such kink. This style of role play can be elaborate, involved, and expensive, but it can also be rewarding and intimate in unexpected ways. What Is Pony Play? Pony play is a type of pet play like kitten play or dog play, among others. Dog and pony play are similar in that actual dog and horse training … [Read more...]

Even if you consider yourself a little kinky, you might be surprised by one fetish: pet play. Pet play can range from playful to extreme BDSM. This fetish isn't for every kinkster, but if you want to set your humanity aside (or train an animal to be his best), keep reading to find out what animal roleplay is about. Pet play is a specific type of roleplay (get inspired to role play with your … [Read more...]

Training is an element that some couples incorporate into their BDSM relationships. Punishment is used to correct unwanted behavior, and some dominants strive to find the perfect punishment. The following BDSM punishment ideas and advice will help you find what works for you and your relationship. How Do BDSM Punishments Work? An important element of many D/s relationships is discipline … [Read more...]

The more you learn about BDSM, the more you realize that it can be done safely. But if you lack knowledge, you could potentially hurt yourself or your partner. This is why you never want to rush into BDSM games without doing research and abiding by the following BDSM rules. Why Do We Need Rules In the First Place? BDSM isn't usually dangerous, but some activities can wreak havoc on your … [Read more...]