You’ve probably heard of the idea of a submissive wife. The idea often goes with traditional and/or religious values, but that’s not always the case. This article will introduce you to multiple ways of being a submissive wife (there are probably more than you realize), the pros and cons, and give you some ideas to get started if you think it will benefit your marriage. What Is a Submissive … [Read more...]

In dominance and submission relationships, submissives often wear collars around their necks.If you’ve ever wondered about the significance of these collars or want to know how you can incorporate a collar into your own relationship, this guide will teach you everything you need to know. What Does a D/s Collar Symbolize? Being collared means being committed. It symbolizes a … [Read more...]

When you think of female domination, you might envision scenarios that are quite hardcore. However, that doesn't have to be the case. .. Female domination comes in many flavors, including gentle femdom in which consenting partners engage in sexual power exchange without harsh punishments, mental or physical pain, or humiliation. It's the perfect domination style for people who are just starting … [Read more...]

For many people, orgasm is an important part of sex and masturbation, while others enjoying mastering the art of ruined orgasm. But, what is a ruined orgasm? In short, it's the result of stopping or changing stimulation to prevent a full or satisfying orgasm. Ruined orgasms can play into a variety of sexual activities. There are two types of ruined orgasms - full and partial. Fully ruining an … [Read more...]

Praise kink has gotten more attention in recent years, but it’s still not well understood by many, including some kinksters. If you don’t fully understand praise kink, fear not This guide will teach you everything you need to know including what it is,  how to “do” praise kink, what lines work best, and how to have a great time doing it. What Is A Praise Kink? Praise kink, which is sometimes … [Read more...]

Even if you love a good spanking, you might not have heard of impact play. Impact play is a common element of BDSM that can be a ton of fun and test your kinky limits. If you want to learn what impact play is, how to do it safely, or ways to spice it up, you're in the right place. What Is Impact Play? Impact play is any sort of play that involves hitting your partner. Spanking is a classic … [Read more...]

If you’ve got a feisty personality or like laying down the law, you might enjoy brat BDSM. This is a common form of BDSM and style of submission that you will better understand and even be able to try out for yourself after you’re done reading this guide! What Is a Brat? In BDSM, a brat is a specific style or personality of submissive. As the name suggests, the sub is rebellious and antagonist. … [Read more...]

You’re not alone if you’re unsure what CNC is. You're going to learn the definition of CNC play and get some great CNC ideas if you want to try out consensual non-consent for yourself.CNC stands for “consensual non-consent.” Of course, that might seem a bit oxymoronic if you’re not familiar with CNC kink. With CNC, you’ve previously consented to the idea of scenes that you don’t expressly consent … [Read more...]

What do dom and sub mean? These words describe roles in D/s relationships that can combine kinky, sexual, and romantic elements. If you keep reading, you’ll get a better feel for what Dom and sub mean sexually. Plus, we’ve included some examples and ideas to inspire your own D/s relationship!If you’re pretty clear on the basic meaning of these ideas, you might want to skip to examples of … [Read more...]

BDSM role play lets you temporarily step into the shoes of another character and can spice up your sex life and enable you to throw off your inhibitions. By playing different roles, you can learn more about yourself and your partner. Whether you’re just getting started or are looking for ways to expand on your current activities, you’ll find plenty of BDSM role play ideas below. Safety … [Read more...]