There's a saying that men think about sex every six seconds and while that might not be true, women often aren't far behind men in the frequency of sexual thoughts. It's natural to think about sex (and we'd even suggest that it can be fun, too), but if you can't think about anything else, find yourself engaging in risky behavior or feel disturbed because of all your sexual thoughts, it might be … [Read more...]

Most of us have heard of the yoni, the ancient Sanskrit word for the vagina. But you're not alone if you've never heard of lingam, the word that translates to "wand of light” and refers to the male counterpart. Of course, if you're a bad girl, you've probably spent plenty of time with a lingam, but you'd call it a "penis" or "dick."  Not only did the ancient Hindus have their own words for this … [Read more...]

Some people enjoy gentle lovemaking, but that's not the only type of sex you can have. Learning how to have rough sex can unleash your own wild side, allowing you to tap into those animalistic urges and really blow off steam. And while hardcore sex doesn't ring everyone's bell, the unique trust dynamic that must occur for rough sex to remain safe, sane and consensual can actually bring you closer … [Read more...]

If your man has a foot fetish, then you are going to want to know how to give your man a foot job. Don't be weirded out if your man confesses a foot fetish. It's among one of the most common fetishes (and the list of fetishes is long) [1, 2 pp 89-110]. It may even be common because the areas of the brain concerned with the genitals and feet are so close together [3]. Read more about foot … [Read more...]

There are several reasons why you might want an alternative to personal lubricant. It might be to save money, because you ran out of lube or because you want to use a natural product. You might even be worried that the lube you can buy from a sex toy store or pharmacy isn't good for you. Before you insert something into your vagina that might not be good for you, read our advice on lube … [Read more...]

Once you've tried all the usual sex positions, blow job techniques and tips on talking dirty, it's time start thinking about something new and exciting to try with your man. That's exactly why I have put together this list of 5 kinky sex tips. You shouldn't feel compelled to try every single one of these sex tips. Some may seem a little too kinky for you. That's perfectly fine. Hopefully though … [Read more...]