Below, you'll learn how to explore and satisfy your spit kink. First, I'll cover the important beginner stuff, then you'll learn tips and techniques for spitting on your partner's body, spitting on their face, spitting in their mouth, and an additional 10 ways to satisfy your spit kink. What Is a Spit Kink? A spitting kink or fetish is just what it sounds like: some people find spitting … [Read more...]

Putting your fingers in your partner's mouth during sex can be hot or "meh" or weird, depending on the context. This guide will explain the 8 reasons why people do it, how to prepare your hands and 9 tips to make putting your fingers in your partner's mouth extra kinky. 8 Reasons Why Guys Put Their Fingers in Your Mouth During Sex Why does anyone do anything during sex? The … [Read more...]

Below you will learn 13 positions for holding hands during sex (& oral sex!), along with 4 intimate ways to hold hands while kissing your partner, and what it means if your partner holds your hands during sex. First, a few general handholding tips. You can hold hands in multiple ways: Ultimately, you need to experiment with different types of hand holding during sex, … [Read more...]

You're about to learn how to scratch your partner during sex to drive them wild, why guys like to be scratched during sex, and what it means when a girl scratches your back. You can jump straight to the techniques for scratching his back during sex, but my advice is to do a little prep first. This includes getting consent and some general hygiene and nail maintenance to make sure there aren't … [Read more...]

There is a right way to use lube (more pleasure, sensation & easier orgasms) and a wrong way to use lube (pain, irritation & lousy sex). This guide will show you how to use it the right way. Main lube rule - Use lube where you want extra moisture and less friction. This might mean putting it around an opening, inside your vagina/anus, applying it to the body part or item that will be … [Read more...]

Below are 257 kinks and fetishes with full definitions and explanations. Consider this the encyclopedia of kinks. You can browse this list while asking yourself, "What fetishes do I have?" or see if anything on this list of different kinks is something you want to try with your partner. You can even make a game of seeing who's tried the most things by turning this into a kink and fetish … [Read more...]

Below are 21 ways to turn your man on fast and have him crave you with every fiber of his being. Some of these techniques are subtle, meaning he won't even realize you're trying to turn him on. Others are more obvious, but still incredibly effective if you want to excite your man. The list starts with 4 foundational principles for turning any guy on. From tip #5 onwards, I'll give you … [Read more...]

This guide will teach you how to shave down there so you are completely smooth, soft, and bump-free. We'll start with the basics, but you can skip to the other sections by clicking the links below: If You've Never Shaved Your Vulva Before First, figure out where to shave. You can shave the pubic hair from your vulva (outside of your vagina), perineum, anus (12 anal sex tips), and the … [Read more...]

Below are 19 obvious and hidden signs that your husband, boyfriend, or partner doesn't want you sexually. I'll also teach you 7 things you can do to fix it so he wants you sexually again. There are many possible signs that a guy isn't into you sexually. Maybe he never initiates physical contact, maybe you're worried that his attraction is fading, or maybe he says it directly, "I love you, but … [Read more...]

It's often difficult to be romantic when life gets in the way. That's why we created this guide on how to have deeply romantic sex with your man. The first tips and ideas will lay the foundations. Then you'll learn the most romantic sex positions and erotic techniques for when you get physical. Hot, fast and even rough sex can be fun, but balancing it out by having slow, romantic sex is a … [Read more...]