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If your man has a foot fetish, then you are going to want to know how to give your man a foot job. Don’t be weirded out if your man confesses a foot fetish. It’s among one of the most common fetishes (and the list of fetishes is long)
[1, 2 pp 89-110]. It may even be common because the areas of the brain concerned with the genitals and feet are so close together [3].
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However, even people without foot fetishes can enjoy foot jobs (you might enjoy giving one even if you’re not that into feet), and they’re not just for men. You’ll learn this and more as you keep reading about foot jobs!
These step-by-step instructions will show you what you need to do to give your man a satisfying and fulfilling foot job every time.
1. Foot Job Preparation
Before you get down to it, there are a few things that you are going to need to take care of. The first thing is making sure that your toenails are trimmed and filed down so that there is no risk of them accidentally catching or cutting the soft skin of his penis or testicles).
Next, make sure that your feet are clean and don’t have any strong odors. There is nothing worse when giving your man a foot job than for your feet to smell of toejam! So make sure to give them a good scrub beforehand.
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You may want to file your feet so they’re soft and smooth. Some people achieve this with a pedicure but you can get the same results at home if you soak them for a bit then use a file on them. Finish off with lotion for tootsies that are soft (and smell good!).
Although you can do the preparation mentioned above by yourself, you can also include it as part of foreplay. Perhaps you have your man scrub and dry your feet before applying lotion, which can be quite intimate not to mention relaxing. It can also play into foot worship and femdom.
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If you like the idea of incorporating prep as foreplay, you can also consider nail painting. Having someone pay close attention to those details is a great way to bond and feel appreciated. We recommend using a nail polish that is opaque, and that dries quickly so you can give two coats. A quick dry topcoat or drying drops help to reduce drying time from several hours to minutes. However, you may want to be careful still to avoid ruining your pedicure or getting nail polish all over.
Once you are confident that your feet are clean, it’s time to start with some foot foreplay.
2. Foot Foreplay
Foot foreplay is pretty easy. You can start by just slowly dragging your feet all over your man’s body and massaging him with them. You can do this while you are both lying down in bed. But you may find it more fun to take a dominant role and sit on a chair, while your man lies down on his back. Or you can sit on the bed, while your man stays lying down. Once you give him a few foot jobs, you will find the positions that you both really enjoy and are comfortable in.
While rubbing your feet over your man’s body, try gently putting some of your toes in his mouth so that he can suck on them. Then slowly drag them down his body towards his crotch. Then start rubbing his inner thighs with your feet, before slowly and carefully moving one or both of your feet towards his testicles. Very slowly and gently start to massage his balls with your feet. To do this just slowly press them and apply a tiny amount of pressure before releasing it and then applying some more pressure. You can also use your toes to ‘tickle’ them.
Try a little massage oil to make your feet glide along his skin effortlessly. If you don’t have massage oil, you can use olive or coconut oil from the kitchen! Lotion can actually make things sticky, even though it may sound like a good idea. Silicone-based lube will work in a pinch.
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Other forms of foreplay can include your partner licking and kissing your feet.
After a few minutes of foot foreplay, it’s time to start actually giving your man a foot job.
3. How To Give A Good Foot Job
You can give your man a foot job with any part of your foot. But most find that it’s easiest when they use their soles (the bottom of their feet) as you can slightly bend your sole as well as your toes. So unless otherwise stated, use the sole of your foot when giving your man a foot job.
Start by using your sole to push your man’s penis against his stomach either when he’s lying down or sitting or standing in a position where your foot can reach his cock. Slowly rub it up and down along the underside of his cock so that you are rubbing his Corpus Spongiosum and frenulum. You can then run your toes over it and even open your toes and put his penis in between them.
After doing this for a while, use both of your feet to ‘grab’ his penis between both soles. You now need to start masturbating his penis like you would as if you were giving him a handjob. Just use a simple up and down motion. Don’t worry if his penis slips out of your grip. It’s going to happen as your feet probably haven’t done this kind of thing many times before and aren’t as dexterous as your hands. You can keep masturbating your man’s penis like this until he reaches orgasms and cums. That’s all there is to it.
However, you can change things up with these techniques:
- Use one foot to press his penis against his stomach while stroking him with the other foot.
- He can suck on the toes of one foot while you stroke him with the other.
- Your partner can ejaculate onto your toes or feet when you’re done. You may want a cloth to clean up or to do it in the shower to make cleanup easy.
- Press against his perineum (the area of skin between his penis and anus) with your toes for an external prostate massage.
- Talk dirty to your man as you’re giving him a foot job. Dirty talk can enhance any sexual activity.
- Add a blindfold or some light bondage to enhance the sexual tension. Check out our guide to light bondage.
- Spreads your toes around his penis to stroke him. This is easiest if you have long and limber toes!
You can also check out erotic media for inspiration, perhaps even to mimic what they’re doing on screen! It shouldn’t be hard to find images or videos with foot jobs as they have available since the 1980s [4].
If you find that your feet get tired quickly when giving him a foot job with the soles of your feet, then try switching to using other parts of your feet, which will also feel different. For instance, the heel can easily provide pleasure, the flat part of your sole makes for broader sensations, and you can pinch or use the tip of your toes for pinpoint pressure. Remember to move your leg to vary the sensation.
While this post focuses on the penis, remember that you can rub other body parts with your feet, too. You can use your toes to penetrate him anally; although, we completely understand if this isn’t for everyone. Talking about what you want to try and how is crucial to a good sex life (Read: How to Have Better Sex).
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Obviously, you can try his balls. Be gentle as you massage them between the top of one foot and the bottom of the other. Use one foot to press/lift his balls up toward his penis. If he likes a little pain with his pleasure, you can pinch his sac with your toes or even step on it with the ball of your foot or the heel of a shoe. This leads us to our next point. Off course, anything that involves pain should be discussed between both of you beforehand.
4. Foot Job With Shoes?
Those with a foot fetish may be very keen to wear shoes while giving their man a foot job. This is fine, provided your man is comfortable with it. The only problem with wearing shoes while giving your man a foot job is that you greatly increase the chances that you will accidentally hurt him.
Pick shoes that are made of soft or sleek material. Think leather or perhaps a sleek, patent pump. If you’re giving a foot job because your man has a foot fetish, you might choose the perfect shoes together and only use them for this activity. In fact, you shouldn’t be surprised if simply seeing you in certain shoes gets him aroused!
You probably don’t want to use your stinky gym shoes (unless you’re both into that). Beware of grommets, buckles or even Velcro, which could be quite uncomfortable if it rubbed against your man’s penis or snagged his ballsac. The angle you use to give a foot job may be different when wearing shoes because of this.
If you actually wear your shoes outside, you might want to avoid using the sole of your shoes to stimulate your man as it’s full of bacteria (men can get bacterial infections, too!). Furthermore, check out the tread of the shoe. Unless you specifically want to make him uncomfortable or inflict pain, a tread that’s less pronounced or even a flat sole might be the best option when you give a foot job while wearing shoes.
5. Foot Jobs For Her
Although it’s less common, some women like foot jobs where you rub their vulva and clitoris with your foot, too. Try grinding your heel into her clitoris for intense stimulation. Some women even masturbate similarly by deeply bending their leg and resting their pubic bones on their heels while crouching/kneeling to provide clitoral stimulation.
Check out this post with more masturbation techniques if you really want to branch out.
Penetration is technically possible, and the big toe is the easiest to insert vaginally — or anally. It’s super important that your nails are smooth if you’re trying penetration, and using lube is a good idea, too.
“If you want to be the on the receiving end, you can bring this up with your man. It will be easier if you’ve already tried foot play, but even if he hasn’t broached the subject you can. You might start by suggesting that the two of you list two or three things you’d like to try in bed and include receiving a foot job as one of your items. This gives both of you a chance to try something new.
Alternatively, if you’re in bed and grinding against his leg, you might just slide further down his shin toward to his foot to see how he reacts.
And that’s how your give your man a foot job (and how to go about getting your own!). I highly recommend that you do some of your own experimenting with your man to find out what positions and foot job techniques you both enjoy the most. You may find that he enjoys it even more when you are wearing tights while giving him a foot job.
Resources
Plenty of people love foot jobs and talk about it online. There are communities and pages with NSFW content. But if you’re not necessarily looking for hardcore, graphic media, SexInfo101 has a good guide to foot jobs.
Cosmopolitan even has an article about foot jobs.
Frequently Asked Questions
FAQ #1 – Do you have to have a foot fetish to enjoy giving or getting foot jobs?
Not at all! There are lots of ways to give or receive pleasure with all sorts of body parts and even other items. If it feels good and doesn’t hurt anyone, why wouldn’t you want to do it?
FAQ #2 – Should I be worried about bacteria while giving a food job?
While this isn’t a huge concern, it’s probably best to clean your feet before giving a foot job. Different parts of the body play host to different types of bacteria [5] and the feet can get certain types of infections from fungus (Athlete’s foot is a common example [6]). Avoid giving a foot job if you have any sort of infection or if your partner has a genital infection (and especially if you have any cuts or wounds on your feet).
FAQ #3 – How should I prepare my feet for a foot job?
A pedicure isn’t necessary, but it covers cleansing and filing of skin and nails so they’ll be smooth. You might want to do an at-home pedicure to avoid the risk of getting an infection [7]. Scrub your feet including between your toes. Don’t forget to smooth out any jagged skin on the bottom of your feet. Once clean and dry, apply a moisturizing lotion so your skin will be smooth as well.
You can paint your toes any color that your partner might find enticing, or you can leave them bare for a more natural look. Apply lube either to your feet or to your partner’s penis for a smooth experience.
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I don’t agree with cleaning your feet because of the smell, unless they are very dirty. Many men as myself love the smell of a womens feet after she’s been at work all day or the gym.
Hi Rob,
The truth is that different people like different things. Communicating this to your partner is the important part.
Sean
I on the other hand like clean and pretty feet. No dirt, no smell! But if they are clean and pretty I’ll adore them. My gf uses her pretty feet on me every night. She knows how to please me.
I LOVE IT WHEN A WOMAN GIVES ME A FOOTJOB! I DON’T CARE IS HER FEET ARE CLEAN I JUST LOVE IT WHEN HER FOOT HEEL IS STANDING ON THE HEAD OF MY COCK!
Thanks for the advice my new bf has this thing with feet and I really wanna make him feel great so I’ll do this. Thanks for all the details it really helps. Wish me good luck it’s my first time doing this xD
make sure you’re toenails are painted, that makes feet 10x sexier, especially bright outstanding colours like blue, green, purple, yellow etc.
No yellow
I sure wish I had a girlfriend that would give me one. Thing is, I don’t. Your man is a lucky guy.
i wish i could find someone for that soon….!!
I’d sure appreciate having a man willing to help me learn how to perform these techniques on them.
I’m 42 years old. I’ve hidden and denied my foot thing my entire life. Telling a girl would have been mortifying. Out of the question. Because of this I’ve spent a big portion of bedroom time pretending not to look, avoiding that area and praying to not be spotted looking.
I met a new girl 2 years ago. Got on well. Started messing about early on. For some crazy reason I had a moment of rare bravery and when the subject came up in jokey terms like hundreds of other times for me with the girl slightly mocking men who like that. I just blurted it out. “You won’t like me then…” for an ever so brief moment she seemed to cringe, then looked at me like “not you??” But she regained her composure super quick and actually said “you know what, it’s not actually weird on you tbh, maybe cos I fancy you so much”
The relief was unreal. But the best thing was 2 days later when she came in from the shower and sweetly said “I did my feet specially for you cos I wanna make you happy and that’s what you like” it was the sweetest thing ever. And ever since she’s happily entertained anything related with enthusiasm and never made me feel one bit bad or embarassed. I don’t wanna advise all men to open up cos I don’t know all girls reactions. But all I’ll say is I personally wish I’d done it years ago and am so so happy I did with her. What an amazing woman. Anyway, I’m off to go show her this article cos she been saying she wants to give me a proper foot job. Peace and love.
Tom x
My man loves feet and after reading this I am going to try it out on him!
Thanks for the guidance but do you have anymore info on possible positions for foot jobs? I like to shake it up and move around 🙂
Hey Syd,
You should take a look at the blow job positions section here, but instead of giving him a blow job, completely switch the position around so that your feet are where your head is supposed to be.
Sean
Used this on my man. He told me he loved me. He’s never done that before now.
Hi Lilly,
So glad he enjoyed it 🙂
Sean
sure?????
My man has a foot fetish so I’m getting a pedi today wish me luck tonight?
what a lucky man?
Agree with Rob;that tangy stink makes me hard as a rock.Whether she was in heels with no hose;trouser socks;or knee highs.And don’t get me started with dirty soles!!!!
THE SEXY INNOCENT FEET THEORY:
Okay here is how it goes.. “dirt is dirt….and stink is stink…don’t get me wrong!..those who like to smell feet did not start their journeys by smelling feet..they started slowly by admiring the toes, then the soles, then wishing if thy can suck on them or lick them, then thats when the next level kicks in..i.e. sucking on dirt or smelling feet..you know am not lying….i aint no hypocrite..at last this much i know everyone agrees… it is a down hill spiral after this! after this, you want your girl to insert her toes inside your anus, then her WHOLE feet, then before you know it….wait for it…cause this is legendary….you like to be penetrated. As men you should want to penetrate..that is nature..when you want to be penetrated…it a different world all together.. it is not from this world….be careful…. when you defy nature you defy the fact that you are part of it. And when you defy yourself, you are allowing something else to take power over you..in other words you start to worship and live for something else….just a step back..and think of all the names, why do you think they call it foot worship….just think about it?
Interesting take on this, just no sure I completely follow you on it.
By no means you wrote a great article on this, but as a male foot fetishist myself, I have some things you might want to change. First of all, most men with a foot fetish will LOVE the smell of dirty stinky feet. And second of all, I am pretty sure that it’s mostly guys that have foot fetishes, not girls (since you referred to “give your man a footjob” at the beginning); but I definitely acknowledge that both genders can like feet.
But yet again, this article was written for women to give their “non-foot-fetishist husband” a footjob, so I guess it would make sense (but in my opinion I doubt that they would find a footjob as satisfying as fellatio).
Wrong talk for yourself, that “majority” might be your friends and yourself, do not talk with mere emphiric experience. Many of my friends and including myself agreed that a clean lady specially of her feet is sexier. Should I say that’s a ” the majority”?
What if your like, at a family dinner type thing and sitting across the table from each other? Would it work the same way?
Lol, it may not be the best idea!
Sean
oh yeah… a footjob under those conditions would be so arrowsing… my fantacy.just the very thought is horning me up
Good stuff. I have a nylon covered foot fetish. My fiance usually will moisturize her feet after washing then off with soap and water, then slip on some nylons and prance around in them to turn me on. However, I will admit, she isn’t the best at footjobs. I’ve hinted we watch a footjob video together but she got somewhat offended. I got her to do incredible handjobs by watching handjob instructionals myself and showing her how to do it as if I was just coming up with it off the top of my head. Perhaps I’ll have to do the same for footjobs.
I like being under the girls beautiful nail painted feets,It makes me more excited to do sex with her & i love her high heels,toe nail painted & sandals.
My man you know what’s happening
I have a shoe fetish. I buy used shoes at Goodwill and spray the insides with obsession perfume. I’m not into sweaty stuff. I prefer ballerina flats.
I rub my genitals with one shoe while sniffing the other. I have no idea whose shoes they belonged to, but my imagination runs wild as does the organisms!
footjobs are fun!
Thanks this was very helpful! I have recently started talking with a guy who has a foot fetish. It surprised me at first but to each their own. I have never been with someone who has a foot fetish and wanted to at least know some basics. Any other suggestions I should know?
Well for me, and this is just my turn on really, so it is just an opinion. I love when a woman has soft soles, I love when a woman has clean feet and don’t stink, this is just me. When the toe nails are painted and have the right length (ladies if your toenails are cut down way short I find it a turn off, I prefer a length of toenail that is past your actual toe) I am profoundly attracted to the big toe! In fact when I get a footjob the insole and the soles are nice but it is the big toe that is gripping and rubbing from the underside of my penis to the tip of my dick that drives me wild! Trust me I don’t last long when I see that. ?
I really want to try this. I just don’t know how to bring it up to my boyfriend.
You can make him have a foot fetish its surprisingly easy
I love beautiful clean sexy feet with french tip pedicure. And I love that because its my intrest my wife put in the effort to become MY footjob expert!
How do you give a foot job without your legs becoming tired quickly or your thigh muscles not getting tensed up that’s the problem I have is with the thigh muscles becoming tight and the calf muscles
Toes on the front of the penis slowly massaging. The arch of the other foot behind.
My ex-girlfriend gave the best footjobs ever! She has super sexy toes and soft soles, and she knew exactly how to rub my cock with her toes. She loved when I cum on her feet! Sometimes she would just let me fuck her feet! I cummed on her feet so many times!
Hi. I am going to give a footjob to my boy and wanted to know wich legwear is the best: regular socks, pantyhose or rest socks?
Ask him. Communication is the key to great sex.
When I found this second on foot jobs I told my wife and she asked me to be sure to post that I enjoy foot worship. I’ve done it for years. She especially likes to make a game of it. Sometimes as I lick away she tells me all about the prostate milking she’s going to give me. If she’s feeling like telling me a honey do list of things she wants done that’s the time. In other words we role play with it. I like the fact that it’s one sided too. My wife refuses to lick or kiss my feet.
I had a question about socks. My new s/o hasn’t expressed any kinks to me, where as in the past I’ve experienced a very open about kinks relationship. I want to be super supportive of my new s/o like I was with my past ones. He likes a specific brand of socks and I don’t know if he has actually expressed this sock/foot fetish to any of his previous s/os in a serious manner or not. When he expressed it to me it was light heartedly but I found it in his search history recently and want to know more about it… that being said, how would I give a foot job with socks? I’m scared of hurting him, he’s never used lube before, and videos don’t give much direction..
talk to him