These foreplay tips will bring new levels of sexual satisfaction to your man.
There is a a myth out there that men don’t enjoy foreplay. That just isn’t true, men love it. The reason why some believe that men don’t enjoy foreplay is because they get turned on so quickly and easily.
But just because they get turned on fast and easily doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy foreplay.
In fact if you do foreplay right, your man will ultimately have a much stronger and more enjoyable orgasm when he does cum.
Great foreplay is not just about kissing, caressing and fondling him. There is a lot more to it. Before you even get to that stage, there is many different things you can do to turn him on and get him in the mood. I call this Pre-Foreplay.
On The Phone
Before you even see your man, there is a lot of things you can do to get him in the mood for sex and thinking about what pleasures lie ahead. The simplest thing is to just send him a text message. You can check out the article on sending your man dirty text messages to get an idea of what to send him.
Another thing you can do is obviously call him. If you do, just keep it short and sweet. Say hi and then let him know what you are planning for later, then end the call first to leave him wanting more.
How You Dress & Look
Guys are visual. They get turned on by what they see. It’s something that I talk about a lot. More importantly you should already be using this to your advantage.
So what can I do to take advantage of this Sean?
If you want to turn your man on and get him in the mood before you even start foreplay, then something short or tight is going to help to get him in the mood for sex. So ditch the dungarees and UGG boots and replace them with a sexy skirt and a pair of stilettos. I hope you get the idea here.
As well as dressing sexy, don’t forget about your hair and make up too. Do you look sexier with your hair down? In a pony tail? In a bun? Or in a different style? Try experimenting a little bit with what works best at turning your man on.
What about make up? Does a certain lipstick make your lips look more enticing or does a certain eye shadow make your eyes glimmer?
Try doing a little experimentation with how you look to see what is best for turning your man on and putting him in the mood.
This all seems so obvious, right? The thing is that many people don’t see these as foreplay tips and forget about them when trying to turn their man on.
Okay, so now that I have covered the pre-foreplay tips, it’s time to learn some great foreplay techniques and tactics for making him horny and hot for you.
If you have read the kissing section of the Bad Girl’s Bible, then you will have picked up some great tips on how to properly kiss your man.
But maybe you don’t have time to read a whole section dedicated to the art of kissing your man. Here are some quick tips to kissing your man passionately.
Tongue & Lips & Teeth – Don’t forget that when you are kissing your man it’s not just about using your lips. You can use your tongue to massage his lips as well as your man’s tongue. Your taste buds also gives him a slightly rougher sensation than your lips.
From time to time you can also use your teeth to gently nibble his lips and tongue. Just remember that you are not biting him, but just squeezing his lips or tongue between your teeth.
Outside His Mouth – There are more great places to kiss your man than on his lips and mouth. Try slowly moving across his face as you kiss him. Go from his mouth, across his cheek to his neck and then slowly make your way up his neck to his ear lobes.
Then after kissing him a bit on his ears and ear lobe, move back across his cheek to his mouth. If you want, you can do the same to the other side of his face.
Kissing From Mouth To Cock – A really natural way to transition from kissing your man to giving him a blowjob is slowly moving down from his mouth, down his neck, then down his chest and onto his crotch, kissing him all the way as you are moving downwards. Speaking of blow jobs, I have put together a very detailed video that will teach you how to give your man a great blow job. It will teach you the exact techniques you can use that will leave him squirming in pleasure. Click here to watch it now.
Ok, that’s it for kissing. For more tips, make sure to read the kissing section.
Touching Your Man
Sean, I’m a grown woman, I know that I have to touch my man to turn him on! I thought this article was about foreplay tips?
It is about foreplay tips! But how you touch your man man plays a crucial role during foreplay.
Let me ask you a few questions:
Do you start touching him without provocation or for no reason at all? Or do you wait for him to start touching you first?
Do you rub, massage, caress, grab and hold your man or do you just rest your hands on his back when having sex with him?
These are important questions that you need to ask yourself. Most guys enjoy being with someone who is sometimes an aggressor and sometimes more submissive and receptive to them.
Please, please keep this in mind when you want to initiate foreplay with him or he is initiating it with you. There are so many different ways to touch your man that give him a range of different sensations. Here are just a few ideas to get your brain thinking about how to touch him:
- You can softly wrap your hands around his neck and pull him in to kiss him.
- You can put your hands under his shirt and run your nails up and down his back.
- You can grab his ass outside his trousers.
- You can massage his back.
- You can teasingly run your fingers along the inside of his leg, right up to his crotch.
- You can run your fingers through his scalp to massage it.
- When he’s not expecting it, you can even tickle him to keep things exciting.
Now have a think about how you like your man to touch and caress you and simply do it back to him.
Dominance & Submission
Don’t worry, I’m not necessarily talking about whips and chains!
I talking about how you act in bed with your man.
Too often people fall into a routine. This is a perfectly fine and good thing for a job or for keeping a regular savings account.
However it’s poison for your relationship.
Alternating between dominance and submission is a great way to avoid this routine.
Now like I said, it doesn’t have to involve whips and chains. What I am talking about is much more subtle. Here’s some things you can do to become either more dominant or submissive:
- If your man is always the one who initiates sex, then try becoming a little more dominant and be the one who initiates it sometimes. Not every time, just sometimes.
- If you are always the dominant one, then the next time during foreplay, try getting down on your knees to give him a blowjob.
- Try talking dirty to your man and ordering him around. Order him into bed. Order him to go down on you and eat you out. Order him to give you a back massage.
- The next time during foreplay, push your man down onto the bed and straddle him, taking control.
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