How To Breastfeed A Man – Getting Your Boobs Sucked

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Almost all people have a range of fantasies. A very common fantasy that both men and women have is breastfeeding. Whether that is a wife breastfeeding her husband or just a girlfriend breastfeeding her boyfriend. Most people who have tried it will tell you that it’s an incredibly intimate and fulfilling sexual act for both partners.

Breastfeeding your husband on a consistant basis is called an adult nursing relationship (ANR). However, before you can start breastfeeding your man, you need to talk to him about it first.

Milk Or No Milk

Part of the allure of breastfeeding for a lot of couples is the idea of a woman feeding and nourishing her man with her breast milk. However in order to lactate, you usually have to become pregnant first. Otherwise, you’ll need to take a supplement to start producing breast milk.

How To Get Him To Suck Your Boobs

From talking to students, I have found that by far the easiest way to bring up breastfeeding with your partner is to simply tell him that you like it when he sucks and kisses your breasts. Foreplay usually involves fondling, caressing, kissing and sometimes sucking a girls breasts, so this is completely normal and natural to say to your boyfriend or husband. Then the next time you are in bed together, all you need to do is just ask him to kiss and suck you breasts

When he is doing it, you can ask him to concentrate around the nipple and areola with his suckling. Alternatively, you can just use your hands to bring your nipple down to his mouth or to bring his head to your nipple. It’s that easy.

As he is suckling on your nipples, make sure to tell him how good it feels. Telling your man about what a good job he is doing is a great way to massage his ego, which will in turn help him to enjoy suckling your breasts even more.

And that’s all there is to it. Many men really enjoy sucking their girls tits. However they are often afraid to admit it to their partner or bring it up because they think it sounds childish or ‘not manly’. Like many fetishes and kinks I discuss in the Bad Girl’s Bible, it’s perfectly normal.

I’m Still Afraid Of Asking Him To Suck My Tits

If you are still a little hesitant to talk to your man about breastfeeding him, there is another way to make him open to the idea. All you have to do is to fulfill one of his fantasies (it’s especially good if it’s a fantasy that he’s a little embarrassed about). Then after you do his fantasy, tell him that you would like him to indulge one of yours. Then just use the advice above to make it happen.

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  1. Calypa says

    The real question is how to teach a man to correctly suckle my breasts. Licking and kissing is nice, but I get great pleasure from a man truly suckling (dry at this point) on my breasts.

    • Maggie says

      I think it has more to do with personal preferences. Most men that I dated that wanted to breastfeed had no problem expressing to me that they wanted to. I always liked it, but left it to the man. If he wanted to, great and if not, that was okay. Until my last boyfriend…He would breastfeed from me for 2-3 hours daily, and I actually would have multiple orgasms while he sucked my tits. Being that I am a nursing student (no pun intended)I would often fall asleep before he got home from work. I could feel him sucking at tugging on my nipples while I slept. You’d think I would be upset, but no. I loved it. After a few months my bras were very tight, and I started lactating. I was originally a 36B, but now wear a 38DD. At this point, I hope they don’t grow anymore. There are so many benefits for both partners in adult breastfeeding, I don’t understand why people think its shameful or taboo.

      • Kelly says

        Wow!! My thoughts exactly! Why IS IT so damned taboo?! I’m also a healthcare professional (OT) and am well versed in benefits of breast milk. Surely this wS acceptable long ago in order to literally nurture your husband. Keep him healthy, well served and happy! I long for the day my husband would need to come home to be nursed, …. Like wish he would love to nestle/ remain there for 45 min? More time is even better. I would soooooo love the mutual dependence. Gosh! the intimacy delivered thru this would draw us closely together. I’m so jealous of u!! :-)

        • Crystal says

          I want it too! My husband enjoys sucking my breasts but I don’t know that he would be ready for a full ANR. I would love to have the feeling of full breasts and have my husband release the let down!

    • nazma Khan. says

      I think there is no need to give any training to man how to suck her fiend breast, they know verywell, when we girls offer her nud body their eyes were focus on her breast and put his hand on it and after some time hey do their job till we say stop it as it is too excess and our lower side is now feeling some sensations.

  2. MIRIAM says

    Breastfeeding my man is a big turn on for me and for him too;considering my responses…this is the easiest technique he uses to turn me on..its very pleasurable

  3. Leslie Charm says

    I always love when my boyfriend sucked my breasts and whenever we want to make love, he will be playing with my breasts first then he sucked them. Usually when we are watching movies together, I would lies beside him and put his hand on my breast. He will play his hand on my breast till he decided to sucked it. Breastfeeding him every time before sex is necessary, he loves it even if I didn’t asked him to do it, he will do it willingly.

  4. bhumi says

    Getting breasfed is a really good feeling. Let me tell u my story.
    There was this married male 6 years older than me and whom I met in London. He was head on heels in love with me. He kept email contact with me even after my return to India. I once fought with him and did not talk to him for about a month. I refused to answer his phone calls and emails. He came from London to Goa and called me to meet him. I met him in his hotel. He took me into his suite. No sooner had he closed the door, he pulled me close to him, hugged me and kissed me on the forehead and lips. The kiss on the lips was a rather passionate and longer one. He said that he missed me terribly and was pained during the time I was not talking to him. Then he said that I would receive a punishment for having not spoken to him for a month. I unsuspectingly said ok, I am ready for any kind of punishment. He asked me whether I was sure. I said yes, and gave him a gentle lady’s promise. To this he seemed happy. Then he said that as a punishment, I should breastfeed him. I was flabbergasted. But since I had given him a gentle lady’s promise I could not withdraw and was forced to breastfeed him.
    I was wearing a low-necked top through which my cleavage was seen. He first kissed my both bosoms which were exposed. He went on to unbutton my top, unhooked my bra and lifted it up. He then brought out my breasts and remarked ‘they are so gorgeous, beautiful and juicy’. He slowly started fondling them, licking them, nibbling them and sucking them. It was a rather good feeling and I enjoyed every bit of the moment just like him. He went on sucking my breasts for about 5 hours. He played and tugged and sucked at my breasts and nipples till they seemed sore. I requested him then to stop because it hurt me but he said that punishments always hurt and went on for another 1-2 hours. My nipples were cracked and painful but still I was enjoying the suck and tug at my nipples. I was happy to see him in such a great pleasure.
    He then descended down and started kissing my lower abdomen. I was stimulated. He then tried to go lower to which I resisted. He said he wanted to fuck me but I said no. I felt tired and sleepy and dozed a bit. During that time, he took opportunity and went deeper and brought down my panties. He started licking and kissing my genitalia. I was extremely aroused. He then brought out his hard and erect penis and placed it over my genitalia and started rubbing my genitalia and clitoris with his penis. I could not say no this time and he soon was over me and inside me with his huge and large penis. I was too happy for words. What an ecstasy? My vagina was having contractions and he was also enjoying the act. He remained inside me for about half an hour. We had another sexual intercourse 1 hour later. It was wonderful. I was at the top of the world. For the next 7 days of his stay in Goa, we had three sexual intercourses daily each lasting for an hour and lots of love-making sessions both ways. Both of us went back happy and relieved at having giving each other pleasures for a lifetime. The breastfeeding sessions had bound us, brought us closer and increased our intimacy to the utmost. There should be more of such adult nursing relationships in the world.

    • unknown says

      awesome story. n great romance. d feelings are expressed in every single word. hang on d same.hf tc. gn :-)

    • somashekhar MK says

      Hello Bhumi, I really like the way you expressed you sex with your boy friend. By reading this I am feeling to have sex with my girlfriend and I wanted to play with her boobs and tits.

      • bhumi says

        dear somashekhar
        all the best to u for this wonderful journey
        it is an awesome experience too good for words

  5. thatguy says

    This got long… but I think that this is so fantastic and so important for couples, that I wrote this out as best I could…

    I will assume that your bf or husband isn’t into this, that you’ve suggested it or asked and he thinks it’s “ew gross”, or weird. If he likes the idea and wants to try, you don’t have a problem. What I wrote below is for when you need to get him to try it, to see how wonderful this is for both of you.

    The only thing that should be hard about this is getting your man to PROPERLY latch on and SUCKLE, not just lick, tease or suck. I don’t think it will be hard to get your husband or boyfriend to do this. At the risk of being too “graphic” ha ha…. if you worry he will be put off by the word, “breastfeed”, then don’t put it that way. Wear something that pushes up, plumps up and in general, makes your breasts really inviting. Unless your man is flat-out not attracted to your breasts, this won’t be hard!

    Do this on the couch watching TV, or when you are relaxing in bed together. Do it after sex, or at least at a time when sex is not the focus. That would be better. Maybe you can be on the couch, unbutton your top to expose large portions of your breasts, letting them spill out, so he knows you want him to give them attention.

    Snuggle them up to him, “offer” them. Trust me, unless he is a guy who is totally put off by breasts, there is no way he will resist this. Offer them to his mouth. He will surely start kissing and sucking.

    Now, you need to transition that to actual breastfeeding.

    Just start “cooing” to him. Tell him! Say things like, “Yes, baby, I love that… gently, suckle me, honey.” Things like that. No many can resist this. No way!

    You need to progress gradually. Don’t “instruct” him to breastfeed! He will be giving your breasts attention with his mouth, and there will be moments where he is latched and suckling the way you need him to. It might only be for a few seconds and then he’ll do something else. DURING THOSE MOMENTS, just give him lots of encouragement. “Like that, yes baby, just there, yes, do that, do that”

    Heh, trust me. He’ll suckle more if you talk to him that way every time he does.

    Now… be persistent in this. It will likely lead to sex. That’s okay. Do this as often as you can. If you have a routine where you watch TV at night for a while at the end of the day, or go to bed and talk or read together every night, those are the key times. Every time you do, go through the same routine. Snuggle close, open your top, offer your breasts. After a while, this will become a routine. You’re still nowhere near breastfeeding yet, but you’ve set up the ground work. Believe me, if you have been doing this for a few weeks, he will be looking forward to it.

    Watch for when he will suckle for more than just a few seconds. When you are playing together, and he’s been suckling for, say, 30 seconds straight, I think that’s the time to try this next step.

    “Coo” to him more, but in a different way. Start talking to him like he’s feeding on you. “Yes, baby, they are for you. Feed on me, honey. Feast. Take them. You don’t need to be hungry”… Ha! You want to encourage him to be your hungry lover, and you satisfying his hunger by feeding him, without necessarily making him feel like a “baby”, which might be a real put-off for him.

    That’s about all I have. Keep this up, and gradually the stretches of time when he suckles will get longer and longer. He’ll find himself suckling continuously for minutes, and then then 5 minutes, and then 10 and then more.

    This may take time, maybe months depending on how he built up an aversion to it in his mind. But now he’ll see there’s nothing sick or baby-like about it. The bonding effect this has on a couple is tremendous. If he’s suckling for 5 or 10 minutes every night, he’ll feel it.

    Now move to doing this multiple times in a day.
    Maybe on a Saturday or other day off. When you wake up in the morning, or right in the middle of the day, when you are close, just unbutton your top, let those breasts spill out, offer them. He’ll know what you want him to do, because this is exactly the same routine you’ve been going through every night. Just tell him. “Honey, they ACHE for you. Come… take them, feast!”

    Do this for a few weeks, so that as a couple, it becomes part of your regular life that at any time during the day, you might approach him, expose your breasts, and offer them.
    HA HA… he’d have to be dead to resist this.

    After that, just continue, making the feeding times more often, and for a longer time. He’ll be suckling you 20-30 minutes at a time 4 or 5 times a day before you know it.

    I must caution you… this will bond you and change you in a way that you cannot imagine. If you think you are close now, just wait. If your schedule allows you to actually keep this up so you can nurse him regularly, bring in a full milk supply, and feed him your milk on a steady basis, your whole day, your whole life, will revolve around a cycle of breastfeeding. Every few hours, the world will stop and you two will be snuggled, dizzy, and feeding. You will go through your day calm, serene, and almost a little loopy like nothing bad can ever happen.

    Breastfeeding your man is the most powerful “love drug” there is.

    • trying says

      Thank you so much for this! I am having the hardest time getting my boyfriend to understand what I am aluuding to, without just coming out and saying, “suckle on my breasts already, like you were nursing.” I know he would think that was weird. And he does exacly what you say in the beginning: suck for a few seconds, then that’s it. I so badly jus want him to sit and nurse on my breasts, which have already swollen to a bigger cup size over the course of me manually stimulating them multiple times a day for the past week. I love the closeness and dreamlike state that has on me. I just want to lay there and scratch his back (which he loves) while he sucks milk from my large, full breasts. I know it will take some time to work up to. This is the advice I have been searching for this whole last week. Exactly what I needed. I will continue slowly getting him on board with it, and hopefully he will come to realize the deep intimate bond we can share that far surpasses anything that sexual intercourse could bring about.

  6. bhumi says

    Most bfs will spontaneously start sucking on your boobs the moment he ups your top and unbuckles your bra. This organ of nutrition also has erotic functions; hence most of the time talking on it is usually not required. Letting him view a porn video on boobsucking before sex may also help to bring up this topic on its own and avoid you to mention or cue on it.

  7. nazma Khan. says

    i am colleage girland living in girls hostel, my boyfriend is always crazy for sucking and licking of my breast. when we met for physical relations he pay more attention on my breaast and nipples, he pump it, press it and lick my nipples. I fear that by his excess foreplay my breast shape may not be damaged as it is in small shape and seize and in round with little nipple buttons. since my bod color is fair and looks nice to my friend.some time he massage his penis on my breast and take his penis as sandwich in beetween my breast and tell me to kiass penis head .i do it and rubs my tonque on his pee hole, he feelpleasure.

  8. mariam says

    I have some story to share
    When I was in Singapore, I had a Malaysian boyfriend. He was very nice and good guy. But he suffered from tic (habit spasm). This means that by habit he would tilt his head to one side often. When excited or angry or with emotions this habitual tilt would increase immensely. He loved licking and sucking my boobs. He would suck for hours together on most days and especially on weekends. I greatly enjoyed those nursing sessions. He was quite skilled in sucking my boobs. And then in between the sucks he would get his tics. When he had the head tilt or tic, he would do it without leaving my breast and nipples. With his tic, there would be a heavy tug on my nipples and that only added to my pleasure. He would suck 10 times and then the tic and the great pleasurable tug on my nipples. I would scream in excitement. As his excitement rose, the tics would increase to after every two sucks which means he would suck for two times and then the tic and hence the huge tug on my nipples. It was too much. I would be completely aroused. I would orgasm with it and he too would get erected and insert the great monster into me and then there are no words to describe the ecstasy and great and awesome feelings that would follow……For four years of my stay in singapore he was my boyfriend and we had thoroughly enjoyed our time, I mean nights, together. Those great tugs on my nipples in between the boobsucking sessions were adorable and no other boyfriend of mine has been able to reproduce that fun. I miss those great nursing sessions immensely.

  9. ALIA says

    For work I have to travel globally and hence have the opportunity to have boyfriends of various ethnic groups. Steaming love making sessions have been a component of all these relationships. Boobsucking is an integral part of all these love making sessions and also the most excitable and pleasurable and satisfying. All the boyfriends boobsuck well on their own without me mentioning it; boobsucking may be at the start, or in between the love-making session to heighten my orgasm or at the end of sexual intercourse to regain their energy. It is just fun all the way….
    All my boyfriends suckle on me quite well but I have noticed certain subtle differences which I enlist below:
    French, Germans, Italians and other European bfs- are soft and rhythmic boobsuckers
    Egyptians, Russians, Africans bfs-are vigorous and prolonged boobsuckers. I lactate with their boobsucking.
    Indians bfs- are unpredictable boobsuckers; sometimes soft, sometimes hard and sometimes painful depending on their presex mood
    Chinese, Malaysian, Singaporean and Australian bfs-are wonderful boobsuckers
    Americans bfs-are methodical boobsuckers
    It is different but nonethelsss enjoyable always

  10. kavya says

    The best way to seduce ur guy is probably to show him ur ample cleavage. Even if u don’t have big boobs,u can fake cleavage by wearing push up bras. It did work for me. During our 1st dates,my boyfriend would only kis my lips n neck. I gues he was scared to touch my boobs. so I decided to tease him to the extent when he could overcome his fear n shyness n jump on my boobs. I cald him to my home 1ce. I was wearing a black top with a loose neckline. I was siting in my bed while he was on d chair n v wer just talkin. Evry nw n den, I bent down n showed him my cleavage making it look accidental. I noticed him staring at my boobs. At last he couldn’t resist n came over to me n startd touchin my boobs. I surendrd myslf to him n he opend my top n startd playin with my boobs. He squeezd dm,pumpd dm,lickd dm n evn bit gently on d nipples. I used to rub his head, pul his hair while he ate my boobs. He would knw I was getin excitd n so lickd n suckd me evn mor. Evr sinc dn, boob sucking has become a part of our foreplay n lasts for hours. recently v hav mixd food with sex too. I cover my boobs with cream n chocolate n cherries on my nipples n feed my hungry boyfriend!!!

  11. sam says

    I’ve been married for 9 months…the first thing my husband done was grab my boobs….he was quite hesitant but I told him to go harder and harder…he is an expert now as he licks and sucks them…
    we have had boob sex…where he has inserted his penis between my melons and thrusts really hard…..
    my boobs have grown bigger and he loves them….
    one of the things I really enjoyed was when he massages them wuth oil…im moaning like mad….
    I love having my boobs sucked…biggest turn on for me…
    when he takes off my bra….oh man… left breast is more easily stimulated than the right…
    tip of his penis rubbed on the nipple feels like heaven….

  12. suzy says

    I think you should tell him and seduce him. First he lifted me up and hug me. We were kissing passionately in lips. Then I pulled off my clothes and bra so he could see my boobs. He started sucking my nipple and sometime I bounced my boobs on his face. He kept sucking no matter what. I enjoying his sucking.

  13. mariam says

    Despite your all efforts and requests and hints, if your husband or man is still not willing to boobsuck you, do not be disappointed. There is no dearth of lovers of boobsucking in the world. Like steve above who is ready to suck any sweet boob. You will always get someone who loves to boobsuck you and pamper you. Multiple such intimate relationships only add to the spice and variety and fun of it.

  14. maruti says

    My problem is different. My partner is a total breast man. At weekends and holidays, he is a constant latch-on. He is never tired. I do enjoy the whole thing a lot and want it. But at times I get tired and completely drained out with his constant boob-sucking. Is this normal to be feeling worn out when your lover sucks your boobs? What should I do to limit the time he boob-sucks without hurting him or without dissatisfying him? I do not want him to feel let down with my ‘No’.

  15. Boob man says

    I love being breastfeed by a lactating woman.
    I wish could find a partner. I miss the close, nurturing relationship that is involved in Adult Breastfeeding.

  16. Bursting Balloon says

    I have been nursing my boyfriend for over two years. This simple, human interaction has brought us closer than either of us could have imagined. And the nursing can just be part of his day as when we watch the news together, him on my lap suckling. Or it can be a prelude to or part of sex play. What started as a fun idea has turned into a real need for both of us. I need to be suckled. Nourishing him is a bit like nourishing myself–I can’t think of another way explain the power of this dimension of suckling someone you care for. And he has come to see the breast as refuge—a place he can retreat to a few times everyday. If you look back, most of us who were breastfed see the breast as a safe and connecting place. My big boyfriend suckling at my nipples as calm as a baby. He has been really changed by my nourishing him. He looks to me, not just to my milky breasts, to ground him. And in this past year I have become more of a “mother” figure to him. And I find I need to mother him. This is something I never would have thought would happen! I never would have started with the nursing but I feel completely different now. My breast is the best gift I can give him. When he is upset out comes my tittle. When he can’t sleep, I find I can nurse him to sleep. There is no greater pleasure than seeing my baby’s suckling slow down as he falls asleep. I like to keep my nipple by his mouth should he wake up or should I fall asleep. Sometimes he wakes me up by sudden suckling during a dream or whatever is troubling him. Not to say things don’t get trying. We had to excuse ourselves during dinner at friends’ home.
    He really needed a little comforting bc he and one of our friends had words. Out with the titties. I must say, my nursing him regularly has changed him. He is much calmer. Our friends who don’t even know I nurse him have remarked at how much more grounded he Is. And I get so much pleasure in taking care of him not only with the breast but in many other ways that would not have brought pleasure to me earlier on. I do anything I can to make his life easier. I set his clothes out for him, I schedule dentist/doc appointments, I make sure we have at least one long nursing session each day. Sometimes, I make special deserts for
    him often using my milk :-). And I dress as sexy as a lactating woman can. All of my clothes allow me to access my nipples when he needs to nurse. So he wants to take it to the next level. I am not sure what I think about this or if it is even possible. He want to be nourished with only my milk. That’s right…an adult who breastfeeds for all their sustenance. First, can a woman make enough milk to completely nourish a man? Also, there is the issue of my own titties. They have become quite large–to the degree that two of my friends asked if I had had a boob job! I am now a DD! I would think my breasts will become really large and droopy with huge aureolas. Don’t get me wrong–I am not vain. I just want to look decent. I don’t want to turn into a cow:). He has done all of the research and tells me I will have to get a stronger breast pump. He tells me that he finds my droopy breasts sexy bc he can lie in my lap and pop in a nipple. He says that when he sees my droopy breasts, he gets excited bc that is where his food comes from. And he says that my titties won’t get more droopy bc of the enlargement caused by milk production. I must admit that all his ideas are sexy to me but also I will have even more connection with him being his sole source of food. Am I crazy? Is he?

    • Mathildas Tits says

      I used to love suckling on my ex girlfriends breasted. She was 10 years older than me and although she was dry she would still hold her breast as if feeding me. Most of the time it lead to sex but sometimes it was just a comfort to both of us that we would nod off. I wanted much more. Almost a dependacy. I would have hung off her titts almost all day if I could. But. For her it was more of a sexual thing. After suckling on her for a while I would start playing with her pussy, gently rubbing the area above her clit. She
      would get so aroused that there where absolutely no limits to the dirty talk and fantacy role playing. She could make me blush. When I say anything went, there where no taboos, any kind of sex match up. When I would finally enter her I only lasted a few seconds. The best sex ever, and it always started on her tits

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