12 Wild Shower Sex Positions For Steamy Sex

Shower sex can be awesome and these 12 shower sex positions will show you how to do it in the most pleasurable way possible!

As with all sex acts, make sure only to try these positions with your partner’s enthusiastic consent.

Let’s dive in…

1. Standing

Standing is probably the most sensible shower sex position, especially if your shower is a bit cramped.

To get into the Standing sex position in the shower, you will be standing upright. Your partner will then be penetrating you from behind. You may want to put your hands on the wall in front of you to keep your balance. This Standing position is also a great position for anal sex.

There are a bunch of ways to spice this position up…

• If you are having anal sex and your partner is penetrating you from behind, they can reach around and start fingering you to increase your pleasure.
• They can also kiss your neck, shoulders, and back during sex.
• They can massage your breasts and nipples.
• They can place a hand on your neck and choke you while having sex if you are both into it. Just make sure to use a safe word!
• Standing is a super hot shower position if your shower faces a mirror, as you can put on a show for each other!

2. Shower Head

Not all, but many women masturbate and can orgasm from directing the stream from the shower head over their vulva/vagina. So…

The next time you and your partner are having sex in the shower and are in a position like the Standing sex position (demonstrated above), here is what I want you to do:

• Take the shower head in your hand and direct the stream of water over your vulva and vagina.
• Most shower heads have different settings that change how the water flows out of it. Play with these different settings to find the setting that gives you the most pleasure.
• Switch things up by having your partner take over the shower head and direct it toward you. Just make sure not to get the rest of your bathroom wet!
• You can try playing around with the shower head as part of foreplay before having sex or during sex.

Learn: How to orgasm easily during sex and masturbation.

3. Dancer

The Dancer position is not for those who lack flexibility or those with bad balance.

Both you and your partner will be standing upright and facing each other. You then need to raise one leg so that your partner can hold your thigh, as in the illustration above. He should then be able to start penetrating you. Some tips to increase your pleasure:

• He may need to bend his knees slightly to lower himself down and make sex easier.
• You should try to hold onto something solid in this position in case either of you slip and fall in the bathroom while making love.
• Shower sex is much easier to perform in those showers that have handles you can grab to maintain your balance. Do not use other fixtures to support your weight, as they can come undone, leading to injuries and expensive bathroom repairs.

4. Blow Job On Your Knees

Blow jobs can feel extra intense in the shower.

The easiest way to give a blow job is for your partner to remain standing while you are on your knees. Here are some tricks to make it both enjoyable and comfortable.

• Fold a towel and then put it under your knees as cushioning in this shower sex position.
• Have your partner stand in front of the stream of water and block it with their back so it’s not flowing over your face. You don’t want to be waterboarded while giving head!
• You can also kneel with your back to the water, while your partner stands in front of you.
• Then, it’s all about using your favorite blow job techniques on your partner.

5. Cunnilingus In The Shower

Cunnilingus is also a great option in the shower.

You need to start by standing upright with your legs spread. Your partner will then sit on the floor beneath you with their legs in front of them. Next, they need to lean backward and place their hands behind themselves to support their weight.

They can then lean their head backward and start eating your pussy. Then, you can use some of the following tips to increase your pleasure…

• While standing upright as the receiver, grab their head and pull it closer to your vulva or clitoris, and guide it to where you want it.
• If this position for sex in the shower doesn’t work well, have your partner kneel in front of you to eat your pussy.
• You can also talk dirty to them or say some of these dominant things to your partner as they eat you out.
• Have your partner use some of these 85 female oral sex techniques to help make you cum.
• If your shower is too small for you to shower together, then this position may be a bit harder to perform for you and your partner.

6. Cowgirl In The Shower

If your shower is large enough or you are showering in the bath, then a variation of the Cowgirl position is possible.

Your partner will start by lying on their back. You then need to straddle them while facing them. In the regular Cowgirl position, you will be on your knees, but in the shower, this can be quite sore for them. So, you will need to remain on your feet, as demonstrated above. Then it’s time to start enjoying yourself…

• Try moving up and down on your partner to feel your partner thrusting in and out of you.
• Alternatively, you can move forward➡️ and backward⬅️ on your partner, which will stimulate your clit more.
• If you have ankle or knee mobility issues/pain, you may want to avoid Cowgirl in favor or some of the other positions for sex in the shower.
• However, you can put towels under your knees to act as cushions on them.

7. Lotus

The Lotus position is one of the most intimate I know. It’s also a popular tantric sex position.

To start, I recommend first laying down a towel in the shower that your partner can sit on. Next, your partner needs to sit down on their butt and cross their knees in front of them. Finally, you will sit down in their lap, facing them and wrapping your legs around their waist.

• Sex can be much more intimate in the Lotus position by maintaining eye contact. This is great for those who prefer making love.
• You can further deepen your intimacy and connection by synchronizing your breathing.
• For those who enjoy slightly rougher sex, you can scratch your partner’s back in the Lotus position.

8. Lap Dance

I was on the fence about including the Lap Dance position in this list of shower sex positions. It requires a bit of planning beforehand and a large enough shower for a chair to fit comfortably or a shower or tub with built-in seat.

You will get set up by putting a sturdy chair (that can get wet!) in your shower for your partner to sit down on. Next, you need to bring your partner into the shower and sit them down. From here, turn the shower on and start by giving them a lap dance.

You don’t need to be a professional dancer to make this position fun for both of you. In fact, trying any advanced lap dancing moves may actually lead to injury! Here are some tips to give your partner a lap dance in the shower…

• Reverse your butt towards your partner and start grinding against their crotch.
• Then, you can smoothly transition to sex in the Lap Dance position.

Other Lap Dance Options

• Alternatively, you can straddle one of your partner’s legs and grind/hump it all the way to orgasm. You can do this while facing them or with your back to your partner.
• While standing up, turn your back to your partner. Then, sway your hips from side to side in front of them.
• As you sway your hips from side to side, you can grab your partner’s hands and place them on your hips to help control your movement.
• Put some body wash in your partner’s hands and get them to give you a sensual massage and wash you. After all, you can get both dirty and clean when showering together!

9. Doggy Style

Doggy Style in the shower can be super hot, provided your shower is spacious enough.

Most importantly, you need to protect your knees in this position for shower sex. Wet skin on a hard surface can be painful or cause abrasions. So start by placing something soft, like a folded towel, on the ground to protect your knees.

Then it’s a case of getting down on all fours with your partner behind you and having Doggy Style sex. To spice it up…

• Your partner can pull your hair if you enjoy it.
• Anal sex is easy in the Doggy Style position, just make sure to use some silicone-based lube so it won’t wash off. Tips to prepare for anal sex.
• If you are having anal sex in this position, then your partner can reach around and play with your clit.

10. Leaning Against The Wall

Leaning Against The Wall is a low-intensity position that is great if you are not feeling particularly acrobatic and just want to relax and enjoy sex while showering together.

Your partner needs to start by sitting in the shower with their back against a wall. You then need to sit down on their lap on top of their penis (or dildo if they are pegging you). Here are some tips to make sex more intense in this position…

• Your partner will be in a position that makes it difficult to thrust in and out, so you will need to do most of the work. You can grind on them or put your hands on their thighs to support yourself for more of an up-and-down motion.
• If you are having anal sex in this position, your partner can reach around and start massaging your G Spot, helping you to squirt.
• Your partner can also massage your breasts and play with your nipples, potentially giving you a nipple orgasm.

For more ideas, check out the Bouncing Spoon position which is very similar to this shower sex position.

11. Stand And Carry

For those with stronger partners who also have great balance, you may want to consider trying the Stand and Carry position*. This may not be the best shower sex position if you’re not so steady, however.

Your partner will remain standing while holding you with their hands under your butt as you wrap your legs around their waist like in the illustration above. You can then wrap your arms around their neck to support some of your weight. You can also support some of your weight with your wrapped legs.

Once you are in a comfortable position and your partner is inside you, they can start thrusting. Additionally…

• They can use their hands/arms to raise you up and down.
• If a handrail is in the shower, your partner may want to hold onto it to help balance themselves.
• Your partner can press you against the wall. This will help support a small fraction of your weight. It will also mean that they can penetrate you with more force.

*We don’t recommend this position unless you are fully aware of the potential for slipping and hurting yourselves

Go deeper: How to have sex against a wall (13 positions)

12. Bent Over

Being bent over by your partner in the shower is wonderful if you enjoy feeling submissive during sex and they enjoy being dominant.

You will both be standing, facing in the same direction, and your partner will be penetrating you from behind. However…

It’s more like Doggy Style as you will be bent over. The woman in the demonstration above is actually quite upright. She could bend over much more for this position.

Here are some tips and techniques to keep the Bent Over position hot…

• Try placing at least one hand on a wall to help maintain your balance in this shower sex position.
• If you have a free hand, try using some of these 14 masturbation techniques to have stronger orgasms.
• If you are into kinkier sex, your partner can pull out and then spank you.
• Lastly, make sure that the shower head is not directed toward your head in the Bent Over position. Otherwise, it may feel like you are drowning!

Whether you like certain sex positions in the shower depends on a few factors, including the type and size of your shower, your preferences, and the shape and size of the bodies involved. You’re sure to like at least one of these sexual positions in the shower, so get to trying them and let everyone know your favorite position in the comments below.