Is Anal Sex Safe? Here’s What You Need To Know

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Although some people might try to scare you out of trying anal sex because it's supposedly "unsafe," that's not actually the case. In fact, the answer to "Is anal sex safe?" is definitely a yes - as long as you're doing right. And you're far from the first person to have wondered this question! This is a common question; although, many women are afraid to ask their friends or doctors about … [Read more...]

Does Anal Hurt and 9 Other Burning Questions Answered!

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When done right, anal sex shouldn't hurt. It may not be pleasurable, which is just fine, but it shouldn't cause you discomfort or pain. Many people will tell you that pain is your body's way of sending you a signal, and it's no different with anal sex. Your technique or the actions of your partner might need to be adapter to allow you to experience pleasure during anal sex. Below you'll … [Read more...]

What You Need To Know About Rim Jobs And More Orgasms

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Unlike some bedroom activities, a rim job is considered a little more off the beaten path. Plenty of people love to engage in this activity, but many people don't. Stimulation in and around the anus can be erotic. It can make orgasms more intense or even bring you to orgasm without other stimulation and some people just can't get enough of the taboo, calling it “the best thing in the entire … [Read more...]

How To Use Anal Fingering To Double Your Pleasure

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When you've tried bondage, sex in public places and edging, what's left to do in bed? How about a little anal play? One of the easiest ways to see whether you'd like to experience anal sex and a way to provide your man with extreme pleasure is through anal fingering.   Does Everyone Enjoy Anal Stimulation? Let's start by getting this out of the way. Anal stimulation isn't for … [Read more...]

Anal Orgasms: How To Have Them

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For many people who want to spice up their sex lives, anal play makes sense. But you might be wondering what you would get out of it as a receiver. Did you know that many people are able to achieve anal orgasm? In fact, this is why some men and women love being on the receiving end. Plus, providing your lover with that kind of pleasure can be addicting. There's no one single way for you to … [Read more...]

Male G Spot – Where It Is & How To Stimulate It For Pleasure

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When it comes to the G-spot, most experts focus on a woman's G-spot, which can be a source of intense pleasure, orgasms and even ejaculation. The “organ” isn't limited to just the fairer sex, however! Men have their own version of the G-spot...and where is this male G spot??? It's located in his anus. A man's prostate can be just as fun to pleasure, and learning how to work it can bring you closer … [Read more...]

Anal Masturbation: How To Make Intensely Pleasurable


While many women are quick to reach for a sex toy to stimulate their clitoris or vagina (more on getting the most out of your vibrator here) or just play around with regular clitoral/vaginal masturbation (more here), they might find the thought of anal masturbation to be taboo. While the exploration of anal play comes naturally to others, you may have to work yourself up to the idea, … [Read more...]

What Is A Butt Plug & What Does It Do?


A common question I get from visitors to the Bad Girl's Bible is the question “What is a butt plug?” Chances are, you've seen a plug or two if you've stepped foot into a sex toy shop or loaded a store in your browser. Unlike a dildo or typical vibrator, which is intended to be thrusted or moved internally, a butt plug's sole job is to make you feel full. A butt plug stays in place, allowing you to … [Read more...]

Have Incredible Sex From Behind, Just Follow These Rules

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When you're sick of missionary position, what's next? Sex doesn't have to involve staring straight ahead in your partner's eyes; although, this can definitely be enjoyable. Any position where your man takes you from behind can help you explore the slightly more animalistic side of sex. Sex from behind also keeps your man's hands free during sex, which is awesome if you like to be … [Read more...]

How To Prepare For Great Anal Sex

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The main reason why women dislike or even hate anal sex is because they didn't properly prepare for it. If your man suggests it one night and neither of you fully understand how to make it easy, pleasurable and fun then both of you are going to be in for one lousy time! But once you understand how to properly prepare for anal sex, you're going to find it a very pleasurable experience. So follow … [Read more...]