If you can make your man cum like this, then he will happily return the favor!
I’m going to show you exactly how to make your man cum hard every time in just 5 minutes by showing you:
- The SINGLE-most-important thing you need to do to your man.
- How to make him cum harder than any other girl.
- Why a build up is crucial to him cumming hard and having a super-satisfying orgasm.
Learning how to make a guy cum is actually really easy. Everything you need, you’ll find throughout The Bad Girl’s Bible. I will teach you everything you need to know when it comes to pleasing your man and making him cum really strongly. Whether you want to learn how to give a killer blowjob or how to talk dirty or learn some good sex positions, it’s all here. This article is going to show your some of the best strategies that you must use if you are truly serious about giving your man a powerful orgasm and making him cum really hard.
It’s All About Enthusiasm
It seems that a lot of students I talk to don’t understand or ‘get’ this until I explain it to them…
A major component of turning your man on is satisfying his ego (not just his penis). When you are enthusiastic about sex, it’s a powerful subconscious signal to your man that you are attracted to him and turned on by being with him. This is massively satisfying for his ego, which turns men on in an incredibly powerful way.
When you are not very responsive and involved during sex, you are doing the opposite. You are sending your man a subconcious signal that you are not that turned on by him and not that attracted to him. As a result, you are saying to his ego that you don’t think much of him. This is exactly what you shouldn’t do if you want to turn him on and make him cum hard.
I call this problem Starfish Syndrome. It’s as if you are a starfish, just lying there with your legs, arms and head pretty much motionless. It’s the one thing that is a major turn off to almost all guys.
While I don’t really recommend learning sex techniques and maneuvers from watching pornography, one thing that you will notice from watching porn is that all the female pornstars are very enthusiastic and active in every scene.
Why?
Because it turns men on and ultimately makes them cum a lot of harder.
Find Out What He Likes
Everyone has a fantasy, specific sex technique or position that turns them on much more than regular sex. You need to find out what your man’s fantasies are. This is going to make him orgasm and cum much harder than when you are doing plain old missionary position with him.
It could be something really normal like you dressing up and roleplaying or it could be a bit more ‘out there’. It’s absolutely vital that you keep an open mind and are not judgemental when discussing it with your man along with being excited to try something new with him.
The Build Up
Sometimes a quickie feels great. But if you want your man to have an orgasm so hard, that he shoots his load across the room, then you need to slowly build up to it. To slowly build up to orgasm can start many hours before you even see him. Try sending him a few dirty texts before you see him to build the sexual tension and titillate him with things to come. If you are both out together in public or at a party, turn up the sexual tension by saying something like:
I can’t wait till were alone, I’ve got a sexy surprise for you!
or
If we weren’t in a public place right now, I would fuck your brains out!
It’s up to you how sexual you want to be.
When you say something like this it will turn your man on a lot because of your intentions. But as you can’t actually do anything about it (as there are other people around), it builds sexual tension also. So when you do eventually get alone with your man, he will literally want to rip your clothes off.
When you are both alone together, you have to keep taking things really slowly. Start by kissing him passionately and then move on to very slowly giving him a soft and satisfying handjob (but make sure that he doesn’t cum!). From here, you can move on to sucking his cock or having sex.
The Release
When your man does reach orgasm after this slow but steady build up, he will explode and cum really hard.
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Hi there I just wana know how can I have sex with my man that will make him addicted. Thank you
Try some of the positions from the sex positions section here or some of my blowjob tips.
Hey girl,
I find that the key to getting, and keeping your man hooked, is to mix up a bit of everything, and really create a build up.
Really build up to sex when you’re out together. Purposely take him out in public and tease him all day. and then when you get home, make him wait a bit longer.(but don’t forget to keep teasing him and make sure you keep him turned on during all this)
My favourite thing to do when we’re alone is to get him really worked up, and start giving him a blowjob. Then halfway through, when he’s really enjoying it, just get up and walk away. It might take a little bit, but usually it ends in him just taking you right then and there. (it makes for fabulous sex)if you can work a turtle position or anything with rear-entry for this, then do it! Those positions are perfect for the intensity of thrusting you’ll likely get out of this method.
Beyond that, this site is full of really good tips that are quite useful for figuring out how to keep him hooked.
-Xandine
What if your guys the type who WOULD screw you in public if he could, or the type who suggests we find a quiter place (not that this would be his first suggestion! lol)
for example if the conversation went
she says: “if we werent in a public place, i would fuck your brains out”
He says: lets just do it now, i’ll fuck your brains out right here
she says: … what does she say? lol how does she respond to that!?
or even if she said what he said, how would she pull that off?
Hi Lola,
Thanks for your comment. The key thing is to use your imagination…really think about what you would do in that situation. I can give you a few suggestions like in the Dirty Talking section, but ultimately you need to develop your own to use on your man.
Thanks for your hints and tips. My husband and I are having great sex as a result. The build up usually starts on a Friday night when we watch an erotic movie. My husband then undresses me and drives me to a fantastic orgasm by sucking my clitty. I will reward him with a very slow blowjob that has many starts and stops. Eventually I will let him explode in my mouth.
On Saturday, the next day, we talk dirty to eachother all day. He usually complains that his balls start hurting. In the evening we take a shower together where we kiss and hug, wash eachother’s body and dry it afterwards. He begs me to relief his balls. I ask him to lie on the bed where I sit next to him on the floor. Slowly I start sucking his cock and gently massage his balls. I stop and wait when he starts groaning. Sometimes I wait a couple of minutes to allow his cock to loose stiffness. I love the taste of his pre-cum. After many starts and stops I finally build him up to an orgasm. I tickle the tip of his pole with my tongue to make him surrender. I hold his gun straight up and wait. It does not take long until he shoots his load high up in the air. Several spurts are launched and land on his stomach when they fall back. I suck the last drops out until his cock looses its stiffness.
Now I am so excited that I want more. It is my turn to lie on the bed where he kisses my pussy. It does not take long until he has a strong erection again. I ask him to lie on the bed so I can ride him as a cowgirl. I can feel his long pole touching me deep inside. It is no problem for him to postpone his orgasm now. I can enjoy the ride for at least half an hour. He sucks my tits that dangle above his face. It drives me crazy and I have multiple orgasms. Eventually I get tired and let him take over. I lift my body a bit so he can bounce up and down against it. When he starts groaning I push my lower body slowly down to feel his hard pole deep inside me. He stops moving and pumps his hot cum in my pussy. We are both exhausted and usually fall asleep in eachother’s arms.
This all started after reading your tips 6 months ago. Thanks!
Fantastic! So glad that I could be of help to you and your man! If you have any more tips of your own that you would like to share with the Bad Girl’s Bible community, then please let me know? Keep up the great (& fun) work!
Best,
Sean