Should you even bother learning all the sex tips here on the Bad Girl’s Bible if you don’t even know how to make your man cum cum fast and powerfully? I think we both know the answer to this question…
So today, I’m going to show you exactly how to make your man cum hard every time in just 5 minutes by showing you:
- The SINGLE-most-important thing you need to do to your man.
- How to make him cum harder than any other girl.
- Why a build up is crucial to him cumming hard and having a super-satisfying orgasm.
Learning how to make a guy cum is actually really easy. Everything you need, you’ll find throughout The Bad Girl’s Bible. I will teach you everything you need to know when it comes to pleasing your man and making him cum really strongly. Whether you want to learn how to give a killer blowjob or how to talk dirty or learn some good sex positions, it’s all here. This article is going to show your some of the best strategies that you must use if you are truly serious about giving your man a powerful orgasm and making him cum really hard.
It’s All About Enthusiasm
It seems that a lot of students of the Bad Girls Bible I talk to don’t understand or ‘get’ this until I explain it to them…
A major component of turning your man on is satisfying his ego (not just his penis). When you are enthusiastic about sex, it’s a powerful subconscious signal to your man that you are attracted to him and turned on by being with him. This is massively satisfying for his ego, which turns men on in an incredibly powerful way.
When you are not very responsive and involved during sex, you are doing the opposite. You are sending your man a subconcious signal that you are not that turned on by him and not that attracted to him. As a result, you are saying to his ego that you don’t think much of him. This is exactly what you shouldn’t do if you want to turn him on and make him cum hard.
I call this problem Starfish Syndrome. It’s as if you are a starfish, just lying there with your legs, arms and head pretty much motionless. It’s the one thing that is a major turn off to almost all guys.
While I don’t really recommend learning sex techniques and maneuvers from watching pornography, one thing that you will notice from watching porn is that all the female pornstars are very enthusiastic and active in every scene.
Because it turns men on and ultimately makes them cum a lot of harder.
Find Out What He Likes
Everyone has a fantasy, specific sex technique or position that turns them on much more than regular sex. You need to find out what your man’s fantasies are. This is going to make him orgasm and cum much harder than when you are doing plain old missionary position with him.
It could be something really normal like you dressing up and roleplaying or it could be a bit more ‘out there’. It’s absolutely vital that you keep an open mind and are not judgemental when discussing it with your man along with being excited to try something new with him.
The Build Up
Sometimes a quickie feels great. But if you want your man to have an orgasm so hard, that he shoots his load across the room, then you need to slowly build up to it. To slowly build up to orgasm can start many hours before you even see him. Try sending him a few dirty texts before you see him to build the sexual tension and titillate him with things to come. If you are both out together in public or at a party, turn up the sexual tension by saying something like:
I can’t wait till were alone, I’ve got a sexy surprise for you!
If we weren’t in a public place right now, I would fuck your brains out!
It’s up to you how sexual you want to be.
When you say something like this it will turn your man on a lot because of your intentions. But as you can’t actually do anything about it (as there are other people around), it builds sexual tension also. So when you do eventually get alone with your man, he will literally want to rip your clothes off.
When you are both alone together, you have to keep taking things really slowly. Start by kissing him passionately and then move on to very slowly giving him a soft and satisfying handjob (but make sure that he doesn’t cum!). From here, you can move on to sucking his cock or having sex.
When your man does reach orgasm after this slow but steady build up, he will explode and cum really hard.
IMPORTANT NOTE: During this whole build up, your man may want to cut to the chase and have sex immediately. Don’t let him. You have to keep a good amount of control and keep slowly building up to sex. Then when your man does eventually cum, he will be thankful that he waited!If you enjoyed my tips in this article but want a true sex masterclass, then you may be interested in watching this blow job tutorial video where you'll learn my most powerful techniques & tips for giving your man incredible oral sex. Enjoy!