10 Kinky Sex Swing Positions [Easy To Wild!]

If you really want to amp sex up, then you should try having it in a sex swing. Below, you will find the 10 best sex swing positions you can use tonight.

You can skip straight to the demonstrations of all 10 sex swing positions, but first, I want to quickly cover the basics so you understand how sex swings work and can enjoy using your one safely.

What is a sex swing – A sex swing is like a regular swing but is used for sex. It’s usually made from soft, but supportive material to make sitting/lying in the sex swing comfortable while being suspended in the air. They are usually designed to hold one person.

How to use a sex swing – First, you need to hang it from either a ceiling, a door, or a frame specifically built to hold the sex swing. Make sure to follow all safety precautions and instructions to minimize the risk of hurting yourself or damaging your home.

This includes weight limits!

Don’t exceed the weight limit! – Remember, a sex swing usually holds your weight and possibly your partner’s while moving. So the maximum weight capacity of your sex swing should be higher than the weight of those in it.

If you’re lighter, the available frames or even a yoga stand might work, but heavier couples might need to look into the DIY route (more on that at the end of this guide).

Do not make adjustments while your weight is on the swing – Instead, get off, adjust, and then get back on.

The right sex swing for you will make you feel comfortable and supported – If the swing is still uncomfortable, you might be able to swap out the seat, which is sometimes called a saddle, if that’s an option.

Otherwise, you might need to invest a little more to make sure you’re comfortable when using a sex swing. More padding and a deeper seat can help with pressure on your butt or hips. A wider seat may be necessary if the straps cut into your body while you use a sex swing.

You might be tempted to add padding with a towel or cushion, but that could make it easier to slip off or out of the sex swing.

One at a time – Once you are comfortably in the sex swing, it’s time to add your partner to the mix. If your partner is penetrating you, then they will most likely be standing while you are in the sex swing. If sex is awkward or difficult, you may need to hop off and adjust it a final time or two (and you may need to adjust it if you switch positions, too).

Then, once you are both comfortable and enthusiastically consent to sex, it’s time to learn some sex positions while in your sex swing!

1. Swinging Missionary

Possibly the easiest and best position in a sex swing is Swinging Missionary. It’s similar to the regular Missionary position as you will be lying down on your back in the sex swing. Your partner will be on their feet, between your legs, penetrating you.

From here, you can try some of the following to increase your pleasure and make it kinkier…

• If you enjoy more intense sex, you can raise your knees towards the ceiling so your partner can grab your thighs and pull you into them with each thrust
• Your partner can also grab the sex swing to pull you in with each thrust.
• Rather than lying flat on the sex swing, you can adjust it so that your upper body is raised up, which will change the angle of penetration.

2. Sex Against The Door

This Sex Against The Door position works with sex swings that you can hang from your door.

You’ll climb into the sex swing so that your back is against the door, like in the illustration above, making sure that the swing is properly supporting your weight through your butt and hips.

If necessary, your partner can help you to get into the swing. Then your partner will enter you. Some tips to make sex better in this position…

• If you like harder, rougher sex, then your partner can press you against the door as they thrust into you.
• Your partner can help support your weight by grabbing your hips/butt.
• If you like feeling submissive during sex, then your partner can grab your throat and lightly choke you. Just make sure your partner knows your limits, and you should use a safe word if you decide to explore choking during sex. Your partner should never use your neck to support your weight.

3. Flying Oral

Flying Oral is a wonderful way to give your partner a blow job or eat their pussy. This sex swing technique is especially useful for those who find other oral sex positions uncomfortable.

Start by having your partner lie down on their back in the sex swing like in the illustration. Make sure they are comfortable and feel fully supported.

Next, you need to get down on your knees so that your mouth is aligned with their body. Then, it’s a case of getting to work with your lips and tongue. Try these tips to increase their pleasure…

• I put together a list of 85 cunnilingus tips and techniques you can use on your partner.
• You may want to check out my 10 chapter in the Blow Job Guide if you are sucking cock.
• As you are giving oral sex, you can grab your partner’s hips/thighs and pull their body towards your mouth.
• If they like anal play, then try fingering them anally while going down on them. You can also massage your partner’s prostate.
• For those seeking to give more intense blow jobs, you can try deep throating your partner.

4. Flying Doggy Style

Flying Doggy Style works best in sex swings that have a large area of support for your hips, stomach, chest, and shoulders. If you are using a more lightweight and minimal sex swing, then Flying Doggy Style will require much more strength and balance from the partner in the swing.

Get set up by lying face down in the sex swing. You should have the majority of your weight supported through your hips. Ideally, your sex swing will also support some of your weight through your stomach, chest, and shoulders; otherwise, this sex swing position won’t be too comfortable.

Your partner will be standing behind you, between your legs. From here, they can penetrate you either vaginally or you can have anal sex in this position. Here are some ways to keep it interesting…

• They can lean forward and grab your shoulders so they can thrust deeper into you.
• They can reach around with one hand and start stimulating your clitoris with their fingers during sex.
• If you enjoy it, they can spank you during sex.

5. Sitting Doggy

While Sitting Doggy doesn’t look exactly like the original Doggy Style sex position, it’s very similar.

You will be sitting in the sex swing like in the illustration above, with your partner penetrating you from behind. Some options in the Sitting Doggy position…

• Anal sex is easy in the Sitting Doggy position. Make sure you prepare for anal first to make the experience as satisfying as possible.
• Your partner can reach around, and they can start fingering you if you are having anal sex. Alternatively, you can finger yourself during sex.
• If you enjoy it, your partner can pull your hair during sex.

6. Low Down

The Low Down is a popular sex swing position for those who don’t want to contort into a crazy position during sex and just want to be comfortable.

Start by adjusting your sex swing so that it’s quite low to the ground, and you can sit into it like in the demonstration above. Next, have your partner lie down on their back on the ground below you.

You should then let them enter you and be able to sit down fully on their penis. If you can’t fully sit down on their penis, then you need to lower the sex swing a bit. Some advice for the Low Down position…

• You can do most of the work by planting your feet on the ground and moving up and down on your partner.
• Alternatively, you can keep their penis deep inside you and grind forward and backward on them, grinding your clit against them at the same time, similar to how you would grind on a pillow.
• You can let your partner, who is lying down on their back, do most of the work…Just relax while your partner grabs you and thrusts in and out.

7. Face Sitting

Face Sitting can be incredibly hot and kinky in a sex swing, especially if you are into dominating your partner or BDSM.

Your partner needs to lie down on their back in the sex swing. You then need to position yourself over their face and lower yourself down until you are sitting on their face.

You may need to adjust the sex swing a few times to get the height just right.

• Your partner can perform cunnilingus, or they can even use these ass eating tips if you enjoy rimming.
• You can easily vary how hard you sit on your partner’s face with your legs.
• If you want to unleash your femdom side, then try grabbing your partner’s hair and pulling their head closer to your genitals in this sex swing position.

8. 69

The 69 position in a sex swing is perfect for those who like oral sex and mutually pleasuring each other.

To get set up, lie down on your back in the sex swing. Adjust the sex swing so that it’s 2-3 feet off the ground. Next, your partner will straddle your head while facing your body.

They then need to lower their genitals onto your mouth so that it’s easy for you to start using your favorite blow job tricks and techniques on them (or eat them out). They also need to lean forward so they can repay the favor and start orally pleasuring you.

This is just the basic technique for 69ing your partner in a sex swing. Some bonus sex swing ideas include…

• If you are the partner lying in the sex swing, place your hands on your partner’s hips so you can control how heavily they are sitting on your face.
• Try switching positions so that your partner is lying on their back and you are straddling them.
• If you are on top, you should experiment with resting some of your weight on top of your partner. You can even go as far as resting all of your weight on top of them so that you are both suspended in the air. Just make sure you don’t exceed the maximum safe weight for your sex swing!

9. Cowgirl

Cowgirl may be even more fun in a sex swing than on a bed.

To get set up, have your partner lie down on the floor on their back. They may want to place a blanket between themselves and the floor.

You then need to sit into the sex swing like in the demonstration above, placing your legs on the floor to maintain your balance. You should be about 20-40 cm above the ground, but feel free to adjust your height to what is most enjoyable.

Finally, you need to maneuver yourself over your partner, so that he can enter you and start having sex. There are a few different ways to make the Cowgirl position more interesting…

• If you want to be active in the Cowgirl position on your sex swing, then it’s best if you can place your feet firmly on the ground. This way, you can lift yourself upward and downward on your partner.
• If you are into bondage, the partner lying on the ground can be restrained so that you remain in control. Bondage tips for beginners

10. Lotus

The Lotus position is an incredibly intimate sex swing position, although it’s a little difficult to thrust in it.

To get set up, have your partner sit into the sex swing. You then need to sit on top of their lap while facing them, like in the illustration above. Think about using some of the following ideas…

• To make sex more intimate in the Lotus position, maintain eye contact with your partner.
• If you are into tantric sex, try synchronizing your breathing with your partner.
• If you are fully suspended off the ground, you will find it harder to thrust into your partner. It may also be harder for both of you to adjust yourselves if your feet are fully off the ground.
• If you are both in the sex swing, make sure your combined weight does not exceed the maximum weight of the sex swing.

Sex swings are a great way to spice up sex and explore new sex positions. However, there are also some drawbacks to using a sex swing. In fact, the best sex swing tips might be about safety and installation!

Setting Up Your Sex Swing

There is some setting up to do before you can start using your sex swing that may take away from the spontaneity of sex.

Functional or sexy? – Additionally, many sex swings look and feel functional but not necessarily sensual or sexy. You’ll find some leather sex swings to be sexier, but while you can wipe them down during use, you can’t throw them in the washer like some swings made only from fabric.

Speaking of materials, metal hardware is preferable to plastic, which might break or warp under your weight. Always check your swing attachments and hardware before use in case they have loosened.

Chafing – You might find that your sex swing starts to chafe you, hurt you or become uncomfortable during longer sessions, especially with cheaper sex swings. Most swings aren’t made for extended play. Sex swings may be better for quickies than drawn-out sexcapades, then.

How to minimize discomfort – The more body parts the sex swing supports, the more comfortable it will be. For example, a swing with straps for your arms, legs, and butt will be more comfortable than a swing that only goes under your butt. Some include back, or neck support, and sex slings support far more of your body than swings if you’re serious about aerial sexual activities.

Door sex swings are very limiting – Not all sex swings are the same. For example, you’ll be limited with door sex swing positions because your back is against a closed door, and you cannot hang fully back (you might be able to twist the swing so that you’re parallel to the door for some positions). For those sex swing positions that require more space, a swing on a frame or hanging from the ceiling is best.

For ceiling mounted sex swings…

Avoid screw in hardware – Do not use screw-in hardware to hang your sex swing from the ceiling because twisting movements could cause it to unscrew. Instead, look for a welded eye bolt or pad eye like the type recommended for indoor hammocks or punching bags.

5x your combined body weight – To be truly safe, you want all hardware on your sex swing to be able to support at least 5 times your combined weights because it has to account for your movement and weight. So if you and your partner weigh 300 lbs (136 kg) together, the hardware should all be able to accommodate at least 1500 lbs (680 kg). The more connections to your ceiling, the better because it distributes your weight and motion.

Creaking sounds – While you might be able to get away with less sturdy hardware, hearing creaking after you’ve finally found a great sex swing position will definitely kill the mood! Keep an eye out for dust or falling ceiling or beam particles that might indicate you have a problem. It’s better to check for an issue and start again than to have the ceiling come crashing down while you’re naked!

But if you keep safety in mind, you can enjoy getting down and dirty in a variety of positions with your sex swing to keep your sex life hot!