You may be more used to learning every sex technique imaginable on how to please your man from the Bad Girl’s Bible. But today, I want to focus only on you and teach you how to squirt.
Almost all girls have the ability to learn how to make themselves squirt and have body shaking orgasms. Sadly, not everyone gets to experience this wonderful way of reaching orgasm due to either miseducation, not using the right technique or even being afraid of squirting. However, if you follow my instructions, you are giving yourself an incredibly high chance of being able to squirt and enjoy these body shaking orgasms that accompany squirting.
First I am going to teach you how to make yourself squirt on your own (which is easier), then I am going to give you some advice for how to squirt with your partner (which is usually a little bit more difficult).
Ok, let’s get started!
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Before You Even Begin
Before you even begin using my squirting techniques, you need to familiarise yourself with your body. I know that sounds like some cheesy mumbo-jumbo that a spiritual guru might give you, but I am deadly serious. Let me explain…
You need to know what kinds of things turn you on, arouse you and help you to reach orgasm, if you want to give yourself every chance of squirting.
Fantasies, Kinks & Turn Ons
The first thing is getting comfortable with what kinds of fantasies and scenarios turn you on and make you orgasm easiest & hardest. It could be a rape fantasy, an orgy or even a scenario where you are dominating a guy. Whatever it is, understand that it is nothing more than just a fantasy and a great way for you to have super satisfying orgasms.
While many women can get off by simply imagining a scenario or fantasy, others need something else. It could be reading some erotica, watching pornography or even looking at a photo of guy you like. The best way to find out what turns you on the most is to simply experiment until you discover what is most arousing to you.
Getting Comfortable & Relaxed
As well as finding out what turns you on the most, the other thing you need to do is get comfortable and relaxed when learning how to make yourself squirt (something I talk about in the masturbation article). The last thing you want is some distraction taking you out of the moment and ruining an otherwise great time.
Everybody is different, so it’s up to you to find out what makes you feel the most comfortable and relaxed. Everybody has different things that they enjoy much more than other things. For you it could be lying in bed in pair of sweatpants while for someone else it could be while taking a shower and washing yourself. Like with your fantasies and kinks, you need to do a little bit of experimentation to find out what works best for you.
Know Your Body Physically
The next thing that you need to do is be familiar with how to physically turn yourself on, masturbate and give yourself a good orgasm. If you are not already familiar with how to do this, then make sure to check out these articles.
Once you are happy that you have some things that arouse you strongly, you know how to get comfortable and know how to masturbate properly, then it’s time to start learning how to make yourself squirt…
How To Make Yourself Squirt
Once you have mastered everything I have just talked about, then it’s time to actually move on to what you need to do to make yourself squirt. In order to make yourself squirt, you need a slow and steady build up…almost as if you are teasing yourself.
While squirting orgasms usually originate from your G Spot, you are going to be first building up by focusing mainly on the outside of your vagina, around you labia and clit. Over 5-20 minutes (the longer the better) bring yourself right up to the point of orgasm without actually going over the edge and cumming.
At this point you are going to be super sensitive. You then need to slide a finger into your vagina to start massaging your G Spot. Your G Spot is located on the upper wall of your vagina. It becomes more prominent and sensitive when you are already aroused. When you slide your finger inside, you will then need to curl it backwards. Your finger tip should now be touching your G Spot (it’s roughly 1.5 – 2.5 inches from the entrance of your vagina). You’ll know that it’s your G Spot because it feels a little bit rough, like the roof of your mouth.
Different women report different techniques that they use to stimulate their G Spot. Here are the 3 main ways to stimulate your G Spot.
Stroking It - Some prefer to gently stroke the length of their G Spot in a consistent way until they reach the point where they have a vaginal orgasm. While some women enjoy very gentle stroking, others prefer stroking their G Spot with a lot more pressure.
Pressing It - Others find that they like simply pressing in on their G Spot until they cum. Again you need to do a little experimentation until you find how much pressure is most enjoyable for you.
Using Something Else - Stimulating your G Spot is difficult if you are not particularly flexible. If you are having trouble doing it without your arm getting tired, then you should try using something like a dildo or even a penis shaped vibrator to stimulate it instead.
Everybody has different preferences, so it’s absolutely crucial to do lots of experimentation to see what feels the most pleasurable for you. It’s not a case of one technique working perfectly for every single woman on the planet. The fact is that you need to find out what works for YOU and focus on that.
Focus On The Process, Not The Outcome
While stimulating your G Spot, you need to focus on the process of exploring yourself physically. Ironically, you should not focus on trying to make yourself squirt. This may sound very counter-intuitive, but I’m serious. If you put any sort of pressure on yourself to squirt, then you are going to get anxious and tense, ultimately making it harder to actually squirt.
Focus on the process of finding out what arouses you and stimulates you physically and just enjoy that. Do not focus on ‘forcing’ yourself to squirt. With this in mind, don’t worry if you don’t squirt the first few times you try out these techniques, just keep learning about what you enjoy.
Keep Building The Tension
For some women, they find it super easy to squirt, while others find it more difficult. If you are having trouble squirting, don’t worry or get anxious, this will only make it more difficult to squirt like I just explained above.
What you need to do is go back to arousing yourself and building tension to the point of almost having a clitoral orgasm. When you are reaching a peak of tension again, go back to stimulating your G Spot. This time you will find it a lot, lot easier to squirt. You may find that you have to repeatedly go back to stimulating your clit up to the point of ‘almost’ orgasm before you then start stimulating your G Spot again.
The Release: Help, I Feel Like Peeing
When you do start feeling like you are about to squirt, you will most likely start to feel like peeing. Seriously! Don’t worry about this ‘peeing’ feeling, even a little bit. It’s totally normal. The fluid that you squirt is not urine, but it does come from a gland located right beside your bladder. This is why you might feel like peeing when you want to squirt.
So if you want to squirt, then you need to just relax and go with your body, even if you feel like peeing. Describing how to release and just let go using only words is actually a bit difficult, but you’ll know the feeling when it happens and the only advice I can give you is to totally relax, let go and allow your body to just do what it wants to do.
And that is how you can make yourself squirt! Now it’s time to try these techinques out on yourself! If you have any observations, comments or suggestions that you think our readers should try, then please add them below in the comments section.
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