Squirting 101: How To Squirt Like A Pornstar

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You may be more used to learning every sex technique imaginable on how to please your man from the Bad Girl’s Bible. But today, I want to focus only on you and teach you how to squirt.

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Making yourself squirt like a fountain is easier than you think. Here’s how…

Almost all girls have the ability to learn how to make themselves squirt and have body shaking orgasms. Sadly, not everyone gets to experience this wonderful way of reaching orgasm due to either miseducation, not using the right technique or even being afraid of squirting. However, if you follow my instructions, you are giving yourself an incredibly high chance of being able to squirt and enjoy these body shaking orgasms that accompany squirting.

First I am going to teach you how to make yourself squirt on your own (which is easier), then I am going to give you some advice for how to squirt with your partner (which is usually a little bit more difficult).

Ok, let’s get started!

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Before You Even Begin

Before you even begin using my squirting techniques, you need to familiarise yourself with your body. I know that sounds like some cheesy mumbo-jumbo that a spiritual guru might give you, but I am deadly serious. Let me explain…

You need to know what kinds of things turn you on, arouse you and help you to reach orgasm, if you want to give yourself every chance of squirting.

Fantasies, Kinks & Turn Ons

The first thing is getting comfortable with what kinds of fantasies and scenarios turn you on and make you orgasm easiest & hardest. It could be a rape fantasy, an orgy or even a scenario where you are dominating a guy. Whatever it is, understand that it is nothing more than just a fantasy and a great way for you to have super satisfying orgasms.

While many women can get off by simply imagining a scenario or fantasy, others need something else. It could be reading some erotica, watching pornography or even looking at a photo of guy you like. The best way to find out what turns you on the most is to simply experiment until you discover what is most arousing to you.

Getting Comfortable & Relaxed

As well as finding out what turns you on the most, the other thing you need to do is get comfortable and relaxed when learning how to make yourself squirt (something I talk about in the masturbation article). The last thing you want is some distraction taking you out of the moment and ruining an otherwise great time.

Everybody is different, so it’s up to you to find out what makes you feel the most comfortable and relaxed. Everybody has different things that they enjoy much more than other things. For you it could be lying in bed in pair of sweatpants while for someone else it could be while taking a shower and washing yourself. Like with your fantasies and kinks, you need to do a little bit of experimentation to find out what works best for you.

Know Your Body Physically

The next thing that you need to do is be familiar with how to physically turn yourself on, masturbate and give yourself a good orgasm. If you are not already familiar with how to do this, then make sure to check out these articles.

Once you are happy that you have some things that arouse you strongly, you know how to get comfortable and know how to masturbate properly, then it’s time to start learning how to make yourself squirt…

How To Make Yourself Squirt

Once you have mastered everything I have just talked about, then it’s time to actually move on to what you need to do to make yourself squirt. In order to make yourself squirt, you need a slow and steady build up…almost as if you are teasing yourself.

While squirting orgasms usually originate from your G Spot, you are going to be first building up by focusing mainly on the outside of your vagina, around you labia and clit. Over 5-20 minutes (the longer the better) bring yourself right up to the point of orgasm without actually going over the edge and cumming.

At this point you are going to be super sensitive. You then need to slide a finger into your vagina to start massaging your G Spot. Your G Spot is located on the upper wall of your vagina. It becomes more prominent and sensitive when you are already aroused. When you slide your finger inside, you will then need to curl it backwards. Your finger tip should now be touching your G Spot (it’s roughly 1.5 – 2.5 inches from the entrance of your vagina). You’ll know that it’s your G Spot because it feels a little bit rough, like the roof of your mouth.

Different women report different techniques that they use to stimulate their G Spot. Here are the 3 main ways to stimulate your G Spot.

Stroking It - Some prefer to gently stroke the length of their G Spot in a consistent way until they reach the point where they have a vaginal orgasm. While some women enjoy very gentle stroking, others prefer stroking their G Spot with a lot more pressure.

Pressing It - Others find that they like simply pressing in on their G Spot until they cum. Again you need to do a little experimentation until you find how much pressure is most enjoyable for you.

Using Something Else - Stimulating your G Spot is difficult if you are not particularly flexible. If you are having trouble doing it without your arm getting tired, then you should try using something like a dildo or even a penis shaped vibrator to stimulate it instead.

Everybody has different preferences, so it’s absolutely crucial to do lots of experimentation to see what feels the most pleasurable for you. It’s not a case of one technique working perfectly for every single woman on the planet. The fact is that you need to find out what works for YOU and focus on that.

Focus On The Process, Not The Outcome

While stimulating your G Spot, you need to focus on the process of exploring yourself physically. Ironically, you should not focus on trying to make yourself squirt. This may sound very counter-intuitive, but I’m serious. If you put any sort of pressure on yourself to squirt, then you are going to get anxious and tense, ultimately making it harder to actually squirt.

So remember:

Focus on the process of finding out what arouses you and stimulates you physically and just enjoy that. Do not focus on ‘forcing’ yourself to squirt. With this in mind, don’t worry if you don’t squirt the first few times you try out these techniques, just keep learning about what you enjoy.

Keep Building The Tension

For some women, they find it super easy to squirt, while others find it more difficult. If you are having trouble squirting, don’t worry or get anxious, this will only make it more difficult to squirt like I just explained above.

What you need to do is go back to arousing yourself and building tension to the point of almost having a clitoral orgasm. When you are reaching a peak of tension again, go back to stimulating your G Spot. This time you will find it a lot, lot easier to squirt. You may find that you have to repeatedly go back to stimulating your clit up to the point of ‘almost’ orgasm before you then start stimulating your G Spot again.

If You Are Still Having Trouble - Many women report finding that they can only squirt when stimulating both their clit and G Spot at the same time. If you are still having trouble making yourself squirt when only stimulating either your G Spot or clitoris, then try stimulating both of them at the same time.

The Release: Help, I Feel Like Peeing

When you do start feeling like you are about to squirt, you will most likely start to feel like peeing. Seriously! Don’t worry about this ‘peeing’ feeling, even a little bit. It’s totally normal. The fluid that you squirt is not urine, but it does come from a gland located right beside your bladder. This is why you might feel like peeing when you want to squirt.

So if you want to squirt, then you need to just relax and go with your body, even if you feel like peeing. Describing how to release and just let go using only words is actually a bit difficult, but you’ll know the feeling when it happens and the only advice I can give you is to totally relax, let go and allow your body to just do what it wants to do.

And that is how you can make yourself squirt! Now it’s time to try these techinques out on yourself! If you have any observations, comments or suggestions that you think our readers should try, then please add them below in the comments section.

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  1. Sarah May 8, 2013 at 4:28 pm #

    and how can I squirt with my partner?

    • Sean Jameson May 13, 2013 at 9:04 am #

      Hi Sarah,
      A large part of learning how to squirt with your partner is being comfortable with them. I would suggest learning how to make yourself squirt first before learning how to squirt with your partner. Remember, if you put pressure on yourself to squirt, then it’s going to be much more difficult to actually do it. A much better approach is to just enjoy the experience whether you squirt or not.

      Sean

  2. Bri July 29, 2013 at 5:11 pm #

    Um when I do it, I’m pretty positive I actually peed? I might have cummed a little but then after I peed? Sooo :/ idk

    • Sean Jameson August 5, 2013 at 9:46 am #

      Peeing a little while you’re cumming is perfectly fine and normal Bree, so don’t worry!

      Sean

  3. Brittany July 30, 2013 at 6:42 pm #

    Is it possible to squirt without massaging your gspot?

    • Sean Jameson August 5, 2013 at 9:44 am #

      Hi Brittany,
      Some people can and some people can’t. It really depends on the person.

      Sean

  4. Trina August 3, 2013 at 6:46 pm #

    I have tryed alot of things and still I cant. I get that pee feeling then it go away.. I really dont know what to do. I feel like I want to give up. My boyfriend has tryed to and i get that pee feeling and he will tell me to let it go and it go away every time what else can I do…Am starting to feel bad over this..

    • Sean Jameson August 5, 2013 at 8:48 am #

      Hi Trina,
      You shouldn’t feel bad about this at all! You’ll actually find it harder to squirt at first when you’re with your partner. The best place to try it is in the shower, when you are alone. This way you can immediately wash away any ejaculate with the shower water.

      And remember…some people can’t squirt, no matter how hard they try.

      Best,

      Sean

  5. ash von August 6, 2013 at 8:25 am #

    My girlfriend wants me to make her squirt with my tongue. Is this possible and if so How? Thank you!

    • Sean Jameson August 12, 2013 at 8:51 am #

      Hi Ash,
      It is possible, but a lot harder if you are not stimulating your G-Spot. So you could experiment with using your fingers (or a toy) to stimulate her G-Spot while using your tongue to massage he clit.

      Let me know how it goes!

      Sean

  6. Alex August 12, 2013 at 3:29 pm #

    So I never thought I would be able to squirt but I have a new partner and we had a spur of the moment sex experience. We ended up on top of a sink and I don’t know if it was the position, or my arousal from this new position but I became aware that I was getting very wet and he told me to
    Look down and I did and I was squirting all over him. It didn’t feel like an orgasm though…. But I’ve never had a vaginal orgasm so I’m not sure if what I did was squirting or not…..

    • Sean Jameson August 18, 2013 at 7:11 pm #

      Hi Alex,
      Yup, sounds like you squirted. Not everyone orgasms while squirting though.

      Sean

    • georgie January 2, 2014 at 5:57 am #

      Hi baby

      the best squirting experience i got from my girlfriend is she was on top of me and after a few drinks i liked her pussie from underneath. she was squatting on me and i licked her very well and when she squirtee i thought she peed on me , but it was a good experience. I want her to do it again. If you also want her, she is available

  7. Chris August 17, 2013 at 3:09 pm #

    Hi, my wife and I have been trying to make her squirt for ages without success and to the point where my fingers start to hurt her. She gets the peeing sensation but that’s it. We put no pressure on eachother with reguard to this subject and I’ve tried all of the above without success. When I suggested this subject to her she was a little apprehensive at first but warmed to the idea after reading a few forums. It’s ended up where I’ve been stimulating her g spot for over an hour, have an aching arm, very wet fingers, lost my and failed miserably at getting the desired result. I can sometimes feel the inside of her vagina swelling, almost forcing my fingers out but the the upper wall eventually seems to move away from my fingers. She always empties her bladder before we try but always has to visit the bathroom when we are finished. What could we be doing wrong? Could I be being too rough inside her? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I’ve had other partners before my wife who I could make squirt through g spot stimulation with ease so I don’t think it’s what I’m doing though I’m not 100% sure.

    • Sean Jameson August 18, 2013 at 7:02 pm #

      Hi Chris,

      The first thing I would do her is get your wife to try it on her own. It’s more likely that she knows the exact buttons to push to bring herself to the point of squirting. Then once she can do it on her own, get her to show you exactly what she did. However do keep in mind that not all women have the ability to squirt unfortunately.

      Best,

      Sean

    • Eva November 18, 2013 at 3:44 pm #

      Maybe youre trying too hard or you just don’t turn her on. Move on and find another partner that won’t take as much effort.

  8. Eva August 19, 2013 at 5:19 am #

    Hi, I’ve read your advice and have been trying to make myself squirt all night long, but I’ve had no such luck of actually making it happen. I’ve rubbed on my clit and kept myself from coming, and then found my g-spot and fingered it, but I’ve only had a regular orgasm. No squirting here. Maybe you could come over and do it for me, lol, seriously though, please help! Thanks.

    • Sean Jameson August 26, 2013 at 7:39 am #

      Hi Eva,

      The key is not to be ‘outcome dependent’. In other words, try not to focus on squirting. Rather, focus on just having a good time, while doing the things that will help to increase the chances of you squirting. You should feel a small amount of pressure building up when you stimulate your G Spot (very similar to the feeling of needing to pee).

      Often you need to apply quite a bit of force to your G Spot to achieve this. Don’t forget to experiment with different techniques and even toys. And finally, don’t forget that some women simply can’t squirt, but it’s really not a big deal

      Sean

    • yuvi November 16, 2013 at 12:33 am #

      Try with fingers in ur ass too… That’ll help

  9. Megan August 26, 2013 at 11:14 pm #

    I have always squirted when masturbating but just in the past year or so started doing it while having sex with my hubby. He loves it. But I have trouble doing so during oral. Any advice?

    • Sean Jameson September 3, 2013 at 9:59 pm #

      Hi Megan,
      Squirting is almost always a result of G Spot and/or vaginal stimulation. When your man is going down on you, he will mostly be stimulating your clitoris. While squirting from clitoral stimulation is possible, it’s much less likely than occur than from penis in vagina (PIV) sex.

  10. Cici August 27, 2013 at 8:21 am #

    Hello there! My problem seems to actually be the opposite of most of these other posts. My boyfriend, and previous boyfriends have been able to make me squirt, no problem. The technique seems to be to finger me really hard, in an upward motion over and over. I wouldn’t consider it rubbing or pressing, it’s more like slamming. Sorry if that is graphic but it gets the job done. Anyway, now my boyfriend is away on an extended trip and I can’t get myself to squirt no matter how much I try. I think my fingers are too short, and I don’t have the arm strength to hit my gspot that hard? I also used a dildo but that didn’t work for me either. I’m able to have a gspot orgasm but it doesn’t squirt. Any advice?

    • Sean Jameson September 3, 2013 at 10:03 pm #

      Hi Cici,

      Try using a dildo, but…instead of using it with with you arm lying over your stomach, try putting your arm behind your back to use the dildo. This will make it much easier to provide yourself with a lot of pressure on your G Spot area and hence make squirting a lot easier.

      Best,
      Sean

  11. nicole jock August 28, 2013 at 7:26 pm #

    I have never had a squirting orgasm i am trying i dont know if im doing it right or what but it just isnt happening.my boyfriend and i wanna experiance this together ive had really powerfull orgasms trying so i think i am doin somethin right i just need advice please help

    • Sean Jameson September 3, 2013 at 10:07 pm #

      Hi Nicole,
      Don’t focus too much on squirting as the last thing you want to do is put pressure on yourself (it will just make it harder to squirt in the long run). It sounds like you are already doing well and to be honest, I suggest that you just keep doing what you’ve been doing. Please keep in mind that some women can squirt and some can’t, not everyone can.

      Sean

  12. Snowy September 4, 2013 at 12:55 pm #

    Hy, my girlfriend really want to be squirt…. and i tried alot, by finger, by toung etc….. this time i will try my best to get her squirt. give me some tips for that and also tell me what is actually squirting material… can it harm my dick like periods blood??

  13. bubbles September 15, 2013 at 12:55 pm #

    Hi. I’ve been trying to squirt for some time. I’ve read a lot about how to do it but never really succeeded. I was perfectly relaxed and I had the urge to pee but nothing. I always empty my bladder before masturbation and sex. No squirting but the need to visit the bathroom after that. Is there something wrong?

    • Sean Jameson September 16, 2013 at 7:43 am #

      Hi Bubbles,
      Honestly you sound completely normal :) Remember that some people can squirt very easily, while others have much more difficulty. Keep trying and just focus on what feels good NOT on what you think will make you squirt. I know this sounds counter-intuitive, but it really helps.

      Sean

  14. tiffany wolfe September 16, 2013 at 3:03 am #

    Hi sean i came once for my fiancee and none of my past bfs couldnt make me cum or squirt i really want to squirt for him again without a dildo and i practice by myself alot lately and i have my hood pierced what else can we try ? Please help please send to email thank you

  15. tiffany wolfe September 16, 2013 at 3:04 am #

    None of my past bfs could make me cum or squirt. Same question as first comment

    • Sean Jameson September 16, 2013 at 7:40 am #

      Test, try, experiment and get to know your own body first. This way you can discover what you need to feel in order to cum or squirt without the pressure of having your man there. But remember, some women just can’t squirt, no matter how hard they try.

      Best,
      Sean

      • tiffany wolfe September 17, 2013 at 3:51 am #

        Thank you sean i know i can squirt cause i did it already but with a toy and my fiancee was going fast and hard, but it kills his arm cause it takes me forever to let myself go. Ugh i want to cum with him ,

        • Sean Jameson September 23, 2013 at 6:26 am #

          Hi Tiffany,

          Don’t worry, it just takes time to get relaxed and comfortable enough to squirt easily for a lot of women. Just give it time and enjoy the process.

          Warning: If you put pressure on yourself to squirt, then it actually going to be much harder to do it. Just focus on what’s pleasurable and stop keeping track of time.

          Best,

          Sean

  16. Jessi September 22, 2013 at 10:03 pm #

    When I masturbate/finger, i always do it alone. WHen i do it, im really turned on, the first time i thought i squirt, it looked like i peed. and it smelt like it to. should i go to the bathroom before i masturbate? I also haven’t orgasmed. I want to be able to squirt for my bf when we first have sex.

    • Sean Jameson September 23, 2013 at 6:13 am #

      Hi Jessi,
      Ideally , you should go to the bathroom both before and after masturbation/sex.
      Sean

  17. White wolf September 25, 2013 at 1:21 am #

    It felt great thanks for the tips

  18. Jessica October 23, 2013 at 12:09 am #

    Hello. Im a 29 yr old female I don’t know if that makes any difference. I’m also on the heavier side I’m 5’2 and weigh inn at 185lbs on my way to a healthier me. I’ve been trying to squirt by myself I want to surprise my BF. I know we would both love it. I’ve tried my finger and stimulating my G spot but I only have my usual orgasm as well as stimulating my clitoris and again I only have my usual orgasim I’ve never had an issue with having an orgasim wether through oral, self or penetration so now on to my new venture of squirting and proving to be quiet a challenge. Any advice?

    • Sean Jameson November 11, 2013 at 7:53 pm #

      Hi Jessica,

      The most important thing is to make sure you are not putting pressure on yourself to perform. Putting pressure on yourself is completely counter-productive. Just keep doing what you’re doing, but make sure to focus on what feels most pleasurable, enjoying it, without expecting to get anything from it. In time, you will slowly discover nuances to your technique which will bring you closer and closer to squirting.

      Sean

  19. Ashley December 11, 2013 at 6:23 am #

    I followed your advice. You’re right about feeling like you have to pee. I couldn’t believe I was doing it. Thank you so much! :)

  20. drea December 16, 2013 at 3:28 am #

    Hi im drea,

    I have tried for the longest to make myself squirt but just dont understand how to do it. Is it a way to do it without using fingers?

  21. Sasha December 16, 2013 at 3:11 pm #

    So I am able to squirt with my partner but not by myself. I don’t really feel comfortable fingering myself and when I do squirt he’s usually in very deep and I also like when he puts it in my ass, huge turn on!!!!

  22. Melanie December 16, 2013 at 4:11 pm #

    A couple years ago I squirted for the first time but never knew how to make it happen again but then a couple days ago while my boyfriend was on top I noticed that it was happening again so of course my boyfriend being the kinky guy he is wanted to see it so we did it from behind and I then proceeded to squirt over ten times it was amazing now I’m able to do it all the time just not .by myself

  23. Nadia December 19, 2013 at 11:08 pm #

    Hi,
    im from Spain and sorry if i write something wrong :)
    I would like to ask you about squirting. Actually i did it few days ago and yesterday too, but I’ve noticed that i do it only after a few orgasams. I do everything what you wrote and i feel the peeing feling very hard but nothing happens when i cum. Then i go for another one after a second or two and another and it happens. I would like to try it with my boyfriend but it would be so stupid when he would try so hard and nothing would happen. :( Am i doing something wrong or.. pls help. Thanks :)

    • Sean Jameson December 23, 2013 at 4:15 pm #

      Hi Nadia, sounds like you are doing everything right.

      Sean

  24. Bobby December 28, 2013 at 4:41 pm #

    Hello Sean,
    This is more for the ladies not really a question. So I am a man that has been very successful with making my girlfriends past and present squirt. The most important thing ladies is to relax. I know not every woman can squirt but chances are your not one of them. And if you can make your self squirt but your partner can’t don’t get upset. Coach him until he gets it right. As a man myself I can full admit it took lots of practices and studying. Yes studying the female body( which includes reading ) to fully understand how and where to stimulate. So in conclusion fully relax and either alone or with a partner, do what feels best for you. No one knows your body like you do and don’t be afraid to guide your partner. Happy squirting.

  25. Dee January 2, 2014 at 4:18 pm #

    I’ve never tried this on my own, just with my boyfriend and I started to feel that pee- sensation but I’m not sure to what point of that feeling I should try and let it go. Does the body release it on its own? Or do I have to push it out? Also it seems like every time I get close to that feeling my boyfriend has to stop because his arm hurts and then he’ll go back to doing it but its like starting all over again to get back to that feeling. I feel like I’ll never succeed and letting my boyfriend down

  26. Renee January 3, 2014 at 12:16 am #

    The past few weeks my hubby and I have been trying to get me to squirt. We’ve done tons of research on the many methods, but I am having one issue… having myself actually “let go” and squirt. I’ve gotten to the “gotta pee” stage handfuls of times, I just can’t get over that fence. I’ve even tried thinking about “peeing” to get it to release… and we are getting no results. But afterwards I have to pee like a rushing race horse.. HELP ME!

    • Sean Jameson January 9, 2014 at 11:23 am #

      Hi Renee,

      Try it in the shower and just go for it. This way if you do think you’ll pee (which you won’t) it will all be washed away by the shower immediately. Additionally, you’ll find it much easier to do it alone first before trying to do it with your man.

      Sean

  27. Nessa January 6, 2014 at 2:42 pm #

    The only time it happened for me was when I was 16 and on extasy. Thought I peed. No orgasm with it tho. Been trying to do it for years since and nothing.it’s weird

  28. Savannah January 7, 2014 at 7:42 am #

    Is it normal to squirt a little bit the first time? Do I eventually squirt more after some practice?

    • Sean Jameson January 9, 2014 at 11:11 am #

      Absolutely, it’s normal. Different people squirt different amounts.

  29. sara January 12, 2014 at 10:10 pm #

    Does it get easier to squirt the more you do it? is it like something you get better at by practice?

    • Sean Jameson January 13, 2014 at 8:30 am #

      Hi Sara,

      Yep, this is usually the case.

      Sean

  30. Sky January 13, 2014 at 4:39 am #

    When I squirt it sometimes smells like I peed and sometimes it is yellow like pee. Did I squirt or no?

    • Sean Jameson January 13, 2014 at 8:30 am #

      Hi Sky,

      Sometimes your ejaculate can mix with a small amount of urine. Try peeing right before you get down to sexy times to help prevent it from happening again.

      Sean

  31. Helloimshy January 23, 2014 at 11:18 am #

    Hi Sean,
    Okay so I masturbate I feel it i I let loose and I feel that great feeling but I do not cum or get extremely wet. When I keep going it’s that feeling that I just can’t continue because it feels idk it feels weird and my body twitches more but I can’t keep going, am I suppose to keep going?

    • Sean Jameson January 27, 2014 at 7:48 am #

      You could be getting this feeling because you are stimulating your clitoris. If so, it’s totally natural and nothing to be worried about.

  32. Lola January 23, 2014 at 9:32 pm #

    Hi,
    I’ve squirted once with a past partner in a big way while having sex – I consider it a random event. However my current partner wants me to squirt for him and I’m finding it hard to do. I feel really pressured to squirt, I do get a peeing sensation sometimes. I think I occasionally squirt a little but not the big gush that he wants. I’ve never really tried to squirt on my own and I’m finding it harder and harder to do with my partner – squirting has become an issue in our sexual relationship because it’s something he needs in order to be sexually satisfied. I love our sex life and want to find a way to do it. We have tried fingering, him going down on me orally and stimulation of both my clit and G spot. I’m not even sure I can do it because I feel like I it’s not possible. Do you have any advice?

    • Sean Jameson January 27, 2014 at 7:40 am #

      Hi Lola,

      The first thing to understand that in order to squirt, you need to be relaxed. So talk to your man about it. If you feel pressured, it’s going to be harder and harder for you to squirt because you won’t be relaxed. The less pressure you are under, the better.

      Next, you may want to do a little experimentation on your own to figure out exactly what to do to bring yourself closer and closer.

      Sean

  33. brittany March 17, 2014 at 6:53 pm #

    hey ,

    i can squirt as in feeling it and letting go and having wet spots on the bed but i wud like to know the technique to have it more of the water fountain “porn star” squirt

    • Sean Jameson March 24, 2014 at 2:16 pm #

      Hi Brittany,

      To make it appear more like a water fountain, try “pushing” as you squirt. The pushing feeling is very similar to the feeling of pushing out urine when you pee.

      Sean

  34. Kelly March 17, 2014 at 11:23 pm #

    Sean,
    Just read ur article and found it very detailed, THANK U! I TRIED last night w/ my man on the phone w/ me- I did get that peeing sensation! What I did was I was on my back, I used my strong arm to rub my clit and my left hand (index n middle fingers bc I heard use 2) to go as fast as I could n as hard as I could press on it but found my arm getting tired….I felt like I was under pressure (just a tad tho) bc I wanna squirt so bad! I tried to relax as much as I could. The peeing sensation lasted quite a while! I did actually finish but what I FORGOT to do was push when I came….is there a particular moment when I’m supposed to push? Oh n I did use lube I made sure of that bc I watched a video that said to do that- I’m def. Gonna TRY again tonight bc I wanna squirt so bad like I said! I just hope I’m not 1/10 of the percentage that CANT DO IT! I read 99.9% even ALL women CAN! Can u give me ANY feedback on this plz- much appreciated
    Kelly

  35. Kelly March 17, 2014 at 11:36 pm #

    Also Idk if I actually squirted before….just thought I’d tell u that an ex of mine asked me if I had peed- he actually started going down on me and then finished inside me- but when we finished I remember him asking me if I peed- I laughed n said no haha there was a huge puddle tho! Was this possibly squirting?!

    • Sean Jameson March 24, 2014 at 2:15 pm #

      It sounds like it was squirting, I’m 99% sure it was.

  36. Kelly March 17, 2014 at 11:41 pm #

    I actually did it 2x last night w/ my man (sorry I commented 2x prior to this as well) and the 2nd time was much more powerful…felt like I wanted to scream/moan but I didn’t (not only 1 in house lol) it felt awesome but I didn’t push like I said in 1st comment was I there? But just had to push?

  37. Notquitesure April 3, 2014 at 12:41 am #

    I’ve never squirted before… But I tried tonight and maybe I sound really dumb but does it make a sound? Or did I pee?!

    • Sean Jameson April 7, 2014 at 9:39 am #

      Some women gush instead of actually squirting. If the sounds you made was ‘squelching’, then you were most likely gushing/squirting.

  38. Jay April 7, 2014 at 8:03 pm #

    This has really helped a lot…before i could absoutely not squirt at all…I’ve tried so many things but nothing at all helped so i read this article and its no lie…all i had to do was really really false my self and think more of the pleasure and not so much focus on squirting…but then i started getting that peeing feeling but i knew not to worry…i had the peeing feeling for about 15min straight and i was wondering Why i wasn’t Squirting yet but then i started to think that ishould push it out…i started to Squirt little by little bit then it came out so fast and so much…I’m so happy that i can squirt now But now i gotta figure out how to squirt with my partner….Thank you so much!!!! Great Advice!!!!

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