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Even before the classic ‘7 year itch’, every relationship goes through patches where things just aren’t as exciting as they used to be. Breaking out of these boring spells and spicing up your sex life as quickly as possible is important for both of you. A great way to bring that thrill back into the bedroom is to play a game of dirty truth or dare with your man. 
I’m going to give you 112 examples of dirty truth or dare questions in just a minute (but you can skip straight to them by clicking here), but before I do that, there are a few important things that you need to know…
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1. The purpose of these dirty truth or dare questions is not necessarily to be as wild or crazy as possible. If that’s what you’re looking for, then try these freaky sex tips or learn how to have nasty sex.
Instead, it’s to inject some fun and excitement back into your relationship. So if you don’t feel comfortable using some of the wilder questions, then just stick with the ones you are comfortable with.
2. Don’t just rely on these example dirty truth or dare questions. Make sure to think up of some of your own too that apply to your own relationship. This guide on how to talk dirty will help you to come up with your own.
3. You can play dirty truth or dare with just 2 people or if you are feeling more adventurous, then try playing it with other couples.
4. Dirty truth or dare is just one way to keep your sex life exciting. These sex games for couples should also help.
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5. There is way more to a fun and exciting relationship with your man than just these dirty truth or dare questions. Make sure to check out our sex advice for women as well as the huge illustrated sex positions section for ideas, inspiration and tips on having great sex with your man.
Alrighty, let’s learn some fun and dirty truth or dare questions…I’ve divided truth or dare into 2 sections, dirty truth questions and dirty dares.
68 Dirty Truth Questions
- Have you ever kissed more than 1 member of the same family?
- Have you ever regretted having sex with someone immediately afterwards?
- Have you ever had sex with someone before you had even kissed them?
- Would you ever have a threesome with 2 guys & just 1 girl? What about a threesome with 2 girls & 1 guy? (How to have an enjoyable threesome)
- Who is the person that you’ve been most attracted to in your entire life? (Learn the signs of sexual attraction)
- Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone that you’d never want to date?
- When is the last time you cheated on someone? (Why men cheat & why women cheat)
- When is the last time you watched porn? (The reasons why men watch porn)
- Tell me a true sex story that you have never shared with someone before.
- When is the last time you masturbated?
- Have you ever swallowed your partner’s ejaculate? (How to swallow cum and enjoy it)
- If you could change genders for just one day, what’s the first thing that you’d do?
- What’s the sexiest item of clothing you own?
- What’s the furthest you’ve ever gone with someone the first time you met them?
- When’s the last time you’ve skinny dipped?
- What’s the dirtiest dream that you’ve ever had?
- Have you ever had a homosexual experience?
- If you could add 4 inches to your penis or 4 inches to your height, what would you choose?
- What turns you on the most in someone of the opposite sex? (Discover what turns men on)
- If you could only choose 2 things for me to wear, what would they be?
- Would you prefer to see me in hot pants or a short skirt?
- When was the last time you kissed someone?
- Who do you think about during sex other than me?
- When is the last time you had a hard on? (Learn how to make a man rock hard)
- Have you ever dominated someone?
- Have you ever been submissive for someone in the bedroom?
- Do you own any sex toys?
- Have you ever had sex in public? Do you want to try? (Learn the greatest places to have sex)
- Tell me about a really embarrassing sex story involving you?
- Have you ever worn clothing of the opposite sex?
- What age were you when you first masturbated?
- Have you ever refused to go down on a girl/guy? Why? (Discover how to eat a girls pussy)
- Would you ever consider making a porno?
- Have you ever tried anal? (How to have enjoyable anal sex)
- Have you ever hired a prostitute?
- What would you do if you found out your partner used to be a prostitute?
- Guys:Do you ever wish you had a bigger penis? (The science on making your penis bigger) Women:Do you ever wish you had bigger breasts?
- If you had a choice between a girl with obviously fake breasts or tiny natural breasts, what would you choose? Why?
- What kinds of sexual roleplaying have you done before? Secretary and boss? Prisoner and jail warden? Fireman and damsel in distress? Something else?
- Guys only: If women were willing to pay you for sex, would you become a male prostitute?
- What is the most amount of orgasms you have ever had in a single day? (How to make yourself cum easily)
- If your ultimate fantasy girl/guy told you that the only way they would have sex with you is if you both snowballed afterwards, would you do it?
- What is the longest period of time you’ve gone without masturbating?
- Has your partner ever laughed at you during sex?
- If you have to choose between a partner with a great face and horrible body OR a partner with a terrible face and great body, what would you choose?
- Guys only: If a girl said that she would try anal if you tried it first with a strapon, what would you say? (Discover how to use a strap on)
- Have you ever been completely rejected by someone?
- What kind of porn do you love/hate? Why?
- Is there a person who everyone thinks is ugly, but you find to be really hot?
- Is there someone who everyone thinks is hot, but you think is ugly?
- What’s the biggest age difference between you and someone you’ve kissed/slept with/dated?
- What was your quickest orgasm ever? (Tips for having a satisfying quickie)
- Have you ever said no to a partner’s sexual idea? What was it?
- If you knew you only had a short time left on earth, would you tell your crush that you love them?
- What is the biggest penis you have ever seen in real life?
- What’s the most satisfying orgasm you’ve ever had?
- Guys only: If you had a choice between a girl 24 inches smaller than you or a girl 12 inches taller than you, who would you choose?
- Women only: If you had to choose between a guy 4 inches smaller than you or a guy 18 inches taller than you, what would you choose?
- Describe the last piece of erotica you have read?
- What is the most important part of a man/woman’s anatomy?
- What’s the sluttiest, nastiest thing you’ve ever done? (5 tips for having nasty sex)
- What is the horniest you’ve ever felt?
- What is the weirdest thing that turns you on?
- Tell everyone about the best sex you ever had. (49 women describe their best ever sexual experience)
- If you could have a threesome with two people, who would you choose?
- Tell the group two lies and one truth and see if they can figure out which one is the truth.
- Where is the craziest place you’ve ever had sex?
44 Dirty Dares
- Show everyone playing the game your favorite porn site.
- Show everyone playing the game your craziest sex position.
- Give your partner a hickey.
- Teach everyone your kinkiest sex technique.
- Recreate the sounds you make during sex.
- Demonstrate how to give a blow job on an unpeeled banana.
- Kiss and lick your partner’s feet for 2 minutes.
- Bend your partner over your knee and spank them ten times.
- Bend over your partner’s knee and let them spank you twenty times.
- Slowly kiss your partner from their feet to the top of their head.
- Grab your partner’s hair and pull them into your boobs/crotch.
- Twerk for your partner/for the the group.
- Swap clothes with your partner.
- Race your partner to see who can cum the fastest.
- Kiss your partner while also eating a candy.
- Your partner has to use a sex toy on themselves the next time you have sex.
- Go commando for 24 hours. (Commando = wear no underwear)
- Guys: Finger your girl, then taste it. Women: Taste his precum. (52 women describe what cum tastes like)
- Drink a shot from your partner’s belly button.
- Pass a candy/grape to your partner using only your lips.
- Recreate the weirdest thing that ever happened to you during sex.
- Try to turn your partner without touching them.
- Give your partner anilingus.
- Give your female partner oral sex while they sit at the computer/watch TV/play video games.
- Eat fruit/food off your partner
- Undress your partner with everything but your hands.
- Get yourself off by dry humping your partner.
- Wear a butt plug for the entire day.
- Try snowballing with your partner after a blow job. (French kissing with his cum.)
- Don’t masturbate for an entire month.
- Strip for your partner.
- Suck your partner’s nipples. (12 more nipple play ideas)
- Guys: Spell the alphabet on your girl’s pussy with your tongue. Women: Spell the alphabet on the tip of your man’s penis with your tongue.
- Rest your hands inside your partner’s pants for the next 5/10/20 minutes.
- Sit on your partner’s face.
- Lick whipped cream off your partner’s chest/breasts/pussy/penis.
- Masturbate in front of the group/me.
- With a blindfold on, try to identify everyone in the group by their genitals.
- Stay naked for the next 2/5/10/30 minutes.
- Make your partner cum using only your lips.
- Take a shower and wash your partner. (How to have shower sex)
- Send your partner a naked snap.
- Tell two people in the group to start kissing, then direct them to start doing other stuff like undressing, groping, etc. (This needs to be consensual obviously!)
So there you have it, 112 dirty truth or dare questions to make sex and love making a whole lot more fun for you and your man. If you want to learn more on talking dirty, like how to use it to keep your man attracted then you will probably want to watch this dirty talking instructional video.
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Have you ever kissed more than 1 member of the same family? yes — stupid teenage days
Have you ever ever had sex with someone before you had even kissed them? nope
Have you ever regretted having sex with someone immediately afterwards? yep
Would you ever have a threesome with 2 guys & just 1 girl? sounds good in theory, but can’t see me actually doing it
Who is the person that you’ve been most attracted to in your entire life? Hard to say, that’s changes over time. Guess my current boyfriend is.
Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone that you’d never want to date? yep, lust happens
When is the last time you cheated on someone? 10 years ago, age 18, first college spring break, boyfriend decided to stay home and work that week . . . damn it was hot
When is the last time you watched porn? on purpose? never . . . somebody else had it one, three weeks ago
Tell me a fantasy that you have never shared with someone before — sex with a cute high school boy who is still a virgin
When is the last time you masturbated? yesterday
Have you ever swallowed your partners ejaculate? duh
If you could change genders for just one day, what’s the first thing that you’d do? Go running — never understood how a guy could run with that thing in the way
What’s the sexiest item of clothing you own? a yellow summer dress — I get more guys checking me out in that than anything ever, even the time I went topless at the beach.
What’s the furthest you’ve ever gone with someone the first time you met them? All the way (see spring break above)
When’s the last time you’ve skinny dipped? last summer, friend’s pool
What’s the dirtiest dream that you’ve ever had? Can’t remember most of them, but one I do remember is I had a part in a college theatre play, and instead of just having the normal embrace and kiss on stage, we started making out and ended up having sex on stage in front of everyone there, including my real-life boyfriend and the guy’s real-life girlfriend
Have you ever had a homosexual experience? Other than goofing around and kissing friends at a party just to be silly, no.
If you could add 4 inches to your penis or 4 inches to your height, what would you choose? Guess I’ll have to be taller, don’t have a penis.
What turns you on the most in someone of the opposite sex? cute smile
If you could only choose 2 things for me to wear, what would they be? jeans, top
Would you prefer to see me in hot pants or a short skirt? I don’t care . . .
When was the last time you kissed someone? today
Who do you think about during sex other than me? I only think about my boyfried . . . but on that spring break trip when I was cheating, I was thinking about bot the guy I was with AND what the boyfriend would say when he found out
no matter what I do he never gets a woody I don’t know why he don’t get 1 even if we re making out ,it just don’t happen until he wants it to there is no getting him aroused until he wants to be it bs, he never tells me what he wants and can go weeks with out sex or even thinking about it he don’t like me touching him when we are making out ,I am starting to think he is gay could it be I have been dealing with this for 2 years now its mind blowing any guy would pop a woody making out but not him is it possible he is gay he is so into himself there is nobody better looking or hotter than him
There could be a ton of different reasons D. Lack of libido can be caused by a ton of things like low testosterone, taking anti-depressents, depression, watching too much porn. I sadly can’t pinpoint the answer for you, so your best bet is talking to him and letting him know how you feel.
Just might get off like that he might be a diffrent type of freak or just gay
Ooh now I’ve been in this situation b4. Turned out he liked them young, like really young. I’m only 32 he’s 42. He was sicko. I cut him loose. Since then I met the man of my dreams and couldn’t be happier… Or more satisfied.
f**k yeahhhhhhhhhhhh
Have you ever kissed more than 1 member of the same family? Nah
Have you ever ever had sex with someone before you had even kissed them? Yes
Have you ever regretted having sex with someone immediately afterwards? Yes
Would you ever have a threesome with 2 guys & just 1 girl? Nope
Who is the person that you’ve been most attracted to in your entire life? My ex-boyfriend
Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone that you’d never want to date? No
When is the last time you cheated on someone? Last month
When is the last time you watched porn? Last year
Tell me a fantasy that you have never shared with someone before. Becoming rich and famous!
When is the last time you masturbated? Idk
Have you ever swallowed your partners ejaculate? Nope
If you could change genders for just one day, what’s the first thing that you’d do? Walk around naked
What’s the sexiest item of clothing you own? Thong
What’s the furthest you’ve ever gone with someone the first time you met them? All the way
When’s the last time you’ve skinny dipped? Few years ago
What’s the dirtiest dream that you’ve ever had? Cant remember my dreams
Have you ever had a homosexual experience? Yea
If you could add 4 inches to your penis or 4 inches to your height, what would you choose? Taller i dont have a penis
What turns you on the most in someone of the opposite sex? Lips
If you could only choose 2 things for me to wear, what would they be? Top and pants
Would you prefer to see me in hot pants or a short skirt? Idk
When was the last time you kissed someone? 2 days ago
Who do you think about during sex other than me? God..
so im dating this guy but we are long distance…ive dated a girl before but ive been thinking and when i think about having sex with my boyfriend, i get this weird feeling in my stomach but when i think of doing something with a girl (scissoring or eating her out), i dont get that feeling. im turned on by both guys and girls but i feel like maybe i likr girls more??
Only you have the answers to this one Summer.