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Use the arrows to browse through each sex position.
This sex positions guide has every position you will ever need to know. Rather than reading a sex positions book, you’ll find instructions and information on every enjoyable, popular and different sex position as well as some of the more exotic ones on this page. Just like our guide on how to give a good blow job, you may even want to bookmark it!
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Girl On Top aka Straddling Your Man
If your man is always on top during sex or in the ‘dominant’ position, then straddling him is a great way to switch things up and in a more dominant position as a female during sex. Below you will find some of the best Girl On Top sex positions:
- Amazon position
- Asian Cowgirl position
- Bow & Arrow position
- Corner Cowgirl position
- Cowgirl position
- Crab position
- Fast Fuck position
- Jugghead position
- Lunge position
- Man Missionary position
- Reverse Cowgirl position
- Sybian position
- Thigh Tide position
- Woman On Top position
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Sitting Sex Positions
These sitting sex positions are great if you have tired or sore legs. If you want your man to do the majority of work, while you literally “sit back and enjoy the ride,” then try out these fun sex positions below:
Standing Sex Positions
Some of these standing sex positions are great for spicing things up when you want to have more physically vigorous sex with your man. Another great thing about having sex while standing up is that you don’t need a bed. You’ll find that this list of sex positions is perfect for when you want to have sex around the house and elsewhere…
- Ballerina position
- Bodyguard position
- Burning Man position
- Dancer position
- Pump position
- Slow Dance position
- Standing position
- Washing Machine position
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Sitting Down On Your Man’s Lap Sex Positions
Any position where you are sitting down on your man’s lap means that you can make a lot of body contact with him, which makes them really good sex positions for those wanting to have more intimate sex!
- Back Seat Driver position
- Bouncing Spoon position
- Lap Dance position
- Lotus position
- Mastery position
- See Saw position
- Side Ride position
- Side Saddle position
- Sitting position
- Sofa Surprise position
Exotic Sex Positions
All these exotic sex positions are quite hard to classify, so I decided to give them a section to themselves as they are either a lot different from the other sex position groups or they are complicated to perform. Even if they aren’t that pleasurable, at the very least, the sex position names should give you a giggle!
- Acrobat position
- Betty Rocker position
- Big Dipper position
- Bridge position
- Chair Riding position
- Full Nelson position
- G Spot position
- Jellyfish position
- Lazy Wheelbarrow position
- Life Raft position
- Little Dipper position
- Octopus position
- Pearly Gates position
- Piledriver position
- Piston position
- Scissors position
- Socket position
- Speed Bump position
- Stand & Carry position
- Straddle position
- Wheel Barrow position
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Lying On Your Side Sex Positions
If you are tired or would prefer your man to do the bulk of the work during sex, then you should try some of these lying on your side positions. As you browse through each lying on your side sex position picture, you’ll see that some of them also include Spooning or a variation of Spooning, which is pretty much the most intimate lovemaking position you can do with your man.
- Corkscrew position
- Flatiron position
- Intersection position
- Leg Glider position
- Pretzel position
- Poles Apart position
- Screw position
- Sofa Spooning position
- Spooning position
- Sideways position
- Twister position
Lying On Your Back Sex Positions
These sexy positions all involve lying on your back. This includes probably the most famous and popular of all sex positions, Missionary. If you prefer your man to be in a more dominant position than you during sex or want to try BDSM in the bedroom, then you should try some of the illustrated sex positions below:
- Anvil position
- Bent Spoon position
- Brute position
- Butterfly position
- Coital Alignment Technique
- Cowboy position
- Criss-Cross position
- Deckchair position
- Deep Impact position
- Down Stroke position
- Drill position
- Exposed Eagle position
- Hang Loose position
- Italian Chandelier position
- Launch Pad position
- Legs On Shoulder position
- Missionary position
- Praying Mantis position
- Reverse Missionary position
- Right Angle Sex position
- Sandwich position
- Sea Shell position
- Spread Legs position
- Tug Of Love position
- Viennese Oyster position
- X Marks The Spot position
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Lying On Your Stomach Sex Positions
All sex positions while you’re lying on your stomach can be very relaxing and intimate, but they can also be quite vigorous, hot, and sexy, depending on what type of mood you are in. You should view these as sex positions to try when you’re feeling tired and want your man to do most of the work.
- Cross position
- Helicopter position
- Irish Garden position
- Jockey position
- Prone Bone position
- Rear Entry position
- Superwoman position
Doggy Style Sex Positions
Doggystyle is probably the most talked-about sex position for spicing up your sex life. Most couples find Doggystyle sex to be naughty and hot, while some find it a great way to hit angles they wouldn’t otherwise hit. But Doggystyle doesn’t just involve one position. There are a lot of different variations, which you will find below.
- Bassett Hound position
- Bulldog position
- Corner Doggy position
- Doggy Style position
- Eiffel Tower position
- Final Furlong position
- Fire Hydrant position
- Frog Leap position
- Lazy Dog position
- Leapfrog position
- Stairway To Heaven position
- Triceratops position
- Turtle position
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Kneeling Sex Positions
When many folks first start searching for new & hot sex positions, they immediately try variations of the most common ones, like Missionary or Doggystyle. It turns out that most of these ‘regular’ positions involve you either lying on your back or your stomach.
For a lot of couples, these variations of ‘regular’ positions are just too similar. If you are finding this to be the case, then why not try out some of these kneeling sex positions to spice things up. They all involve you being on your knees as the illustrated sex positions below demonstrate.
- Bended Knee position
- Blooming Orchid position
- Book Ends position
- Kneeling position
- Teaspooning position
69 Sex Positions
The 69 sex position is great for those who like to both give and receive oral sex. But there is more than one way to do the sixty nine with your man.
232 More Sex Positions For Incredible Sex & Orgasms
I also created guides on the greatest sex positions for specific situations. Whether you want to dominate your man, have a threesome or experiment with bondage sex, you’ll find positions for every possible scenario below:
- 9 sex wedge & pillow sex positions
- 14 couch sex positions
- 12 female dominant sex positions
- 17 bondage sex positions
- 10 sex swing positions
- 19 cuddling positions
- 18 threesome sex positions
- 12 shower sex positions
- 14 lesbian sex positions
- 12 sex positions for overweight people
- 17 pegging sex positions
- 13 sex positions for low confidence
- 28 anal sex positions
- 7 sex positions for big girls
- 13 crazy sex positions
- 10 blow job positions
- 7 best positions for female orgasm
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Try the Blowjob Positions section.
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I REALLY want to try these out now! I think my BF will bow to me and call me a Goddess for sure!
Awesome! Good luck and I hope everything goes well!
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I’ve done alot of these positions before ever coming to this site. Found some new ones I’m dying to try. Thank you sean
No problem Justice, glad you like ’em
My partner & I have full night sessions to which we do everything from all positions, all penetrations , all over the house(and back yard grass ) and sex toys . We are very fit , very private but an extremely Erotic couple.
Although we are extremely satisfied my Beautiful girl is now thinking of other things that we can do ( in her words “im going to up the anti ” ) , from ice cube penetrations to weeing on each others privates and each other (very stimulating) . Im looking for ideas that will keep me ahead of her “Anti” . I,am Her masculine prince charming with a great imagination , can you suggest any ideas , any book , or any web site.
Hi Craig, thanks for you comment, thankfully I have a solution for you…It’s called the Sex Bucket list (click here to read it now). Make sure to add your own ideas in the comment section that aren’t mentioned on the list to help out other couples.
Enjoy!
Sean
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Just let me say.. WOW!! cant wait to try some of these out with the hubby. Things have been in a bit of a rut since our youngest son was born in September. Thanks for this site I am getting tons of great ideas to spice things up a bit š
Great to hear Krista, let me know how you get on
Sean
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Sepide I live in tehran and ready for you ! how we can contact ?
Hi Farshid,
You can always contact me through the website in the comments section or through the contact page.
Sean
Me too lol
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Sean,
What would you say are the top 3 or 5 most intimate positions?
Hi Miri,
The answer is…it depends. Different people enjoy different positions and different things sexually. However in general I would say whatever position offers the most skin-on-skin contact is the best for intimacy.
Sean
Im younger and new at sex, my boyfriend isnt though. What are the easiest positions thatll keep him…. not as bored??
Hi Lacie,
I know you may think that I have the answer to this, but the truth is your boyfriend does. Communication is key, so ask him about what kinds of positions he gets the most enjoyment out of and what types positions he enjoys the most. Even get him to take a look at the sex positions section for some ideas.
I’d start with missionary that’s the easiest on your part and is the best choice for losing your virginity
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Hi Jackline,
Emm…interesting question. I guess it depends on a person to person basis.
Sean
Im really skinny and very flexible, unlike my boyfriend whos kinda chubby, what are the best positions to do so I dont get crushed but dont do all the work also??
Try some of the sex positions where you are lying side by side and he is behind you if you don’t want to do too much work. You may also be interested in trying out some of the girl on top positions too, although these require a bit more work from you.
Hi,what is the best safe and comfortable position for anal s** for a virgin girl?
Hi Mary,
Try some of these positions in the anal sex positions article:
https://badgirlsbible.com/anal-sex-positions
Enjoy!
Sean
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Hi Faisal,
This is possible. I have just changed hosts, so it may have gotten lost during the migration process. If you want to post your question again, i’ll be happy to answer it
Sean
God bless you Sean..I’m dying to be with my baby..I’m going to successfully perform some of these awesome positions with him and blow his mind away..! š
Hi Annie,
Great to hear! Let me know how it goes.
Sean
My boyfriend and I are both still virgins. He actually really wants to have sex with me (I guess because he’s a guy), but I’m afraid. My body is as ready as it can be though it’s a bit tight down there. I love him and I want to have sex with him too but I’m afraid it will hurt and such. Do you have any tips for me (or actually for us) like what position we can use? Missionary won’t work because my boyfriend is a bit overweight and I can hardly breathe when he is on top of me. Do you have any tips please?
Hi Renate,
The most important thing is communicating this to your man, so that in the moment he is aware that he may be hurting you. If you are quite tight, then one thing you should definitely use is some lube. This will help to alleviate any potential pain. As for positions, try some of the girl on top positions, that you’ll find in the sex positions section.
Have fun!
Sean
very useful website sean…. and very helpful too…
i hav some query whenever i do sex with my gf she is in lot of pain(unbearable according to her) irrespective of the positions so no enjoyments we do only orals.. and she is shy to try out new positions…
what should i do.. help me man…
Hi Nitty,
Try talking to her about it to find out the root cause of the problem. But the best option is to have her go see a doctor about it.
Sean
Heyy Sean, me again, i gave my bf head last night and could not make him.. you know, he said it wasnt me and that it was because of the fact my mother was right inside and could walk out any moment, i guess he was nervous?? Was that a lame excuse or can that really happen??
Hi Lacie,
Absolutely this can happen, so don’t worry about it at all. It really isn’t a big deal. Some guys are more sensitive compared to others, so some find it easier to orgasm than others. If your guy isn’t that sensitive, then he is going to take a little longer to orgasm.
If he feels under pressure to come, then it’s highly likely that he won’t. So try to focus more on both having a good time and enjoying yourselves as opposed to getting to the end.
Sean
Thank you so much!
Hi Sherry,
This all sounds like a very difficult and complicated situation. Honestly, I don’t think it’s the best idea to be having sex while your children are in bed beside you.
As for the actual sex, you need to understand that it truly is a 2 way street. You both need to please each other, it’s not just about you pleasing him. He needs to meet your needs too.
So you might want to consider having a more serious discussion about this with him, so he really understands that you’re not totally sure what he wants.
Sean
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Sex is my life but… What if your boyfriend has a lil dick?
Hi Heather,
You may be interested in trying any position where your man isn’t rocking back and forth that much so that there is no chance of him slipping out.
Sean
This sounds like youāre in a pickle, and that his is not a dill. Time to upgrade.
Then be thankful cuz you can pound him hard! Or have him pound you hard!
Hi Sean,
Would really appreciate your help with this one.
My partner and I have sex all the time, but we struggle to both reach our climax unless we do oral. We’ve tried so many different positions and what we have found is that his spot that makes him cum is at the end of his shaft on the top, close to his belly (pelvic bone) I’m puzzled to work out how we can stimulate that area? while he’s in me.
It may sound funny but when he’s in me and if im on top I struggle to reach that area.
Do you have any positions that may help get him to cum inside without help of a hand job or oral? and vice versa for me?
Thanks in advance
Hi Layla,
If he is having trouble cumming, then one of the easiest ways to become more ‘sensitive’ is for him to stop masturbating for a few weeks.
A great way to stimulate the top side of the end of his shaft is to get into the spooning position with him. But instead of entering you, he can thrust along the outside of your vagina which will stimulate the top side of his entire shaft. This feels even better when you are wet or use a little lube.
During actual penetrative sex, he will find the basset hound (when he leans backwards) or the g spot sniper position best for stimulating the top side of his shaft.
For you, try the cowgirl position, but instead of bouncing up and down, try grinding on your man forwards and backwards so that you are rubbing your clitoris over his pubic bone.
Let me know how you get on!
Sean
Milking the prostate of a man also gets them off very quickly. I’ve been married for 15yrs and have 5 children with the same man. And our sex life is still awesome. As said before by other people, communication is key when it comes to pleasing each other. Everyone is different when it comes to what they like, and not everyone likes to talk about sex. But if you don’t let them have a choice in the discussion things will go smoothly. Also, men LOVE a dominant woman. It blows their minds when you take charge.
Hi Sean,
My boyfriend is about 6’2″ and I’m 5’5″, and although I’m a virgin, I know that I’d be much more comfortable with being on bottom. I act very flirty outside of the bedroom but get pretty shy when it comes to anything very sexual.
I hear guy-on-top positions aren’t good for height differences, so what should I do? He’s had more experience than me, but he’s still very new to the bedroom.
Hi Bonbon,
Thanks for your question! The best thing that you can do is not worry too much about what you ‘think’ your man prefers and dislikes. Instead, try a few different positions and gauge his reaction when you are actually having sex. Thinking about how he may (or may not) feel about a particular position without actually trying it out will drive you insane! And don’t forget that your man is probably just as nervous as you are. Good luck & have fun!
Sean
Hi Sean,
Bonbon kind of mentioned it, but what are the best positions for height differences? I’m 5’2″ and my boyfriend is 6’5″. He likes to suck on my nipples while I’m on top but then I can barely grind on him and when he’s laying on top of me, his chest is almost covering my face. And I’m not too fond of doggy style because he’s a little too big. He also has an extremely sensitive head and shaft and have found that he likes it when I play with his balls while we’re going at it but I can only do that while on top (which doesn’t really get me off). Any suggestions? This is my first real relationship in about 3 years so I’m already nervous about messing up!
Hi Merce,
I would love to be able to give you 5 positions that will work perfectly for you. But the truth is that you need to experiment with different positions to find what works best for you.
While I wish there was a perfect solution for your situation, there unfortunately isn’t. You could make it a game for you and your man, trying to work through each of the 119 positions over the next few months.
Sean
Okay so me and my boyfriend/fiancĆ©e are both virgins we have only dated each other and want to take it to the next step. We are both ready and I’m really looking forward to this but he wants it to be safe and I want someplace someone wouldn’t walk in on us. But besides that what is an easy yet fun position that will make is want to do it again and again. And he is worried about crushing me but I can hold him for awhile. Please help I want to fuck him so badly
Honestly, I think that you should try out spooning or even good ole missionary. Let me know how you get on!
Sean
It’s been great thanks to you though your separate vacations making hooking up more difficult. And the school year is starting so there goes my free time.
hi, sean
so i been with my boyfriend for 3years, n we well i enjoy having sex everyday if i could but i dnt know why but when we have forplay i get wet fast but once into the forplay i get dry n it hurts when he rubs my clitoris and i cant seem to get myself wet again. i also thought of trying to have him do me from behind but ever since i had my daughter i have this kind of thing i guess embarrassment of a hemmoroid i have. i dnt know what to do can u help me please!
Hi Vanessa,
Don’t worry! Even when you are super turned on, you may have trouble becoming wet. It’s very common. All you need to do is use some good lube. Just remember not to use oil based lube if you are using silicone rubber based condoms!
Don’t worry too much about your haemorrhoid, we’re all human after all! I sure if you talk to your man about it, he’ll tell you himself that it’s not really that big of a deal at all.
Sean
Hi Sean
To be honest I feel ashamed asking this but I was hoping you could help me… For some reason that I don’t understand I can only get an orgasm when I’m on top. I would love to get an orgasm while my boyfriend is on top. It feels amazing whenn he is on top but I still don’t orgasm. I really want to boost his ego by having it while he is on top. What to do???
Hi Brenda,
Thanks for your question. The last thing you want to do is put pressure on yourself! If you do, you’ll find it much harder to cum with him on top. The key is not being ‘outcome dependent’ which means not putting too much emphasis on reaching orgasm with him. This can be especially hard, when you really want to though!
Many women report that they find it easier to orgasm in a position like cowgirl because they can control how much clitoral stimulation they receive. If this sounds like you (you need a good amount of clitoral stimulation to orgasm), then you may be interested in a man on top position like the coital alignment technique.
Let me know how you get on,
Sean
Wow it’s really interesting here,though
Dear Sean
This is really interesting and more of it would not destroy but would keep our relationships up to a very good standard.Please keep on giving us more.
Thanks
Thanks for your kind words Thuli!
i am university girl and living in girls hostel, where our room mates are lying fully nude at night time and playing as lisbion sex game. Though our all room mates have enjoyed penis pleasure with their boyfriends who are our class mate, but in hostel we wants which type of positions is best for us when we play sex game with same genders.Generally we uses “Bananas:” 1\2 portion in partner vigian and remaing parts in other partner vigina, but it is only for few min. of foreplay like an artificalpenis, please let me know the new positions for same genders.
Thank you so much for making this you helped me and my boyfriend have sex for the first time and each time has been amazing. We are trying all the positions because we are both new to sex and its been better every time. We recently tried doggy style which we first thought it was too animalistic but we did it today and it was the best sec ever. I had to squeeze a pillow so hard to keep from screaming it was amazing. Thank you again for making this wonderful place of sec knowledge.
Great to hear Kathleen!
I love my husband a lot and want to get intimate with him. We have tried many positions but I dnt know why I don’t enjoy during sex with him. My husband is slightly shorter than me. He often says that his dick is not that big to reach my ultimate point.
Now, he first starts with foreplay,then starts fingering to make me orgasm and then we start intercourse. I really enjoy the foreplay & the orgasm but not the intercourse. Plz advice.
Hi R,
Bottom line: Just keep experimenting. Tell him that you want to try and discover what are the most pleasurable sex positions and techniques. Straight up telling him that you don’t enjoy intercourse with him can be easily misinterpreted by guys (we are a surprisingly sensitive bunch!).
You can also try introducing sex toys into your sex life. Remember though, that’s it’s not just about penis length and girth (although for many women this is important), clitoral stimulation is just as important, so you may want to try out a position like the coital alignment technique for extra clitoral stimulation.
Sean
Hey Sean,
I read through the sex positions article. Is any of this safe for a pregnant woman?
Hi Shelbie,
I’m not a doctor and don’t pretend to be one online. Your best option is to talk to your doctor about safe sex positions when pregnant.
Sean
Ok im a lil chubby and its hard for me to masterbate the way i want to but it all works out but my man is in good shape but we do just one position an im tired of it. It makes me not wanna have sex with him. But i be so horny i wanna jump on him.. Tell me what can i do for the both of us thanks
Hi Shannon,
Honestly, I think the best thing is to just talk to your man and let him know how you feel about things.
Best,
Sean
Hi Sean
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now, we had a great sex life upon until a few weeks ago I realized that , I’m not aroused for him I don’t get wet anymore, he seems to think that I’m not into him anymore. He is my world I’m very much inlove with him but he’s always talking about how good his ex was and that she was always wet, I think he’s still seeing her so I don,t know if all of that is affecting me. he does,nt believe in using lubricants so thats a no no, and he does,nt believe in foreplay all the time. This is frustrating me we hardly have sex anymore because i find myself fighting to get wet but its just not happening. I need serious help.
Hi Annie,
Don’t worry! Let me tell you a few things:
1) Tons of women have trouble getting wet, even when they’re aroused by their partner. Your man is being a a bit of an idiot for getting in a sulk about it….but the problem is that he does not realise that it’s completely normal! The most important thing to do is simply talk to him about it, so that he understands the situation.
2) Lots of people use lube. It’s totally normal. Again talk to your man about it.
3) It’s not so cool of your man to compare you to your ex. Let him know if it’s killing your mood.
4) Your man needs to understand that you understand foreplay. Again, to make him understand, you gotta talk to him about it.
I know that my advice may sound like you should ‘confront’ him. Don’t! Instead, just try to talk to him about in a way that shows you are concerned and are not judging him, but do want to get it handled.
Sean
Hi I was wondering if you could tell me what kind of sex positions are good for when a couple wants to have sex in a car? Please and thank you.
Hi Anais,
Honestly, it depends…on how big your car is, how big are small both of you guys are and how flexible you both are. Just make sure to put the see right back until it’s flat!
Sean
I know in kamasutra the name of the sex position is the double decker but what do you call it? I may have missed it on your site.
Thank You
Hi Paula,
I’m not too sure, can you describe it?
Sean
Hi Sean,
Ok so I’m dating this guy I’m really into. We seem perfect for each other. Everything just works. The problem is that he is extremely experienced and I’m a virgin. He is very sexual and has been very vocal about it to me. I think about it all the time. I definitely want to have sex with him and want us to be in sync on every level especially sex, but I’m terrified that I won’t be good enough. I want to make him happy. What do I do? What are some good ways to ease into it without it being awkward? Those are just two questions, I have a boatload. Lol
Hi Jae,
The best thing to do is to talk to him so that he understands where you are coming from. Great sex is all about great communication, not just being experienced. Let me know how it goes.
Sean
Hi Sean,
Love the site, can’t wait to try some of these! What would you recommend for someone who is a little shorter in length? While I’m a fan of doggy style, I find there tends to be slipping out just before I come.
Hi Amanda,
If doggy isn’t working for you, then you should try the Sandwich sex position or the Victory sex position or even the Anvil sex position.
Sean
My hubby hates oral but the rest we can try
dear krystal your hubby is doing right if he hates oral .yo know sexually transmitted diseases can spread through oral sex so it should be avoided
I am very very shy kind of person when it comes to being in bed. I never make the first move, and for some reason cannot feel comfortable if the lights are on naked. I feel like I rarely ever do the work in bed and while I want to do something I feel like I simply cannot cross the barrier. I just feel too shy and nervous to ever do anything. I get flushed and shut down. Unfortunately.
Hi Amy,
That’s unfortunate, but there is a way past this.
Start small, very small and you will see how easy it is. Here are a few simple things you can start off doing.
-While kissing him, put your hands on his cheeks and tilt his head to a different direction.
-Initiate a kiss with him.
-Initiate a hug with him.
-Grab his hand and play with it.
Once you see how easy these things are (and how much your man enjoys them) then you’ll find it a lot easier to progress further and further.
Sean
Hi Sean,
My boyfriend and I have had sex quite a bit now, but I never seem to be able to.. uhh… finish I guess. Its gotten to the point where we barely even try for me anymore because its almost embarrassing. Any tips at all? We’ve tried a few things, and he’s more experienced (I’ve only been with him) And I don’t know what to do to avoid this. I don’t want to lose him or merely be used entirely for his enjoyment either.
Thanks,
Katherine
Hi Katherine,
Try some doggystyle positions š This way your hands will be free so that you can ‘assist’ yourself by masturbating while your man is penetrating you. Some women find it tough to orgasm during intercourse, so don’t worry, you are not alone.
Sean
My younger, but more experienced, boyfriend would like to have sex in the back of my car as this is something he’s never tried. What positions would be good for this so I can give him an experience to remember?
Try starting with a blow job using the Cinema position. After that you may want to try the Mastery sex position.
Let me know how it goes!
Sean
Where is it for lesbian
My bf was a virgin around 25+, me? well no, we made sex, now our relationship is on its 3rd month. And now he is asking me for new positions that will make him more exciting, im still in the reading process about this bible š the problem is his dick, it wont stand up at some time even how hard we stimulate it š just asking for a position that will make him cry for more. Lol
Hi Sani,
It shouldn’t be a too much of a big deal. Here’s the thing though…your man could be having trouble for a ton of reasons. He could be a little nervous or even stressed. Another reason could be due to watching too much porn, which often has a desensitizing effect. My advice is to give it time and make sure he doesn’t watch porn for the next few weeks.
Sean
hi
i am male, in iran the woman do nat live sex ,they think it is force for them,so i am going to go to sweden ,i dont know how to find good gf in there,can u help me?
Unfortunately the Bad Girls Bible is all about giving sex advice to women.
First up is a simple one which you can do by lying on your back ready for the missionary position. However, rather than spreading your legs – lit them up ad put your feet on your partner chest gently and let him rest on your soles. It kind of looks like you are squatting on his chest sideways if you are doing it right. You are not going to be able to kiss and touch as much in this position but it does give other benefits.
The position will increase how tight your vagina feels by virtue of the position, but also it engages the vaginal muscles due to the pressure making them squeeze tighter. This is from the pressure on your feet that runs down your legs, cum and all your pelvic area.
Extra hard but tighter version: if to close you ankles as close to your thighs as you can to feel a greater squeeze!
I was not taught anything new bout how to suck my man of 12years’s dick, he’s the only person I’ve ever given head to, & I taught myself everything u posted & more! But do u know. Any secrets on how to keep him from Cummings before me?
Hi im vikki frm uk.my gf is so hott and she is married.cn u tel m a hard position 4 hr2 enjoy plz
I just have to say that your site change my life. Thx and dont stop you are doing awsome job! š
Hi Sean
wanted to ask I did all you said for giving a BJ and My guy LOVED IT Every time. recently though he didn’t want one, does that mean anything. Because he’s always wanted one before we would do anything. please let me know. You are so helpful like Mia said
Hi Sarah,
Sounds pretty normal and honestly, it probably doesn’t mean anything at all.
Sean
Hey Sean, i havent really done that much with my boyfriend and im not super comfortable with my body. i’d like to introduce some of your ideas and possitions to him but i have NO idea how to even start.
if you have any advice please advise.
great website though!
Hi Gypsy,
Thanks! The easiest way to introduce new things into the bedroom is to just try variations of what you already do with him. Then try variations of these new things. And on and on.
Another way is to take the lead and just get into a new position (most guys love this!).
Another way is to mention that you want to try something you saw online. A simple way is to send him a facebook message of one of the positions that you want to try with him and tell him you’d think it would be hot.
Sean
Hi Sean, I was wondering, for some of these positions one of the partners has to take initiative to bend over or lead them to a certain spot on the house. If you do this before talking to them about it will it be awkward or will your man like it ? For example the Burning man, if I were too just lead him to the sofa & bend over will he most likely know what’s going on ? Sorry it’s a silly question
Hi Katie,
Avoiding awkwardness is key here. The best way to approach it is to initiate foreplay when you are already on the sofa. So start touching him, grabbing him and kissing him when you are already on the sofa together. Then it makes it incredibly easy to just transition to having sex with him and then start using the Burning Man.
Or if you are already having sex with him in the bedroom, you could try whisper something like this in his ear, “I want to try something”, then grab his hand and lead him to where you want to go.
Sean
OK I need to spice up my sex life its the same thing every time. I need ones that ain’t going to hurt my back . I had a kid a year ago and my back is horrible so please if you have any position that I should try let me know .
Hi Jasmine, it sounds like it’s best to talk to a doctor about this.
Sean
Hey Sean,
What positions would you recommend for overweight, untrained women?
(Besides traditional Missionary and Doggy….)
Thanks in advance
Hi Terri,
You’ll find a lot (but not all) of great for regular vaginal sex if you are a little overweight.
Enjoy!
Sean
Hey Sean,
I got a tiny question here. I’m a larger woman ( almost 205 pounds), but the only places I am REALLY fat are my thighs and behind, and my fiancee is a lot thinner than me (around 125 pounds). Sex was great so far, but I was wondering… What positions would you recommend for us, keeping in mind this big difference between our weights? Any “doggie style” positions are out of the question, due to my huge behind.
Thanks in advance š
Btw, you did an awesome job with this site! I just love it! š
Try these positions. They are great for anal sex, but also work really well for doggystyle.
Enjoy!
Hey hi I have a small problem with last 2 Week’s whenever I sex with my girlfriend she will be satisfied but I’m not all the time I don’t know why this happened with me. We sex with different types of pose but she can’t satisfied me. (I’m not using any type of supplements or medical products.)
Please give me any type of solutions.
Hi Mitesh,
2 bits of advice…The first is to make sure to constantly talk to your GF to let her know what you enjoy and what you need (just make sure to pay attention to her needs too!). The other bit of advice is to make sure you keep trying new positions and techniques with your GF. As you do, make sure to keep note of what you enjoy and try out variations of that.
What are the best positions for intercourse when the man is not well endowed. Also, how can I convince him to used enlarging sleeves, etc. with me because I like a full feeling, which I don’t get without an accessory.
Hi Renee,
Try the Anvil or Launch Pad positions.
Sean
My boyfriend and I want to try sex in our car, but I have no idea what to do! We both have fairly big cars, so space isn’t a super issue, but I need options of positions for sex, and oral. Help!
Hmmm…you could try the sofa spooning position that I explain here or something like backseat driver that I explain here.
Hi Sean,
I really need help. My boyfriend and I want to add more positions in our sex life. We only do some basic missionary positions and cowgirl. We tried shower sex but it doesn’t work. The problem were having is im 6’1 and he is 5’7, plus I have knee problems. Any ideas or suggestions?
You really need to go through each of the positions above and start experimenting. You’ll notice that you’ll go through a lot of trial and error to figure out the best positions for you 2.
Have fun!
Hey my spouse want a three some but I never had one and I’m a shy girl…The only problem we have is he want me to find the person.But how I approached someone and I don’t know no one who willing to.Can anyone help me..
Hi i have never had an orgasim and i need to know how i can get one
Hi Tyra,
Try some of these masturbation techniques and these tips on reaching orgasm, they should help you get closer.
Sean
I am wondering what are some of the best positions for those who are a little on the thicker side of the globe.. I have looked at all of the positions and they look extreamly fun but I’m not a small women and I dont want to more or less embarrass myself with my partner..
Hi Chels,
You should try cowgirl along with it’s variations that you’ll find in the “Girl On Top” section in the sex positions HQ. Doggy style is also a great option along with it’s variations. Let me know what you guys most enjoy!
Sean
Great guide to positions, thank you!
Hey me and my husband been married 28 years together 30 years. He has been my only lover. These last few years he has work a lot out of state. In witch has only made our sex life better. We now have phone sex, you name we have try it. Before that our sex life was good but now it’s great.
So I really just need a bit of adive. We started playing around with pretty large dildos well this mess up my vigjina you no stretch it out where it will get to louse for him to still enjoy.
Also we will be once again soon living together again. Advice how to keep this great sex going that we how have. Don’t want that tension of see each other to go away BC it was a great sex trun on for the both of us
Thanks
Hi Tanya, provided that the dildos aren’t comically large, you should be perfectly fine.
Have fun!
Sean
i dont get it what tell me again plz
i LOOOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVEEEEEEEEEE these! hit me upppp
My boyfriend and I play a sort of sex game with this list. He or I pick a number between 1 and 11 (for each of these sections) and then pick a number from that section. It’s a fun way to pick out positions.
Sounds like an awesome game š
Sean.
Thank you. I wanna do this all but i got a little situation and maybe you could help me?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He’s kinda experienced but I am still a virgin. I promised him sex when I turned legal age, which was last June. We’ve made out a couple of times but it’s always painful for me. And I think that kinda scared him and told me we’ll do it when I’m real ready. I am. I really wanna do it with him but what happened made me feel neglected. I wanna do this not just to please him but for me too. I wanna know how far I could go. I don’t wanna stay viirgin forever. I know that any other way I’ll feel pain and I have to get over it but that’s the thing he doesn’t get. He doesn’t want anything that forsaken my welfare. I appreciate the concern but it somehow deflates my self esteem thinking i cant give him what he wants. I wanna subject this for argument but it’s kinda difficult for me to talk about this. Im very conservative and this is one of the topics I felt uncomfortable talking. Please help. How could I convince him to have sex with me without sounding very sex-craze maniac?Do you know any position we could do that might help me avoid or at least lessen the pain?
Thanks.I’m really looking forward for your reply. š
The best thing is to just talk to him
Been there done them and i tell u lots of fun
What are some positions that me n my boyfriend can try if he’s always on bottom and I’m on top?
Check out the girl on top position section!
My wife does not like to give me a bj though I like it very much. What can I do sothat she agrees to do so ?
Talk to her. Find out why and see if you can address those problems.
Sean
Well, if it doesn’t seem as good when yall have sex together, then try just laying back and watching each other get themselves off. If having “phone sex” felt better and was more stimulating for you both, then that pretty much means that yall can get yourselves off better then the other person gets you off.
Do you eat her out?? And make sure your always “fresh” down there. That’s a big turn off when there’s a body odor smell down below…..
Hi
My Bf and l enjoy great sex together. But l want spice things up and blow his mind away as he is getting comfortable with our usual routine. Though recently he gets frustrated on the fact that his penis slips out of me during sex which l believe is affecting him to hold erection as before. And is affecting our sex life. What can I do to help him by getting our sex activities back and even better than before. And which positions would be great to help him from not slipping out as well as to relax. I need to show him some wow factor as he is the only man l want to be with.
Try talking to him to find out what he wants.
Also, any idea on activities or games to help improve sexual activities to avoid boredom
Michelle, you will find a whole host of great sex tips in the Bad Girls Bible newsletter here.
It would be nice to get more of this for same sex couples.. I myself am a lesbian and me and my partner enjoy what we do now but would love more things to try.
Hi Sean,
Wonderful stuff! I’d love to do them all. My wife though is always saying it hurts. Like if I go too hard, deep, really expose her or whatever. Is this just a (I hate to say it like this but can’t find another way to put it) “breaking in,” thing? We’ve been having sex for almost a decade and we used to get crazy, with some anal and double penetration even with a toy. It was soooo hot! But now it seems more than basic doggy, missionary or flat on her belly and she starts saying “ow!” I think when we were newer maybe she just buy her tongue because she wanted to show me she was willing. I don’t know, but I love her and DO NOT want to cause her pain.
Also, any list of anal positions? I see a few you mention work, but maybe a section would help?
Here’s a list of good anal positions.
Take it from a females perspective, not all women like anal sex. I’ve been with the same man for 15years and we still have a great sex life, even with 5 kids we still manage to have “our” time every night. If you don’t want to hurt your girl, then stop trying anal and go for some other positions that will stimulate you both. One of our favorites is him standing leaning back on a table or dresser, while I’m standing in front of him slightly bent over and me doing the moving. This position gets her “g-spot” on the inside while also stimulating her “g-spot” on the outside. But if that don’t work for you as a man, let me just say that the mans “g-spot” is in his prostate. So where she may not like it anal, you do. That’s where communication and being comfortable with one another comes into play. Give it a try, using plenty of lube, have her slide her finger slowly into your anus and see what pops up.
Lol wonderful staff around here
Hey Sean,
I just wanted some advice from you so here it goes… a friend of mine has been having sex for almost 3 years, but she still can’t have an orgasm. She’s been to doctors, OBG’s therapists and nothing; she and her boyfriend have tried a lot of positions and merely everything… Now they have couple problems, cause he’s the only guy she ever had in bed, and he thinks that it’s his fault somehow, and thinks that she might “try” other guys because of this. Any advice for them?
Honestly this sounds like a deep and complicated relationship problem that I can’t properly answer because I don’t have all the facts and details. If she is having trouble orgasming during sex, then she should first make sure she can orgasm on her own during masturbation. Once/if she can, then she just needs to replicate the technique she was using while masturbating during sex.
Thanks a lot! I’ll tell her, and I’ll let you know how it went:)
hi sean im trying to find more positions of sex for my man and i . he just never seems happy. can you suggest doggy style. positions
Try some of .
Doesn’t Doggy style hurt?
of course it can, if you don’t have good communication with your man. The same goes for any position you try with him.
Hi Sean,
Thanks for all your informaton and presentations. I cant wait each week for your emails.
I need some help, long story will try to keep it as short as possible. My husband, which I love with all my heart, of 3 years and been toghter for 13 years says I have no sex drive and show no intrest in sex. I agree to a certain point. I am tired, do all the house work myself have an full time job and a little 2 year old. He wants to explore outside our marrige with other people, I cannot do that my believes stops me, but he doesnt care does it alone 4 to 5 times a month and pays for it as well. I do explore, toys, different positions but cannot let another touch me, he doesnt except no for an answer. I agree that I am not always in the mood, I feel that I dont get enough love and attention and feel that I am not good enough for him any more al though he tells me I am the only one he love the other is just sex and only for fun, I dont belief it.
I want to play games and have fun just the 2 of us, but he says its lame.
Any advise please I am desprate.
Hi Jaylin,
Sounds like a pretty frustrating situation to be in. I think the best thing is to talk to your man about it so he understands exactly why this is bothering you so much and possibly even consider therapy. Marriages are partnerships. They aren’t about 1 person doing whatever they want to the detriment of the relationship.
Hope you work this out,
Sean
Hi Sean. I enjoy reading these articles of yours and they have made me a sex Goddess, my man loves it. I am just having one problem.
I seem to like being dominant but I like for him to be to as well. And I dont do submission very well. I dnt know how to if I dont pleasure him first.
Hi Nikita,
The main thing is talking to your man about this so that he understands your wants and needs and try to get him to share his. Then it’s a case of trying to meet in the middle.
Sean
HI Nikita, Sex is a pleasure where both partner should be equally enjoyed so my suggestions would be to give more foreplay to your partner and believe me , u will see he would be much good on bed very soon..
Good luck for a perfect night!!
Which of these (besides missionary) would be best for a virgin guy that’s really afraid of vagina and doing something wrong and just the idea of sex?
Hi Gabrielle, the answer is that it all depends. He may prefer doggystyle or he may prefer something like cowgirl where you’re in control.
This is a great tutorial for all, keep up the good work, thank you.
hope you have enjoyed some of them!
what do I do to enhance my libdo I love being fucked but my libdo z very low
There are bunch of things you could do like changing your diet, doing more exercise, talking to your doctor about how certain medications can interfere with your libido.
Its all about ur partner, if you have a great partner then libido never goes down!!
Its all about how long you can have the sex.
Also have a long foreplay..believe me it works..
I want have long sex with my partner but I can’t i become week after one short
Can you help me?
Try slowing it down and let him do all the work to conserve your energy. If your clit becomes too sensitive, then switch to a position like Doggy Style so that it’s not being stimulated and rubbed.
I’m about average weight but still pretty skinny since it’s mostly muscle (I weigh 175Ib andd bench press 155Ib), I’m also very flexible (I can easily do a split) and my bf is more average he’s pretty lean, taller than me, and not as flexible or strong. he thinks it’s really hot watching me flex and stretch when we work out together so what’s a good position where he can see me flex?
Downward dog is a great position for this.
I’m alot bugger than my boyfriend so therefore it’s harder to do anything. Do you have any suggestions on what could work?
Keep experimenting and find what works for you.
Wow, i luv dis! Kip up sean
pls never u ever include homosexual or bisexual drawings in ur website. I hate it. even d devil hates it dat was why he chose eve for his job. homosexuals & bisexuals be they men or women are fucking degenerates. this site are for clean people who look sex d natural way.
You’re the degenerate. Where the hell do you get off thinking it’s okay to tell someone how or what to include on their own website? If you don’t like it, if you can’t be kind and non-judgemental to EVERYONE, then you need to go away, quit reading, commenting and participating on here. YOU make me so fucking sick to my stomach, NOT the sexual preferences, sexual orientation of the other people here. Remember, the Bible also tells us Not To Judge.. No, Go Away!
Well said Trene !
Tony, people come here for advice to help their sex lives. There is no place for your small minded homophobic rants
Who anyone chooses to sleep with is of no concern to you,
It doesnt effect you and is none of your business quite frankly
hi Susan,
great job!my husband cum b4 I even start enjoying sex.I don’t what to do becos he’s killing my mood by d day.pls advise me.
My baby alwes like us to have sex on phone while I don’t. now she is getting fae away from me. please, advice!!!!!!
This guide should help.
Hi my name is Dianna š
I love bargirlsbible! I’ve done most of the stuff, and every once in a while I learn something new, thank you!
I love the sex position pics there great!
I was wondering do you have a threesome sex position page made yet? Or is that something you could do?
My boyfriend and I have had threesomes, we love the positions we have done but it would be so awesome to try some new ones????
Great idea Dianna, I’ll add it to me to do list!
hi am judith,my husband love anal sex but av never done it before and am afraid.please advice me.
Check out the for advice.
my partner usually complains that she is never satisfied during that act what should i do to make her satisfied
Keep doing it till the end and even when u r done …dont leave her alone…just keep licking her pussy after the sex also. She would love that and u will also get ready again.
those positions are gud but me & my twin sister loves spoon style that gives a best pleasure
I got my bb to cum real hrd la$t night from piledriver, thx for advice i <3 this site
p.s. Sean let's get together sum time
First time here,..I would love to hear your advice about how a man really feels about going down on his woman? I’ve never been comfortable receiving oral sex for some reason,..not sure why,..
Most guys enjoy it, but like with everything, not everyone does. The reasons that you don’t enjoy it could be many. It could be performance anxiety, not feeling comfortable with yourself down there or something else.
Me and my Boyfriend is working out for these tricks! He’s doing a few of them Tonight!
The only position I can orgasim in is the cowgirl, how do I orgasim other ways and positions?
It sounds like you have “trained” your body to only cum from cowgirl. It can take some time (even many months) to train yourself to cum in other ways. The key is avoiding cowgirl during this time and finding new positions where you get a lot of pleasure. Provided you don’t put any pressure on yourself, over time you should be able to “train” yourself to orgasm in these positions.
My boyfriend has a broken arm and I am extremely insecure on top, could you recommend a few positions? PLEASE SAVE MY SEX LIFE
How about some standing sex positions?
How do you get a vaginal orgasm from a marker or pen?? I’ve been trying to get one, and it feels amazing, but I can’t squirt or have an orgasm HELP!
Hi Sean,
My husband and I have a serious problem when it comes to intimacy. He wants lots of foreplay, whereas I just want to have sex. We’ve been married for almost 5 years, and he’s completely unsatisfied. He wants me to give him a blow job and try different positions, but honestly I don’t want to because I don’t think I’m sexy. Today he got so upset about our sexual relationship that he’s basically punishing me (not allowing me certain things that I want) until I start pleasing him. I don’t like performing a blow job. I’m happy with missionary and doggy positions, but he constantly wants more. Any suggestions? Thanks.
I have a similar situation where I like to perform cunnilingus but my wife does not like it so i respect her views. Sometimes when I am kissing her belly, I slowlt run my lips close to her clitoris and able to dip my tongue in her vagina for a few seconds. That keeps me happy. But she occasionally gives licks my penis and I feel she likes it so I allow her to do so.
She only enjoys missionary because this is the position that gives her guaranteed orgasm each time we have sex.
My suggestion to you is that you talk to him and each time you are about to have sex, give him a strong kiss//smooch so that he gets really horny and I tell you, men are quick to rush their shaft in to the vagina when they get turned on by their partners. Hope this helps.
Hi sean…I need ua help desperatley……m virgin so I can’t use these tricks on him…..but ma bf is having some ego issues that breaks me sometimes……….he become arrogant n dn I feel helpless .. Sometimes I feel I should quit now.but dn I realise i love him…….now tell me what i have to do to save ma relation….plz help me.????
I am a 51 year old married female and I love what you are talking about.I am very shy when it comes to sex and in experience in a lot of areas so this is a big help to me. My husband is 41 yrs old and is high nature and in his words freaky as hell. I appreciate the new knowledge and I have tried a few of your technique and damn it it worked like a charm.I am willing to go futher.
I am a young man and I easily ejaculatate within few minutes of having sex. What sex position will you advice
It really depends and the position may not be what changes your time to ejaculation. My advice is to experiment and see what works best for you
Me and my boyfriend just laughed at these comments for an hour, this is comic gold, bless all of you except that one homophobic dickweed.
Keep banging each other, you weird cats.
Cheers-
Jason
I didn’t like what the homophobic dickweed said either, I even took the time to tell him to go the fuck away, that he made me sick and that he was the fucking degenerate!
So, my guy has a bad back and pretty much sticks to laying on his back while I blow him because cowgirl does nothing for me. I’m totally bored and frustrated with this. My man’s dominance is what turns me on, and this is killing my desire.
So, my guy has a bad back and pretty much sticks to laying on his back while I blow him because cowgirl does nothing for me. I’m totally bored and frustrated with this. My man’s dominance is what turns me on, and this is killing my desire.
Can you suggest positions that would be comfortable for him but that would give me something?
Try the Thigh Tide position, which provides more clitoral stimulation.
Love getting inspiration from these sex positions, it’s always nice to try something new!
Love to be getting more of this it’s always good and nice to start something extraordinary
Amazing
I just can’t wait to try them all with my man. Thank you so much ā¤
I could already imagine us getting intimate in sitting position lol ?
I think everyone heard the good old “joke” about having Aspirin (between the knees) as contraception. And I think this joke is about the lack of creativity in sex.
…And I’m so dissapointed there’s no “Closed leg positions” collection here! You’ve created a bunch of lists, even “Crazy sex positions”, but no closed legs one. I think it should be here on the main sex positions page. š (I mean, please add a new part to the main sex positions page with a list of closed leg positions. š )
Hey Sean,
I’m not sure if you have already answered this or made a post about it, but can you please have something about sex positions for big women. Both me and my boyfriend are on the heavy side of weight. I do weigh more than him. We pefer me to be on top, but I still can’t shake the thought that I could be crushing him. It gets in my head during sex, which can ruin my mood and turn me off.
Sincerely,
Crushing my boyfriend.
Sure thing, you can find the sex positions for big girls guide here. Apologies for the illustrations, we can’t afford an illustrator right now š
Hi Sean
I am meeting a guy at work and we have amazing sex (in the toilet!) now there is a change- in the beginning he sometimes wanted me to do a BJ, and he as well came (sometimes very quickly) and now this has stopped, he never asks me, if I do it he stopped me after some time and we have sex but I want him to like my BJs and somehow he doesnāt anymore. Should I just try out some other positions maybe? It really challenges me, I feel like Iām doing everything wrong. Thanks for your advice:)
Sil
I try ride my boyfriend but it don’t stay in me how can I get it to stay in me. I can never get to turn him on but he can turn me on need some help
It’s hard to tell who’s causing this. My advice: talk to him and see if you can figure out why it’s happening and experiment with other positions to see if it happens less.
My man only wants doggy style itās been the same for months.. he loves my blowjobs loves my dirty talk while having sex.. we spice it up with rough sometimes but still itās the some old babe lay down.. I send him dirty text throughout the day. I donāt know how much more to do.
Talk to him
Hi Sean,
My boyfriend and I tried having sex, and I couldn’t relax.(first time) I felt like I was going to screw up, and I didn’t know how to feel him up, without it being weird. It felt like he was doing most of the work, and I didn’t know to reciprocate. He is also a foot taller than me, so it seemed like we didn’t know how to line up. Plus apparently I bite when I kiss…
Your advice would be greatly valued, Thank you so much.
My advice is to talk to each other!
My boyfriend and I have been talking about different positions and have tried quit a few. I have read a lot of your different articles and my confidence is so much more than in the beginning. Now when I tell my boyfriend i have been reading he always can’t wait for me to try anything new on him. My question is I just had surgery and was wondering if you had some suggestions for positions that might be more comfortable for me. My incision is up by my ribs. Any advise is greatly appreciated. Thank you
I need solo positions š©
Hi Sean,
What sex positions would you suggest if I am a 5 foot 4 woman and my husband is 6 foot 5? The other issue that I am having this the size of his penis we have tried a few of the positions on here but they don’t work well or I have pain during sex do to his size.
Thank you for your time
The key is experimenting with positions that put you in control and good communication. This way you will never have to worry about him suddenly thrusting super deep. Having him lie on his back is a good start
My wife sometimes feels uncomfortable in the doggie style position. I have a medium-sized penis and during sex I don’t feel like my penis is resting on anything. Although other times it can be fine. The position is exactly the same. Sean, why would this happen?
Hi Sean. Me and my partner we rarely orgasm. What is best position you suggest we must try.I like sex a lot but she seems not to enjoy even when we do it once in a while.
Everyone and everybody is different. You need to experiment with multiple positions to see what works for you. You may also want to start earlier and experiment with foreplay to make sure you are aroused enough before you start having sex.
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It would be brilliant if you had links to fellow sites that gave advice/taught sex techniques to gay/bi men.
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